Character analysis of Sid&SIDMA for AR&SIDMA fans

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I request the moderators not to close this topic coz we have full write to analyse a character and a couple in accordance with our opinions..
I've not tried to insult any character or couple here so kindly leave my thread open...
Before I begin I wud like to tell u guys that after reading my post you people wud love to throw stones and tomatoes at me for being so harsh and adamant but I can't help myself from praising and criticising Sid's character and talking about SIDMA.I know I'll get good number of red points for this but I've never even cared for them so go ahead....
This post is a complete character sketch of Sid with a brief analysis of SIDMA's relationship...
Dr. Siddhanth Modi was introduced to us as a person who didn't wish to be doctor and desired to enjoy life.We saw him doing overacting very often which was not required at all.The influence of Armaan in Sid's character can't be ignored by any one of you...
His character began much similar the way of Armaan's.He said that girls followed him and the first accidental meeting with Dr. Tamanna began with a fight too.This was much similar to the beginning of Armaan and Riddhima.They also began their relationship with a fight...We found him as a carefree person and a bit irresponsible too but a girl makes him realise his responsibilites and finally he comes to know what is the duty of a doctor.We got a glimpse of it in the village when he fights for his patient with the head of the village.We then found him falling for Dr. Tamanna and he thought that he loved her but the girl made him realise that it was just a mere attraction.She told him that he was just like a kid who wanted to always achieve the thing he has desired for..
Dr. Tamanna's exit accompanied with Riddhima's entry and we again see them fighting in the worst manner in their first meeting..
As Armaan was not yet back and the first meeting gave us an indication that SIDMA might be paired up, some of you eventually started looking forward for more SIDMA scenes.I was actually surprised to find that many people found it refreshing.It was again the repeation of fights which we have always seen in case of Armaan-Riddhima.Siddhanth and Riddhima both acted immaturely and fought unnecessarily.
Change in Riddhima's character was a good surprise for us because she was now shown as egoistic and much adamant in her views...
The fights and challenges were on full mode when we came across the sweet beautiful little girl Tamanna.Riddhima's insane behaviour made Siddhanth do something which I had least expected from him.
Let me tell u that till this point of time I've loved the character of Siddhanth Modi.As soon as he captured disgraceful snaps of him and Riddhima,my dislikeness towards his character began.I knew that these photos are going to make Riddhima's life hell.Eventhough he intended to just blackmail Riddhima and make her realise the meaning of insulting others,yet those photos ended up by bringing a question on Riddhima's dignity.This happened coz of his careless behaviour.How could he simply leave that file and go away even for a brief time???
A public apology by Siddhanth Modi might have made people think good about Riddhima but the society was never going to forget those photos...
Then came the most heart-throbbing and exciting twist in DMG where Riddhima comes to know the truth about Armaan and here we find a new Sid again who tries to help a father by taking care of his daughter in her attempt to get back her love.
He made an aim to unite Armaan and Riddhima and during that time he himself started developing feelings for Riddhima in the same way he had first felt for Dr. Tamanna.He started liking her.
Riddhima also found a great friend in him and her hatred towards him decreased.When he wanted to make Riddhima a friend ,Riddhima denied his offer and that was the best part on Riddhima's side.I simply loved it.
The ballastic Riddhima,crazy to meet Armaan and Sid becoming her helper to take her to Armaan was shown very beautifullly...But I didn't like Sid getting distracted from his purpose to be there with Riddhima.
The way Siddhanth made Riddhima understand the purpose of Armaan going once again away from her coz Armaan knew that they will not remain happy together was fantastic..He made her to understand the meaning of Armaan's letter but the girl just wanted to meet and talk to her love.She wanted to be with him when he needed her the most.So she tried to look for Armaan once again ...
Till this point,I liked Sid for being helpful to Riddhima as a good friend and disliked him for developing feelings for her....
Now came the decieving point from the creatives of DMG.To bring Siddhanth and Riddhima together they played the most disgusting shot.They made Riddhima's health worse and called it Sid's exam in his attemp to save her life.Such a scene defintely crossed all the moral values....Ironically it was the test of patience of all Armaan-Riddhima fans...
We had never expected cv's to use such an old and hateful concept to frame two people together and start their journey....
Next Sid becomes a great man who told Shashank that he'll marry Riddhima when the Shanky said that 'who will marry a defamed girl?'
Has Sid done something great by marrying Riddhima?He had brought her family's reputation at risk and so if he decided to marry Riddhima it was not doing something coz of his gentle heart.It was the need of the circumstances.Poor Riddhima didn't have any other option to agree coz she could not see her family getting dishonoured in the society.
When she tried to commit suicide ,Sid saved her life once again and made her realise the mistake she was going to commit.
He sid that he wud have never forgiven himself if she would have died coz of him....
Then SIDMA's marriage took place breaking the heart of all AR fans who had stuck to DMG for two years for watching the unison of Armaan and Riddhima and not SIDMA...

Now we come to see another shade of Siddhanth Modi's character...
We found him becoming a cruel husband who insulted his wife infront of others.what was her fault? Only this that she thought better to die than to marry another man and murder the relationship which had given her many happiness.
Becoming Sid so rude was least expected from the character of Siddhanth Modi..Moreover he put all the blame on Riddhima for making him like this.Didn't he know that she loved Armaan? Didn't he promise to be a good friend to her after marriage???All those words vanished as soon as he saw Riddhima trying to take away her life.His character would have gained some respect, if he would have try to understand the circumstances in which this marriage took place and the condition of the girl who had married him for the sake of society... Making things worse he even tried to get physical with her.The excuse which he had was the honeymoon tickets send by shashank which he assumed to be kept by Riddhima.
Then again,sometimes later we find him developing a soft corner for Riddhima during their so called honeymoon when he saw Riddhima trying to make futile attempts for the betterment of their relationship and decrease Sid's hatred towards her.He called Riddhima fake and doing drama without even giving a second thought to her actions and gestures...
He still didn't believe her and they decided to tell the truth to Dr. Shashank soon after going back..They talked about seperation many times....
Riddhima was definitely great by tolerating all the rudeness of her husband coz she had realised that she was going to do commit a sin by taking away her life..

We slowly see SIDMA's relationship taking a U-turn..
Now her emerges another Siddanth modi who tries to take the side of his wife after his mom enters in their life and calls his wife as his friend's wife..When riddhima asked the reason to tell a lie he gave such a simple reason that 'what should he tell mom? Sould he tell that she doesn't love him but some Armaan?'
Riddhima became silent observer and tried to do whatever Sid asked...She wished him to let her meet the girl his mom has chosen for him if he likes that girl..
SIDMA appeared to behave little mature and a little bit ofunderstanding developed in them.Riddhima liked his caring nature while Siddhanth was concerned only in getting the true relationship which a husband-wife had and that consisted of love,understanding,trust and respect for each other.Unfortunately apart from respect from Riddhima's side and mutual understanding the couple lacked the other two basic foundations....He tried to be a typical husband and that was the negative shade of Siddnath's character as he repeatedly refused to believe Riddhima.

Next we saw Sid again backing off from telling his mom the truth for the sake of YUNA's relationship .When he approached Riddhima he finally told her that he has began liking her and this prevented her from leaving the house.But again for Sid's mom she chose to leave the house.
We see SIDMA gaining some more maturity and respect in their relationship...

Now came another change in Sid's character after Armaan's entry.He pretends to be an angel in disguise for Armaan and makes him meet Riddhima.We find a serious Sid who wishes Riddhima to choose her destiny herself without even letting her know what he wants her to do..
The impetuously confused Riddhima is left only with tears as she tries hard to avoid Armaan and wishes to talk to her husband in vain.Her husband just tells her that 'if she wants to say anything to him he is there'.What did he expect Riddhima to say??did he expect her to say that she wanted to be with Armaan ignoring the truth of their marriage?the girl who had married him for the sake of society will never dare again to reak the rules of society by chosing her love over her husband...The two lacked a complete sense of understanding this time...The game of words and feelings was not to be done at all...

Riddhima's so called husband again puts her in trouble by asking her to pretend as Armaan's wife.The beautiful reason given by him was that whatever they are doing is for their beloved ones-YUNA,his mom and Dr. Shashank...
Actually he wanted her to take time in chosing him or Armaan.
Sid thought that Riddhima has the right to chose but it was not Riddhima but he who had the choice to first make riddhima forget all tioes with him for a second and then choose whom she wants in her life.Doesn't he know that the bond of marriage is above all the truths.He tried to hide his marriage ,first from his own parents and then from Armaan with his own selfish reasons...The cause of becoming so genuine was to know whether Riddhima loved Armaan or him.I'm sorry but not everyone like him falls in love again and again...
In the last episode also he behaved like a coward and a silent spectaculator and was ready to see what is going to happen next..
Riddhima was looking at him again and again to speak something and when she looked at the last time and he looked away the girl took the dare herself and managed to reveal the truth.A big applause for Riddhima...
Now Sid has his mom's consolidations and support and he also has wife with him..
What else would he need for????
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I'm extremely sorry to the fans of SIDMA and Sid for being soo much rude but truth is always bitter.
It is really hard for me to digest a person with sooo many changing attitudes....
SIDMA might be together but their relationship will never look extra-ordinarily great.I've found them as very good friends who had respect for each other and not more than that...
Riddhima might smile and live happily wid Sid but she can't be completely herself with Sid.I've always found a hesiation in their relationship and this reluctance will remin forever ,no matter how much they come close...
Love happens just once and the second time it is just a compromise that may turn into an attraction.One can fall in love the second time only when he is able to forget the first one and the emptiness in one's life his replaced by the other...
How much hard Riddhima tries, she will never be able to forget Armaan and his love for her.....

SIDMA might be a very good couple for all of you but they can never make a completely perfect couple in my opinion.
All the AR fans and SIDMA fans can comment here but please do not bash upon me.
I've not said anything different from what has happened in DMG so plz try to be genuine in disagreeing to my point of views.
Every one here has the right to share his thoughts so I'm here with a dfferent approach towards SIDMA and Siddhanth modi...
I'm a great fan of Karan Wahi but unfortunately I've started disliking his character as Siddhanth Modi....
So people go ahead to have a healthy discussion here...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey there!!!

you have summed up the story quiet well!and were right also at places! but all i want to say to ask you is, is there ever a human on this earth thats perfect??? dont we all err? dont we all do things for our own selfish reasons??? same with this guy! if sid were perfect and did everything right, where would there be a problem! we are here talking of not one, but three very complex human characters that have their lives intertwined with one another, not necessarily but choice... all three of them have erred at various points in their lives...

riddhima was no angel when she put armaan thro hell only thanks to her insecurity and no faith in relationships? at that point in time what was Armaan's fault?

and when riddhima plays this prank on armaan about this guy trying to rape her, was it justified on Armaan's part of make a back door entry into her house and actually show her what a rape is all about?

similarly is the case with sid!

we all act according to circumstances... sid, knows, and faces the most hard hitting truth of his life each day! he is married to a woman, he knows doesnt love him for sure- but when he see's her making an effort to make their marriage work, he doesnt want to let go either! it is basic human tendency!

just the way even armaan thought, he could come back and claim his lady love after 9 months of abandoning her for whatever reasons, even sid, feels he has every right over this woman he has married but he cant help but love her...

i have loved both Armaan and Sid, and i dont want to take sides, but, i feel, at the end of the day, DMG is one show, that dares to show the real shades of human character time and again, i am not talking about sid sitting like a door mat watching his wife getting married to another man! i am talking about his helpless state of mind! sometimes men are like that, they want women to take the initiative, what if he walks up to riddhima and exercises his rights over her! he is too scared of rejection! ditto with riddhima, she wants to give her marriage a fair chance, but is too scared to tell her husband, though she loves another man so much, she doesnt mind doing all that it takes to make the relationship work! she got married due to societal pressure! but for whom? she did it for her own parents! she didnt think twice before she accused him of rape in public? she never hesitated to go find her love against all odds!! but when she decided to end her life, that was a phase of her life, where she had given up on everything, when she got a new lease of her life back, she felt, she owed it to the man who saved her and wanted to give her another life!!! and yes, he didnt have to do her the favor of marrying her! since you yourself pointed out how sid was carefree and non-serious, marriage was a huge deal for him, may be he didnt even realise what he was getting into when he said that, it was an act of impulse, why he turned cruel was also justified! no one wants to take the burden of someone else's death! it is too much for anyone to handle...yeah he took it to another level, but it showed how he was stuck in his place trying to make something work

though i love AR love story, i love the maturity in the SR relationship! and love is a very personal and individual feeling, slotting it under 1st, 2nd or third in my opinion is meaningless, as love is something thats born from inside the heart and you can love anyone, only the form of expression differs!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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just one comment .where are the rest of the people???
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i perfectly agree with this statement. i have been watching the show from the beginning and having shown us AR love for a the last two years, and then they have taken it away just like that.

i cant say that i dont like the character of sid, but sometimes he acts too immature. he himself doesnot no wat he wants. sometimes u see that he wants to reunite AR and sometimes he is angry at seeing them together and riddhima is such a confused character. she does not no wat she has to do. she lets herself being overpowered by others decision.

i agree that she cant just break her marriage just like that as it is considered a sacred bond but then she still loves armaan and she just have a wife responsibilities towards sid.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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fantastic post asma 👏👏👏👏
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The post's long but It has prickled my curiosity!!!!Will be returning to it.

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uve been pretty biased in ur character analysis..uve highlighted sid's faults but hv failed to emphasis on the goodness he has,,,vry1 person has flaws, no person is a complete shade of white or black..n sid is a prime example of tht ..he is imperfect but yet in his imperfections lie his perfection...a charcter which is mean, mahaan, stupid, kiddish, responsible, sensitive, dumb...sid is a whole package of a gamut of humna emotions
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AWESOME POST !!!!! CVS ko mail kardo shayad ye padke unhe akhal aaye 😡 they are all set to destroy AR relationship for the most horrendous reasons ever AR forever
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oh this is soo biased its not funny...anyways watever gives u pleasure honey...lagey raho is all i wanna say....
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Originally posted by: pavs

uve been pretty biased in ur character analysis..uve highlighted sid's faults but hv failed to emphasis on the goodness he has,,,vry1 person has flaws, no person is a complete shade of white or black..n sid is a prime example of tht ..he is imperfect but yet in his imperfections lie his perfection...a charcter which is mean, mahaan, stupid, kiddish, responsible, sensitive, dumb...sid is a whole package of a gamut of humna emotions



I second this. I like the post because it is long, (which is rare. I usually read short sid bashing comments with bunch of angry faces) and I like that you have taken the time to express your thoughts with us.😊 But it is highly biased. in my opinion so far he has had the best character development.

Sid came in as a spoiled brat and slowly changed his attitude (attitude not himself just the attitude) due to Tamanna. When he met Riddhima she brought out the worst in him. In a way you can say both of them overreacted but both of them were nurturing a broken hurt. Even the little misunderstandings led them to be seriously hateful to each other due to the phase of their life. One can not say this was a copy of Armaan and Riddhima, if that is the case then almost all love stories these days start off with the guy and girl fighting. 😕 Are they copied too? How about the girl guy fight that happened before AR? The fans found SR fights refreshing because of the emotions they portrayed. We have never seen so much hate between two perfect strangers. It made us curious. We wanted to see what would happen next.

I won't defend Sid for taking those pictures. He made his mistakes and he learned from them. He hated Riddhima and wanted to teach her a lesson. I am just surprised he could see through the hate and still manage to feel bad for her afterward. That is what we love about Sid. He has so many layers to his character. He seems so normal. How many times do humans make mistake and realize it was so bad and they never repeat it again.

I see you have decided to ignore some great Sid things, as you summarized them in one line. Remember the payal that Sid saved? he put his life in danger for that. He saved Riddhima I get that as saving a human is great, but a payal that's worth nothing to him??? Just because it meant a lot to Riddhima now that's beautiful.

He didn't " NEED TO MARRY" Riddhima. He didn't make a mistake. It was shashank who let Rid go, it was Armaan who left Riddhima, it was Riddhima who went after Armaan and fell ill, he was stuck in this horrible mess even though he had nothing to do with it. Storywise bodyheat was the only thing he could do to save her and that's what he did. He knew Rid will hate him for life but he went ahead and saved her anyways. Imagine if Atul was in the scene. He would've done the same thing. Later on the car accident he didn't need to save her. He didn't need to feel happy about saving the girl who accused him of rape but he did. He pushed her out of the way and got hurt instead. He saved her even after that. He could leave Riddhima and Shashank at their miserable state. After all everyone knew he was innocent. But he chose to marry her. Again he didn't need to marry the girl who was in love with another and almost killed herself billion times but he went ahead and married her.

In the marriage HE ASKED HER FOR NOTHING!!! He didn't say wake up everyday to make me food, work for me, love me or sleep with me, He just didn't want her to be someone she was not. He wanted her to be alive.

After Armaan came back I think his charcater was amazing. he couldn't come to Riddhima and say " hey choose now who do you want?" yet he let her choose. He protected her every step of the way. he finally asked if she was still in love with Armaan when he didn't get an answer he assumed she was and he tried to let her go.

But the divorce woke him up and he realized if Rids didn't want to leave this marriage then why was he trying to kick the woman he loves out of his life. He decided to work things out only to get hurt once again.

I wouldn't say Sid is perfect, he is definitely like a kid at times. But some of the things he does despite being like a kid is amazing. That's what makes Sid. he is immature, stubborn, a brat, spoiled, mean yet when the real test comes he passes with flying colors. Biggest witnesses to that is his wife rid, his FIL shanky , Yuvi and Naina. That's what matters to us. He is very observant, he has a strong heart, he has the power to love. Bonus for Sid fans he is uber sexy when he is angry!!😍

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