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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi
Thanks for taking the time to write it. Nice to know your attempt was not to be hurtful.
I personally thought it was biased but thats allright. You are entitled to your opinion as we are.
Person changes because circumstanaces in life brings out decisions that you as an individiual must make.
For having made the right decisions the change is what makes you a better individual...yes Sid changed....changed because of the mistakes he made and changed because he had the courage to set them right. He has grown as a person and thats what makes him a better man.
I love sid's character but he is not perfect and I am allright with that.....
As far as Sidhima is concerned....they may be husband and wife....because of destiny......but are friends by choice....aur dosti pyaar ki pehli seedi hai.....she may never be able to forget armaan...and she should not....beautiful memories are not meant to be forgotten...but cherished....but that also does not mean you live in the past.....
if you love school life and/or college life does not mean you will want to stay in school or college forever......the right thing is to graduate.....you may not like it because of all the fun you had or are having ....but its the right thing to do......in the future you will look back and cherish the memories and thank God that you did graduate coz you are able to build a better life for your self and find something that you love more.
Sorry if the school/collge example dint seem apt for you.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey asma, I believe you were searching for 'A Perfect Character without any flaws' in Siddhanth Modi and that's why you got upset with his character when he did some wrong things! Yes, I agree he did some wrong things and he did some good things too and he repented for the bad things he did... totally Human.

Ok, let me go through few of your points from my POV.
1) Sid started as a spoilt brat, rich handsome with girls falling for them left right and centre and his relationship with his love interests started with fights. U find this similar to Armaan's story! I say I find this premise in many love stories. CV's just used the same for Armaan then Sid... chronology issues with entry of characters.
2) Sid-Tamanna track was shown as an infatuation - You know in this case too Sid tried his best to convice Tamanna of his interest in her, he pursued her, proposed her, but Tamanna never gave any heads up anywhere. He did act immaturely with her mom, but c'mon if Tamanna loved him, he can show him he's wrong, try to guide him like Riddhima is doing now. You need two people to become a couple... Tamanna at the end showed that she was never there in the picture. She told Sid that he's a kid and bid him goodbye at the Airport. what was Sid supposed to do- kidnap her, tied her tightly so she does not go anywhere or keep ranting that he loves her till she says the same. There shud be some willingness from Tamanna for Sid to do any of these, but Alas! there was nothing like that from her during her last days in India.
3) Sid and Riddhima fights - These fights almost every time they started becoz Riddhima cud not stop her itch to interfere in Sid's business. Slapping on the airport without listening, shouting rapist, molester always - does she even know how a society looks at a guy if a girl calls him a molester? any guy who cares about his self-dignity surely can't put up with slaps and insolent behaviour. If Ridz makes her life mission to soil Sid's character and irritate him, what shud Sid do? Sit quietly! Oh wait! One can't do that too becoz ridz doesn't stop her torture till you start giving back to her. She made him a socioety outcast in front of the restaurant people, so Sid took the sanps in a fit of fury... totally wrong but still humans tend to lose control in such situatios and that's why we call them emotions!
4) Sid developing feelings for Riddhima... All I can say is that's how you fall in love.. unknowingly.
5) Sid-Riddhima's marriage ... both parties are at fault for this. Who asked Riddhima to shout rape in front of the whole hospital rather than Shanky's cabin when Sid had already explained her the situation? Doing for society or watver, she got those societal pressures onto herself by creating a fuss along with Sid
6) Sid thought that she decided to commit suicide on their marriage as a last attempt to destroy Sid's reputation. Can't blame Sid for thinking so becoz Ridz did enuf things to prove it. You see someone dying in front of you and you are struggling to keep them alive, man, such event will shake you from within your soul. He was angry after that event so was rude to her.
7) Hahaha... seduction scene again ... pls ... Sid know Ridz loved Armaan a lot and suddenly she bacomes all this wifey wifey and says she is suddenly ready to make this marriage work, I'm sure you'll be like 'what the heck? pls show some real emotions'. Sid just wantde to show her that this attitude of her's was fake and she still needs time to get out of her past. So, the seduction sequence to prove that she needs to show her real self.
Oh My God! I can explain other shades of Sid's character, but I need some pause now. All I want to say is if you want Sid to do all perfect things for you, then he is definitely not your idol. He's a human who has feelings, confusions, sometimes acts differently while he feels differently... but shows raw human emotions to the core
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey.......i knew some1 will come up with this sort of post.....sweety firstly if u have been watchin dmg from da beginin u will no armaaan was not a saint .....he also has had his share of meaness....remember da time of their first break up.....then when rahul came in ...his every act made armaan so jealous and mad.....when there was nothin like attraction b/w them........that time armaan was just ridz bf....then came in abhi.......how jealous he was then and how mad he would get and treat her badly as well......that time also he was her bf....but here sweety ..ridz started her chudialness and provoked sid....da suicide issue was way to much 4 anybody to handle.....i mean yes sid has lost his temper but armaan also has lost it earlier......so many times ...again not being bias....i was armaan fan ....i still like him but i like sid more with ridz than with armaan..........no hard feelings just had few things to put acrosss........peace...loves to alll:)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hello asma i am a SR fan but im not gonna burst out on u ! U analyzed the Sid character but never talk about the reality ! the reality is that Riddhima also seduces Sid morally n played with his self respect by throwing him in jail! so as a character like Sid had done the right thing what he should have done! Again it is the fact that people likes that person with whom he/she spends his /her most of the times! Riddhima also started liking Siddhant n Sid also did the same! Armaan is just a bf! if Rid's true love is AR than she would never like Sid! but she did it in her HN trip! riddhima was not get married forcefully or subconsciously rather i wanna tell Sid marry riddhima in pressure. when Rid tried to commit suicide then he denied to marry her but Rid forced him for the marriage. n Sid is sweet ,that's y he did the right thing for Rid . i am a guy yaar i know what it felt when ur fiance want to leave u! but Sid loves Rid that's y he stands besides her in ill moments ! Armaan was also a play boy in early college days! remember the fighting between Ar n Rid! that was also unnecessary. Sid -Rid / Ar - Rid both started in a same way but now the fact is RID has become Riddhima Modi! now this is the truth! their relationship started with the worst condition n that's y it will be successful coz "the person u hate most is the person u love most" !!!! sid changed himself only for Rid . Asma u should sometimes try to change urself otherwise u can't realize how difficult it is !
Edited by bantimale - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Perfangel5655



<font color="#006699" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">I second this. I like the post because it is long, (which is rare. I usually read short sid bashing comments with bunch of angry faces) and I like that you have taken the time to express your thoughts with us.😊 But it is highly biased. in my opinion so far he has had the best character development.

Sid came in as a spoiled brat and slowly changed his attitude (attitude not himself just the attitude) due to Tamanna. When he met Riddhima she brought out the worst in him. In a way you can say both of them overreacted but both of them were nurturing a broken hurt. Even the little misunderstandings led them to be seriously hateful to each other due to the phase of their life. One can not say this was a copy of Armaan and Riddhima, if that is the case then almost all love stories these days start off with the guy and girl fighting.😕 Are they copied too? How about the girl guy fight that happened before AR? The fans found SR fights refreshing because of the emotions they portrayed. We have never seen so much hate between two perfect strangers. It made us curious. We wanted to see what would happen next.

I won't defend Sid for taking those pictures. He made his mistakes and he learned from them. He hated Riddhima and wanted to teach her a lesson. I am just surprised he could see through the hate and still manage to feel bad for her afterward. That is what we love about Sid. He has so many layers to his character. He seems so normal. How many times do humans make mistake and realize it was so bad and they never repeat it again.

I see you have decided to ignore some great Sid things, as you summarized them in one line. Remember the payal that Sid saved? he put his life in danger for that. He saved Riddhima I get that as saving a human is great, but a payal that's worth nothing to him??? Just because it meant a lot to Riddhima now that's beautiful.

He didn't " NEED TO MARRY" Riddhima. He didn't make a mistake. It was shashank who let Rid go, it was Armaan who left Riddhima, it was Riddhima who went after Armaan and fell ill, he was stuck in this horrible mess even though he had nothing to do with it. Storywise bodyheat was the only thing he could do to save her and that's what he did. He knew Rid will hate him for life but he went ahead and saved her anyways. Imagine if Atul was in the scene. He would've done the same thing. Later on the car accident he didn't need to save her. He didn't need to feel happy about saving the girl who accused him of rape but he did. He pushed her out of the way and got hurt instead. He saved her even after that. He could leave Riddhima and Shashank at their miserable state. After all everyone knew he was innocent. But he chose to marry her. Again he didn't need to marry the girl who was in love with another and almost killed herself billion times but he went ahead and married her.

In the marriage HE ASKED HER FOR NOTHING!!! He didn't say wake up everyday to make me food, work for me, love me or sleep with me, He just didn't want her to be someone she was not. He wanted her to be alive.

After Armaan came back I think his charcater was amazing. he couldn't come to Riddhima and say " hey choose now who do you want?" yet he let her choose. He protected her every step of the way. he finally asked if she was still in love with Armaan when he didn't get an answer he assumed she was and he tried to let her go.

But the divorce woke him up and he realized if Rids didn't want to leave this marriage then why was he trying to kick the woman he loves out of his life. He decided to work things out only to get hurt once again.

I wouldn't say Sid is perfect, he is definitely like a kid at times. But some of the things he does despite being like a kid is amazing. That's what makes Sid. he is immature, stubborn, a brat, spoiled, mean yet when the real test comes he passes with flying colors. Biggest witnesses to that is his wife rid, his FIL shanky , Yuvi and Naina. That's what matters to us. He is very observant, he has a strong heart, he has the power to love. Bonus for Sid fans he is uber sexy when he is angry!!😍</font>




👏 Well said. Sometimes people just say stuff without analyzing the situation properly just because they want the AR jodi to happen. SR are now married and that is a fact and marriages are not mean to be taken lightly.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: honeydew_dmg

hey there!!!

you have summed up the story quiet well!and were right also at places! but all i want to say to ask you is, is there ever a human on this earth thats perfect??? dont we all err? dont we all do things for our own selfish reasons??? same with this guy! if sid were perfect and did everything right, where would there be a problem! we are here talking of not one, but three very complex human characters that have their lives intertwined with one another, not necessarily but choice... all three of them have erred at various points in their lives...

riddhima was no angel when she put armaan thro hell only thanks to her insecurity and no faith in relationships? at that point in time what was Armaan's fault?

and when riddhima plays this prank on armaan about this guy trying to rape her, was it justified on Armaan's part of make a back door entry into her house and actually show her what a rape is all about?

similarly is the case with sid!

we all act according to circumstances... sid, knows, and faces the most hard hitting truth of his life each day! he is married to a woman, he knows doesnt love him for sure- but when he see's her making an effort to make their marriage work, he doesnt want to let go either! it is basic human tendency!

just the way even armaan thought, he could come back and claim his lady love after 9 months of abandoning her for whatever reasons, even sid, feels he has every right over this woman he has married but he cant help but love her...

i have loved both Armaan and Sid, and i dont want to take sides, but, i feel, at the end of the day, DMG is one show, that dares to show the real shades of human character time and again, i am not talking about sid sitting like a door mat watching his wife getting married to another man! i am talking about his helpless state of mind! sometimes men are like that, they want women to take the initiative, what if he walks up to riddhima and exercises his rights over her! he is too scared of rejection! ditto with riddhima, she wants to give her marriage a fair chance, but is too scared to tell her husband, though she loves another man so much, she doesnt mind doing all that it takes to make the relationship work! she got married due to societal pressure! but for whom? she did it for her own parents! she didnt think twice before she accused him of rape in public? she never hesitated to go find her love against all odds!! but when she decided to end her life, that was a phase of her life, where she had given up on everything, when she got a new lease of her life back, she felt, she owed it to the man who saved her and wanted to give her another life!!! and yes, he didnt have to do her the favor of marrying her! since you yourself pointed out how sid was carefree and non-serious, marriage was a huge deal for him, may be he didnt even realise what he was getting into when he said that, it was an act of impulse, why he turned cruel was also justified! no one wants to take the burden of someone else's death! it is too much for anyone to handle...yeah he took it to another level, but it showed how he was stuck in his place trying to make something work

though i love AR love story, i love the maturity in the SR relationship! and love is a very personal and individual feeling, slotting it under 1st, 2nd or third in my opinion is meaningless, as love is something thats born from inside the heart and you can love anyone, only the form of expression differs!!

This is called an unbiased character analysis..Even tho you are an AR fan still you have tried to see each character in most humane way possible.I totally loved the analysis ...
Wish there were more ppl like you in this forum😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Okay..Now here is my 2 cents on the topic itself...
You have done a good attempt to present your thoughts to us ..instead of just plain bashing our fav character...
But hun,Just tell me have you ever seen a perfect human??
I assume that your answer will be no..because human can't be perfect if they are perfect they'll become god...
But then again this is a serial and they could have shown Sid as a selfless perfect person ..But then would it have seemed practical and real to us??
Could anyone of us would have been able to connect and sympathise with him??
I surely couldn't...To me he would then be like cindrella or snowwhite..Reallywonderful and fairytalish but unable to relate them with the real world.
As the quote goes..

"A beautiful thing is never perfect."

So to me Sid is beautiful ..His soul is beautiful and he is beautiful not with his imperfections but due to his imperfection..
I didn't get offended by your post even tho it was biased but atleast it gave us a reason why it was biased .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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SidMa nd SID totally ROCKKK! nd v can do nthing about it! <3 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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thnxx a lott for the post.......... i agree with u 100% sid is the most ruthless chrecter imagined!!! why did the cvzz make his charecter go bad??? well anywayz as anm ardent AR fan Ar deserve to reunite and tht will hapn!!! thnxx for nt closing this topic!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey ASMA i like ur post ! but as u r a AR fan that's y u forgot to tell the goodness n the strength of this SID character ! when AR couple has made an ordinary love story ! SR couple has made an extra ordinary love story! N we also know that this type of AR stories r available in market ! what i wanna say is pls don't try to define love as 1st , 2nd or 3rd . Love just happens. N u r talking about SID's guts then let me clear something
1) Sid is the man who dares to reunite his wife n her boy friend. show me 😆how many husbands r gonna do that? Or how many boy friends would let their girls to go with some1 else . Now here Sid has already showed his guts!
2) some of ur AR fans r saying that Riddhima is forced to do the marriage but i wanna ask u guys do u really watch sanjeevany? Coz Sid denied to marry Riddhima when she tried to commit suicide . But it was Rid who forced Sid to marry her!
3) Sid is more sensible coz he married her just to save her prestige. Koi ladka aise situation main kabhi kisi ladki se sadi nahi karega! but Sid did it just for Riddhima!
4) Riddhima gives nothing but pain to Sid but Sid always tries to remove her pain ! But he is a human being ! n not an angel. remember when Armaan saw riddhima with Abhi how he behaved with Rid! but it wasn't Rid's fault at all ! Armaan behaved so badly with her in those days . Armaan was just a boy friend n he could not control himself so think Sid is Rid's husband ! But still he is facing this pain !
5) N by the way Riddhima has chosen Sid ! n this is the right thing n this
is what we called the beginning of love between 2 unknown persons ! this is called the 2nd chance which can also be successful.
6)If Sid is angry then his anger is right coz he saw her wife with some1 else. N it's Rid who makes Sid realize that she cares about him n their relationship! remember guys what happened in their honey moon!
7)Sid cares for Riddhima that's y he still respects Ridjy's father! agar koi aur hota na abhi tak to sab ko keh bhi deta lonavola main Rid ne kya kia tha! But Sid cares for her that's y he doesn't want to humiliate her !
8)If Rid wants to stay with Sid then her decision is totally right! coz he is the true destiny of her life! Siddhant has seen Rid at her worst conditions that's y this relationship is gonna be more strong n successful.
Hm Asma sorry to say but AR fans have very few knowledge about reality ! First love is not always ur true love n love can not be defined as 1st 2nd! so pls don't give explanations by saying 1st love true love! Every1 has his / her past ! in college we all have fallen in love at least 1 time it doesn't mean that u r gonna stay with him/her for rest of the life ! n Sid is present n Armaan is past ! n now what Armaan is doing is right n i appreciate his work!

Life goes on n it always chooses u the best partner !


U guys love KSG but try to think real.



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