Is Simi serious about her relationship with Abhi?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Simi has been avoiding to say no to Nakul right from when the rishta came by.
Same night only Abhi says i love you. She mentions Nakul, Abhi says we will talk to your dad. She says keep our affair secret.
She goes ahead to meet Nakul in the park. She has still not discussed with Abhi regarding this.
Her dad asks her 2-3 times. Well if she could not confess about Abhi, she could hve still told her dad that she din like Nakul obviously stating Hitler daadi's dictatorship. She did not refuse in spite of her dad saying no compulsion.
She goes ahead meeting them over chai. Unfortunately Abhi arrives to propose after hearing from Nakul when he called for wanting to meet him.
She had prevented Abhi from talking to dad and forced him to ask Anuj's return. Yeah though it was for preventing Manju's untimely death due to hunger.
Even after Roka, she has still not found time even in between the cooking contest to wear the most expensive ring (cost of his jeep)
She accepted Abhi's roka saying its her papaji's marzi
If she is so willing to just find excuses in the name of family honour to shun Abhi one more time, he better mind his business thereafter. He has so clearly told her in all possible ways that he loves her most. If she doesn't care a damn for all his sacrifices, no point in a one-sided love affair. I will just understand it is just a passing fancy for Simi at 30. She has never experienced infatuation, crush during her teens and early twenties. By being with a 22 year old, she is living her lost out teenage. And thats it.
She has not once proven her loyalty to Abhi in the show. She decides on her own to talk to Nakul for getting Vicky released. She has officially announced to world by accepting Abhi's roka, she has taken private pheras with him. One has to treat one's life partner as equal even with the age difference. Its never like one following the other blindly.Doesn't it require that you discuss with Abhi about such a decision to seek help from Nakul. If this attitude continues that she knows best and Abhis decisions as bachchon jaisi baat, there will be problems even if they were to marry.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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simmi has to go through a lot and abhi is the only one who is going to teach her some lessons before they get married. She only understands his language, like last time when he said bye simmi.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: KRIVISHU123

simmi has to go through a lot and abhi is the only one who is going to teach her some lessons before they get married. She only understands his language, like last time when he said bye simmi.

I agree. Simi only understand language of pain so may be if abhi is in pain them may be she will wake up and stop taking him for granted. She can give 2nd place to herself but how can she forgets what she does to herself affects abhi. As she also belongs to him and so her wellbeing affects him.
she can not ignore him after using him for all her pain.
Abhi deserves happiness and her lov eis his happiness. Now it is evne more improtant as she took a vow to hold his hand and take him in the right path with that saat phere.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: mesimi

Simi has been avoiding to say no to Nakul right from when the rishta came by.
Same night only Abhi says i love you. She mentions Nakul, Abhi says we will talk to your dad. She says keep our affair secret.
She goes ahead to meet Nakul in the park. She has still not discussed with Abhi regarding this.
Her dad asks her 2-3 times. Well if she could not confess about Abhi, she could hve still told her dad that she din like Nakul obviously stating Hitler daadi's dictatorship. She did not refuse in spite of her dad saying no compulsion.
She goes ahead meeting them over chai. Unfortunately Abhi arrives to propose after hearing from Nakul when he called for wanting to meet him.
She had prevented Abhi from talking to dad and forced him to ask Anuj's return. Yeah though it was for preventing Manju's untimely death due to hunger.
Even after Roka, she has still not found time even in between the cooking contest to wear the most expensive ring (cost of his jeep)
She accepted Abhi's roka saying its her papaji's marzi
If she is so willing to just find excuses in the name of family honour to shun Abhi one more time, he better mind his business thereafter. He has so clearly told her in all possible ways that he loves her most. If she doesn't care a damn for all his sacrifices, no point in a one-sided love affair. I will just understand it is just a passing fancy for Simi at 30. She has never experienced infatuation, crush during her teens and early twenties. By being with a 22 year old, she is living her lost out teenage. And thats it.
She has not once proven her loyalty to Abhi in the show. She decides on her own to talk to Nakul for getting Vicky released. She has officially announced to world by accepting Abhi's roka, she has taken private pheras with him. One has to treat one's life partner as equal even with the age difference. Its never like one following the other blindly.Doesn't it require that you discuss with Abhi about such a decision to seek help from Nakul. If this attitude continues that she knows best and Abhis decisions as bachchon jaisi baat, there will be problems even if they were to marry.

Well noted, and what I have been saying all along but in for Indians the whole point of the show is the guy loves Simi and that's all that matters. It doesn't matter if she doesn't love him. The whole point of the show is about sacrfice. Abhi says time and time again he is willing to give himself up for Simi. He's the one who keeps trying to prove his love for her - remember the horrendously bad electrocution scene🤢
The creative team will never have Abhi take a stand against Simi's actions in the same way we will never see Simi take a stand against her mother for her love for Abhi. She'll always put her first and Abhi second. Abhi will play second fiddle to everyone and when Simi comes back to him he'll be sooo happy that he won't even realize she's making an azz out of him..
None of the creative team or the Indian public care and as audience members we need to give up on seeing something happen. I mean even after Simi humilated Abhi, Abhi took it and didn't even confront her and when he did, she turned the tables on him. So you see, you will always have a spineless Abhi no matter what.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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well said ...I am sick of Simi ignoring Abhi again and again and why only when she is pushed to the edge does she have to confess her love for abhi...and abhi on the other end is a real farishta in simi's life who is really her knght in shining armour who has come to solve all the problems in her life...sigh .........wish everyone finds Abhi in their lives :)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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wat the heckis wrong with simi why is she always gets emotional and ignore bechara abhi he is so sweet he always takes her side but i m tired of all this simi's immatureness
they look so pretty together:)



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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

Well noted, and what I have been saying all along but in for Indians the whole point of the show is the guy loves Simi and that's all that matters. It doesn't matter if she doesn't love him. The whole point of the show is about sacrfice. Abhi says time and time again he is willing to give himself up for Simi. He's the one who keeps trying to prove his love for her - remember the horrendously bad electrocution scene🤢
The creative team will never have Abhi take a stand against Simi's actions in the same way we will never see Simi take a stand against her mother for her love for Abhi. She'll always put her first and Abhi second. Abhi will play second fiddle to everyone and when Simi comes back to him he'll be sooo happy that he won't even realize she's making an azz out of him..
None of the creative team or the Indian public care and as audience members we need to give up on seeing something happen. I mean even after Simi humilated Abhi, Abhi took it and didn't even confront her and when he did, she turned the tables on him. So you see, you will always have a spineless Abhi no matter what.

mesimi very nice post !!👏👏
I was missing Laila and here she is !!!😳😊 See we will never get change for the lines I highlighted !! Why I just don't understand !! No wonder just before the phere Abhi tells Simi Ami tumharay Bina Nahi chal sakta !! That itself proves Abhi will keep giving himself up for Simi!!
Another frustrating part !! Should'nt she be thinking about herself 30 years she has been just thinking abt family and what her mom wants and why she wants only so called god for her children Should'nt Simi giver herself a chance Apna life hai you have waited 30 years and some one younger than you has decided that he will do anything for you should'nt it be your first priority to understand him and share happiness with him !!!😕

I would'nt be surprised if she accepts Nakul's proposal as a sacrifice for her family( maybe here Only her mom since brother Anuj may support her allience with Abhi !!) and sister Neetus future !!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: mesimi

Simi has been avoiding to say no to Nakul right from when the rishta came by.
Same night only Abhi says i love you. She mentions Nakul, Abhi says we will talk to your dad. She says keep our affair secret.
She goes ahead to meet Nakul in the park. She has still not discussed with Abhi regarding this.
Her dad asks her 2-3 times. Well if she could not confess about Abhi, she could hve still told her dad that she din like Nakul obviously stating Hitler daadi's dictatorship. She did not refuse in spite of her dad saying no compulsion.
She goes ahead meeting them over chai. Unfortunately Abhi arrives to propose after hearing from Nakul when he called for wanting to meet him.
She had prevented Abhi from talking to dad and forced him to ask Anuj's return. Yeah though it was for preventing Manju's untimely death due to hunger.
Even after Roka, she has still not found time even in between the cooking contest to wear the most expensive ring (cost of his jeep)
She accepted Abhi's roka saying its her papaji's marzi
If she is so willing to just find excuses in the name of family honour to shun Abhi one more time, he better mind his business thereafter. He has so clearly told her in all possible ways that he loves her most. If she doesn't care a damn for all his sacrifices, no point in a one-sided love affair. I will just understand it is just a passing fancy for Simi at 30. She has never experienced infatuation, crush during her teens and early twenties. By being with a 22 year old, she is living her lost out teenage. And thats it.
She has not once proven her loyalty to Abhi in the show. She decides on her own to talk to Nakul for getting Vicky released. She has officially announced to world by accepting Abhi's roka, she has taken private pheras with him. One has to treat one's life partner as equal even with the age difference. Its never like one following the other blindly.Doesn't it require that you discuss with Abhi about such a decision to seek help from Nakul. If this attitude continues that she knows best and Abhis decisions as bachchon jaisi baat, there will be problems even if they were to marry.

Mesimi very nice post. i was also feeling the same as what u said. Simi is not at all showing her love for ahbi. i was also wondering, during the roka she said its papaji marzi , i am accepting abhi.
dosent she love him ????????. cant she say she loves him, it looks like more than simi now abhi will be sacrificing. if any more simi sacrifices i am going to hate her as she is going beyond the limit of sacrifices. Its very high time she thinks about her life. Manju is stupid and insane she dosent thik beyond her society and surrounding. she dosent care for her daughters happiness, so pls simi stop sacrificing atleast one . she is really getinng into my nerves now due to her sacrifical duties.
cvs pls stio this weired sacrificing of simis.show her more bold and confident and fighting for every one also her self. i thouhg tthat what this story was about. simi fighting for her love and her familys.
in one show atleast show us that the main character can do something and stand up on their own feet.
allow simi and abhi to discuss and solve the problems. thats how it should be rather than showing simi always sacrificing. ( sacrificing by the lead roles are shown in all serials .) pls show something different .
and i dont want abhi to sit and cry for the loss or prove his love for simi again, now v want simi to show her love and prove her self to abhi and his family.
hope the creatives / sunshiners are reading this forum and hope they will change the story line,
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Posted: 16 years ago
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simi is a gal who never used to worried about herself and her love as first of all stuffs she used to worried about others like mumyji,papaji,mili,neetu,anuj,anita,all of the world and when galti se, she got the tym for herself den dadi and nakul's landing used to takes place from satve aasman...humbug..simi never used to think about abhi and his feelings..abhi is really a understanding guy actually yes he is a guy i.e. cow..lolzz..simi should think about abhi at once as he is only the one who doubles her joys..so sweet..!!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
#10
If Simi does dump Abhi, please have Abhi grow a frigging backbone!!! Have him walk away and forget about her. He loves her more than she will ever love him. Relationships cannot work that way. She's never loved him in the way he has loved her. It's obvious.

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