why people always expect Sacrifices from simi...?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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hi friends...
it looks like simi is going to sacrifise abhi again for neethu's happiness....i strongly do not want simi to do that...hope Abhinav and Rajendra will tell the trouth for nakul and her grand mother...but i think this time simi will tell the truth for nakul...
i got disapointed with her ..when she accepted abhi's Rokha gift..she told she is doing this becouse of her father's wish....it was not her wish...I AM WONDERING WHY SHE ACCEPTED ABHI'S LOVE....?
i do not know the conditions in indian society...i have this question ...already she has broken her frist engegement....O.K ....resanable....after huge arguments and criticism .... infront of the people she accepted Abhi's proposal...can she break it now.....?
i will be happy this time ....if simi stands up her own footsteps for abhi....
also she will help neethu to be together with her lover....

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I sincerely hope that Simi for once in her life stands up for herself and tells nakul and his dadi that she loves Abhi and only Abhi and that she has accepted his roka and tells them to catch the first bus home. I do not under any circumstances want her to sacrifice for the sake of Neetu by agreeing to marry Nakul.
Why does Simi feel that it is her duty to do that and for whom, an ungrateful horrible sister. PlEASE SIMI WAKE UP AND DONT GET SUCKED IN AGAIN for gods sake.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Its because Simi is the biggest fool around. Recollecting Guruji's words..
Ek daayitv nibhata chala jaata hai...this is Simi
Doosra hak jataye jaata hai---this is her family
This applies to any relationship not just between husband and wife
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Posted: 16 years ago
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The answer to yourquestion is Simi has always done what is necessary to make others happy. RS pointed this out at the Roka ceremony. The Simi who did that was weak and afraid to speak up. She let Abhi free her from Ragiv. However, I think this time she will stand up to the Dagars and say I love Abhi and plan to marry him. They can have evil ungrateful Neetu for Homie.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Nice post !!
I donno what Simi will do and yes the way you pointed out did she accept the Roka for her fathers sake or for her sake
Well Looks like she did it for her fathers sake but she Loves Abhi thats what she proclaims and now we have to see if she speaks up for herself and she will tell te Daggars ythat she has accepted the Roka from Abhi !!

Abhi also should not yield to what Simi wants him to say instead he should come infront and tell the Daggars that Simi and he are in love and we have decided the future for ourselves.

Simi SHOULD'NT Think Abt Neetu and become helpless then she is NEVER going to think abt herself and will lose own trust she gave Abhi


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Posted: 16 years ago
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I've always felt for Simi. She has always put her family first and it was heartwarming to see that....but not anymore. I think Simi sacrifices WAY tooo much, for her own good. It's nice to see that she cares about her family so much. But she needs to draw the line.
For once I would like to see Simi be a little selfish (not in the negative sense) and I want her to stand up for her happiness. She has every right to be happy. I really hope she stops this doormat mentality. I really want to see a strong Simi. She shouldn't fear anything, esp. since Abhi is with her.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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This time she has to stand up for herself. How long will RS or Abhi protect her.
The other day she was firm with Anuj. But her mother is using the greatest weapon against her......Emotional blackmail.
Manju is equating Simi wanting to marry Abhi and Neetu's unwed pregnancy. Simi was sitting and crying in front of the mirror after listening to her mother. She is just gaining strength and confidence slowly. Hope it is not crushed soon and she is back to square one.
This time RS, Abhi nor even Maatarani herself can help her.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yes she needs to know what she wants not what her family wants Repeatedly RS has been telling her and it never went into her head then one day he I guess had her force to say that she is accepting the Roka for her fathers sake !! She thinks sacrifice is the only form of happiness she needs to get !!

If you see the case of Abhi he ias sacrificed his wealthy fathers buisness all the esho aram to feel his happiness which is he want to lead a simple life with someome whom he found love in ( still thats a wonder abt what he liked in Simi that made him fall in love with her ) but he knows if its not for himself he would never be appy and he said he is swarthi when he wanted to help Manju also

Simi learn some tricks from Abhi it will help you
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: fizzles

I've always felt for Simi. She has always put her family first and it was heartwarming to see that....but not anymore. I think Simi sacrifices WAY tooo much, for her own good. It's nice to see that she cares about her family so much. But she needs to draw the line.



Sacrifice for others happiness is a much misunderstood concept - do we help/sacrifice for others' immediate gratification or stand our ground and refuse to give in, because we believe the other person is wrong and will eventually appreaciate our decision. A mature person should take the latter approach, even at the cost of upsetting others now.
Those of us who have small children do this all the time - we refuse to give in to some of their demands, making them unhappy, because we believe it will be good for them in the long run.


Secondly, marriage is a decision that is taken today, but with lifelong consequences. A mother becomes happy when her daughter's marriage is fixed, but will she remain happy if she sees her daughter unhappy in her marriage in future?



Edited by Bana - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Bana I agree with your second point !! I was watching the old videos and when Simi agreed to marry RB Manju was soo soo happy but could'n see the unhappiness on her daughters face coz she was thinking Arrey Simi ko Ek Ristha Mil gaya.. As a mother if she had sat with Simi and asked Beta Tumhey Yeah Rishta kaisa lag Raha Hai Kya tum Kush Ho I am sure Simi wud have burst into tears and told she isn'nt happy !!

There is a limit to ones sacrificing capability and one wants to lead their life to ones wish and sacrifices milestone will come during the life time but dose'nt mean you need to have always peak Milestone !!!

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