Discussion: Stress Free Life?

Some people think that problems are necessary in life. Otherwise, we would not appreciate the good things in life. Is this a legit explanation?

I am a firm believer that everything happens for a purpose, so yes, I'd problems are necessary. They teach you many things and give you confidence when you pass the stage. I find that after the bad time passes, then we appreciate the good even more.

I think if we solve the problems ourselves, we feel very good and confident about ourselves. Also, when the bad times passes, we feel good about ourselves too because we survived when the tide was high.

well i personally do'nt prefer them, and we really dont need problems to hurt others. There are lots of ways to realize the importance of people n things..we do'nt need such BIG problems!

Originally posted by: -Mystery-

Well, who doesn't have problems in life? The only difference is the size and potential of the problem. For some the biggest problem is that the guy who she has a crush on doesn't notice her, for others it's family, health, friendship problems... sometimes very severe.

Questions to think about:

Some people think that problems are necessary in life. Otherwise, we would not appreciate the good things in life. Is this a legit explanation?

To an extent this is true. Light exists with darkness, heaven with hell and sky with sea. So to see the bright side of life you have to see the dull right? Only makes sense. However, like mentioned above if the severity of the problem is difficult to manage (especially long term problems) then it is very difficult to overlook the bad to appreciate the good things in life. It's like a seesaw. If two people sit on it then you can attempt to balance it but one person alone wouldn't be able to.

Some people think that problems make us a better, stronger person. Is it true?

I suppose this is true. You always look over the past and make sure it doesn't happen again. It's just our way of making sure we learn from our mistakes. But once again some problems are long term and can leave damaging effects. Sometimes even a whole life time isn't enough for one to "become stronger and move on" as they have been scarred permanently.

What would you personally prefer? A life with problems or without? Do you think the ultimate good effects a problem might have justify the severity of the problem and tensions it initially causes?

I don't know if this answers the question but a balance in everything is good. You never over eat. You never over exercise. We all keep a limit/balance and this is what I would like in my life. A life where problems come but you can face them and they don't leave damaging effects. Some people have dark pasts and it is hard to see a bright future for those kind of people. This is somthing I wouldn't want.
Any comments are most welcome.

Lovely topic Mahi. It is a real "stress buster"😆
Enjoy discussing!




Mahi
-IF Development Team-

Originally posted by: -Mystery-

Well, who doesn't have problems in life? The only difference is the size and potential of the problem. For some the biggest problem is that the guy who she has a crush on doesn't notice her, for others it's family, health, friendship problems... sometimes very severe.

Questions to think about:

Some people think that problems are necessary in life. Otherwise, we would not appreciate the good things in life. Is this a legit explanation?
Problem'z are well...good in a way,but sometimes they get a little too much.....and people like me don't know how to handle it!😆

Some people think that problems make us a better, stronger person. Is it true?
Yes,this one's definitely true....Cause of all the problemz faced..i'm who i'm today! And i believe am gonna be stronger tomorrow..😛

What would you personally prefer? A life with problems or without? Do you think the ultimate good effects a problem might have justify the severity of the problem and tensions it initially causes?
I would like a life with a balanced-equation.Currently i have a lot of problems,and all i do the whole day is tryin' to distract myself..but yeah..''umeed par duniya kayam hai'' if i could choose my life..i would choose a little lesser probz.....😳
Any comments are most welcome.
Enjoy discussing!




Mahi
-IF Development Team-