DOTW - Was Pankaj right?

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Shantell

@Shantell

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

Hii all as we just seen a clmax of the show Joyti revealin all to Pankaj..

Me qustion'z too u is you thin Pankaj was right to ask about what Joyti used too feel for Brij..?

What do u think his reaction was right?

Do post ur point of view regardin this..

Thanks

Regarrdz

Shantell..😳

An all have a great New Year!..👏

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shanta

@shali

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Posted: 16 years ago

yes yes yes....

if pankaj kicks her out then I will be jumping off joy.....

J. had this coming for a long time.....she should have opened her mouth a long way back.....

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Vrish

@Vr15h

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Posted: 16 years ago

One can be right for the right reasons, and one can be right for the wrong reasons.

In this case, the right reason to get rid of Jyoti would be the fact that she has been deceptive, and not only witholding something as basic as the #siblings she has, but also lying on several occasions to cover up whenever she had been out to do something for Sushma vis a vis Brij. Also, Pankaj could have pointed out how his family had known about Sudha and had been extremely supportive of her, even giving her refuge when her own family didn't want to take her back. (Incidentally, I hope Sudha doesn't get kicked out as well). He could have pointed out that had the Vashisths known about Sushma, they could have gotten Brij arrested, instead of entertaining him today.

However, in today's epsode, Pankaj was outraged that Jyoti had a relationship w/ Brij that was about to be a marriage, before she met Pankaj. BFD, unless they had pre-marital sex. If Pankaj wanted a girl who had never had any relationships before his, then he should have asked Jyoti that question in the beginning, and had Jyoti told him the truth then (which she would have, since she wasn't expecting to marry Sachin/Pankaj), he could have kept looking. But his expectation that Jyoti not have had any romantic relationships w/ anybody before her marriage was ridiculous. While Kalpana's explanation may be valid here, it just makes it more difficult for someone in Jyoti's shoes to be truthful, if that's going to be the consequence. It would be one thing had Jyoti cheated on Pankaj once he had proposed. But to ding her for something she did before she met him is insane - under that line of reasoning, everybody should marry their first love, regardless of whether it works for them or not.

So, it depends. If Pankaj has a problem w/ the fact that Jyoti lied to him, he is justified in throwing her out. However, if what drove this decision is the fact that Jyoti was ready to marry Brij, then this is ridiculous. How does Jyoti cheat on someone she has yet to meet?

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mahmansma

@mahmansma

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Posted: 16 years ago

OK, My reaction mirrors Vrisha's. I think Pankaj should throw Jyoti out but not because she 'liked' brij. He should throw her out coz she lied to him to cover up for the fact that she had a sister.

I did like to see him getting angry but did not like to see that the CVs are turning him into a pig headed idiot. I hope he meets Brij too. I want to see that scene SOON!

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Periwinkle

@Periwinkle

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Posted: 16 years ago

I too agree wid vrisha....i mean its too lame to show someone so balanced as pankaj to get wild at Jyoti simply 4 loving someone else b4 she even met pankaj....

But i also feel dat a marriage dat too the one of so much deep understanding n love lyk Jyoti n pankaj's can break juss lyk dat...Jyoti n pankaj have been shown as such balanced individuals is such a hasty decision on pankaj's past justified???? Marriages dont juss end at a snap of fingers...

N now if Jyoti n pankaj will be shown separated 4 yrs on end this show will be no different than all other soapy sagas...

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460091

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Posted: 16 years ago

he is right.........
wen he had asked her for marriage...
she should've totally informed him that y was she upset...
y she had to leave her home..... reasons 1 to all...
evn when sushi came there to work at their place then
also reasons could've been explained...
its true jyoti is a good daughter and a sis
but not a good wife....she is always late everywhere....

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sundara

@sundara

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Posted: 16 years ago

Jyoti should have told Pankaj about her past atleast when Brij came to Pankaj's home the first time...of course after he left..lol.. And probably, Pankaj would have been in a better position to understand all the mess. Coz she waited for some more time, Brij had his way by telling false stories to Pankaj that is confusing him now. I too think if he is angry for reasons like not being open about her past problems in life rather than being in love with someone in the past, then it wud make sense ..

Sushma could have atleast opened her mouth now to tell more about the past. Why was she standing crying? Useless... Pankaj wudnt listen to Jyoti ...atleast he wud see Sushma as a domestic violence victim and what she says would change his opinion about Jyoti... I guess she should do some good thing like she did for Uday-Sudha marriage... Otherwise CM will take this a good opportunity to make Jyoti's life more miserable. Jyoti's way of telling parivaar as though both parivaars are different doesnt reflect good on her.. I can only slap Kalpana's face for all this mess... what was she thinking? Well, atleast from now, I guess Brij cant make money out of Jyoti and Sushma.. that is some relief. Donno what his next plan is, naamard b**tard. lol

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Laylai

@Laylai

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Posted: 16 years ago

Firstly jyoti is completely in the wrong for lying to pankaj for so long but to be fair, when he asked jyoti to marry him, she had just tried to take her own life. Nobody takes such drastic measures over a small issue, obviously jyoti went through something that was too much for her to handle. If I remember correctly, pankaj actually said somehing along the rlines of "I don't know what you've just experienced but I want you to move on with your life with me". Back then he didn't feel the need to ask her and if it was so important for him to know about past relationships he he should have asked if she attempted to kill herself over a failed relationship at the very least.

Also, sushma's whimpering annoyed me. She had one chance to put it all right and she just stood there in silence. Pankaj laid the blame all on jyoti painting sushma with some heroic paintbrush and she couldn't even say that he had misunderstood the whole situation.

And brij's appearance at the end is not good news. With jyoti's deteriorating track record and brij's expert lying techniques; jyoti and probably poor sudha are in for some trying times.

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Periwinkle

@Periwinkle

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Posted: 16 years ago

I so totally agree dat sushma should hve opened her mouth...y has she suddenly moulded herself into an 'oh so bechari' avataar???? :@ wasnt she supposed to be outspoken?? Turning good doesnt mean turning mute esp when there is dire need to speak...didnt she give all her so called mahan sacrifices 4 her Jyoti Didi toh now y didnt she utter even a single word????

Oh god somebody plz tell the CVs there is something called talking it out rather than jumping to conclusions....Jyoti deserves to be punished but a broken marriage dat too not 4 all the lies n all but as pankaj assumes dat Jyoti didnt think of him as her equal is totally outrageous!!!!

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mahmansma

@mahmansma

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Posted: 16 years ago

#10

Great posts by all the people here.

Jyoti is headed out for sure if we go by the promos.

I just hope that the tongue tied lying family gets up (Especially Sushma) and tells Pankaj the whole stroy. How bout that Kalpana dr redeem herself now by telling Pankaj the story as well? The TRUE reason why Jyoti tries to commit suicide, why she did not tell Pankaj the truth etc etc etc?

Pl dont insult our intelligence, CVs. Pl do make sure that the story line is plausible.

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