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shasha74

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

After reading the comments here I'm upset at the petty dislike the majority of you have taken to Khemi.

No matter what her character does she's always in the wrong and Santu always right.

I've yet to meet ANYONE who is always one way or the other!

And she has every right be be angry and upset with Santu-she made mistakes but she rectified them and as someone mentioned she could've married Hiten and you guys would have NO SANRAJ-so for you Sanraj fans you OWE it to Khemi.

And if it's about wealth and status she could've married Hiten and got that anyway but she married Arjun KNOWING he was poor and her life would be in direct contract to her Santu!

She didn't say anything when Arjun slapped her and took everything he's said even though it was Maulik whispering in his ears and causing problems.

No matter what Khemi is human (not sure the same can be said for Santu) and as such she would've liked Santu to show something to HER as HER SISTER!

As I wrote in another topic this could've all been avoided if Santu had gone to Khemi and told her that she is in a difficult position and unfortunately the situation is exactly the same as with her and Hiten.

Khemi would understand and would have been hurt but at least she would know that her sister hatrs what she has to do and comfort her.

But making the decision that has effect ONLY on Khemi and Arjun lives, from a high platform in front of everyone was that of a Malkin not of a sister.

So Khemi has every right to be bitter and she scarificed her real love to save her sisters marriage and while everyone is found of blaming Khemi for the divorce also rememeber ther was a 2ND person invloved-HITEN who is educated and should have known what his decision to marry Khemi would mean.

I say go on Khemi raj over Santu if for no other reason then Santu will in the end be proven right and everyone else wrong for thats the story so far and I can't see it changing.

Reading your comments have really disappointed me for you guysseem to see things as either black and white and there seems to be very little compassion in you guys for anyone other then Santu.

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fuzzyface

@fuzzyface

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Posted: 15 years ago

#22

@shasha

Khemi's anger towards santu is fine with us.Sisters fight all the time.

she can scream at her for making such a decison but her decision to take on Moti's side is what PO ppl to the max.

Moti has done many worse things to Santu n Khemi knows this.

Khemi too had faced some sh*** from moti but she totally turned on Santu n went to the dark side is totally uncalled for.

THIS shows that some outsider is more impt than ur own sister? what logic is that?

Khemi knew well that HITEN WAS HER NEPHEW n FELL FOR HIM N RAN AWAY. THE GUILT GOT HER AS WELL AS NANAJI WORDS n she chose to RUN AWAY instead of solving the problem head on.

SANTU OFFERED TO GIVE UP her life for her n SHE KNEW ABT IT DUH! But she chose to be with aRjan.

So her predicament is her own fault n no one else.

Khemi can sulk with santu but to turn side n wage a war n be mahan abt it is what irritating.

Family shld stick together. What does it say abt her who chose to sleep with the enemy just coz ur sister made a lousy decision?

SAntu was forced to make the decision by her equally selfish husband. IT was not her decision it was the villagers' decision.

Coz as far as the villagers are concerned Armi's relationship is not valid.

So what u say abt khemi is not entirely wrong but it's not entirely correct.

Personally i dun care abt the maasi nephew relationship coz Arjan is supposedly the step son but the idea is still sickening.

I too was an avid supporter of Khemi for her sacrifice towards Santu but she needs to develope some sense as she is always clueless n easily influenced by her surrounding. She is not strong either.

She let herself be abused but wldn't stand her sister's .

She never talked to her husband n his feelings instead she was more concerned abt Hiten? What man wld stand it if the wife was prancing around her hot ex bf?

She made many lousy decisions too without thinking of the results...coz she is human but like I said family comes first . She has forgotten that !

ok rants over 😆

Edited by fuzzyface - 15 years ago

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prerna4rishav

@prerna4rishav

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: chalia
I dont really think so.
Khemi could have refused to marry Hiten and not married anyone else too. If she stood her ground, Sanraj would have happened anyway.

I dont think Hiten would have let her do so.. Otherwise, she was very keen not to get married to him😊

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sg08

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

I dont think Hiten would have let her do so.. Otherwise, she was very keen not to get married to him😊

Hiten said himself once he found out about SanRaj divorce that he would not have let Santu-DM sacrifice their marriage for his sake......so all Khemi had to do was confide in Hiten about SanRaj divorce and Hiten would never have let SanRaj divorce. Instead she chose to run away and then marry a complete stranger. I am completely with chalia on this......all Khemi had to do was tell Hiten about the SanRaj divorce......Hiten himself would have backed off and she wouldn't have had to marry a complete stranger. Whatever has happened to her, she brought it on herself because of her stupid decisions.

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sg08

@sg08

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

@shasha

Completely with fuzzy on this...

There is nothing petty about our dislike with Khemi, if has ample ground. Khemi is an airhead and all her decions have been characteristic of an airhead. I would be OK if she was angry at Santu but to completely ignore Santu's predicament in this and side with Moti is just characteristic of her vaccum head. She was going about prancing as M-bahu calling Santu sasuma.....did she really think the maasi-bhanja issue would not come up and when it did, what did she expect....was she expecting Santu to sacrifice her marriage once again so she could be with her axe-murderer husband for whom she has shown she has absolutely no feelings or consideration.

She didn't have to marry Arjan for SanRaj sake.....all she had to do was confide in Hiten about SanRaj divorce and he would have backed off himself......he said he wouldn't have married her if it meant sacrificing SanRaj once her came to know of their divorce.....there was no need to marry Arjan, she did that for her own guilt because she wanted to be mahaan by sacrificing herself rather than let Santu be the mahaan one. Anyways, SanRaj divorce issue was brought on by Khemi's own selfishness and her inconsideration for anyone other than herself, so it was the least she could do. I do not think much of her for what she ultimately did, but I would have thought more of her if she had thought of Santu's plight BEFORE she learnt of SanRaj divorce......what she did was because of her own guilt to make herself feel better.

She married Arjan and hid her past from him all the while encouraging him to get a job in Dharampur, did she really think he would not find out about her past. And when he asked her she hid her past from him. Then after he found out about her past with Hiten and knowing how it affected him, she showed total inconsideration to his feelings and went about prancing around Hiten and mending his shirt instead of helping her husband who was an employee in that household. Not once did she try to allay Arjan's insecurities, but kept increasing it by taking Hiten's side to the extent that she asked him to apologize to Hiten but not once did she mention that Hiten was also wrong in interfering between them and her own fault in all of this. She showed absolutely no consideration or feelings for her husband and herself said a few days ago that she was sorry she had married someone like him and now that he is a Mahiyavanshi, all of a sudden she has developed feelings for him???? If not for the wealth then what is it that has made her so enamored of her husband all of a sudden? With Hiten, she hadn't had a taste of what it meant to be a M-bahu, but now that she has, it has made her true opportunistic character reveal. No surprises here though, she always has been selfish!!!

I can understand her anger towards Santu, but to side with Moti against her, when she knows how Moti treats her, when she herself has been a first hand recipeint of Moti's abuse, just because she wants to be in good graces of Moti now that she belongs to the family, thats just sick. But this is just the beginning, just wait and see, she is gong to get even more negative and b****y and opportunistic and selfish. I say down with Khemi!!!

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prerna4rishav

@prerna4rishav

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Aiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnnnn

Thanks SG! I did not know that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My bad !!!!!!!!!!!!! 😈

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farhana

@Rakhie_08

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

@ Shasha - you're wrong to assume that we always feel whatever Santu does is right.

I've lost count of the number of times when we have collectively screamed at the screen in frustration at something Santu has said or done. We're as fed up of Santu being spineless as we are of Khemi being an airhead.

And whilst her dissappointment in Santu's judgement may be understandable, her decision to openly go against her is not. The common enemy will always be the common enemy. Doesn't matter how nice moti maybe towards her. Doesn't matter that moti's affection towards her maybe genuine in lieu of the fact that she is carrying the heir to the M throne. It doesn't mean anything if moti is still being mean and nasty towards Santu. If you're not nice to my sister, I don't give a rats **** how nice you are to me!

To spite Santu in this manner, knowing what Santu has faced at the hands of moti is unforgiveable.

And I don't understand why anypne thinks that Santu should have spoken to Khemi about it first. The point of the panchayat is to deliberate and then to announce a verdict to everyone at the same time. That's the way it's always been done. Khemi herself has made decisions without informing anyone beforehand and without a thought to the consequences. She ran off first and then got married to a stranger and didn't tell her family diddly squat.

The moment that Santu makes a decision that isn't in her favour she is very quick to refer to Santu as malkin in order to spite her. When Santu slapped her after finding out about Hiten, she did the same thing. So as long as Santu makes a decision in her favour she is her sister, otherwise she is malkin?

Khemi should also understand Santu's predicament. And I could understand her reaction if she had been totally and utterly in love with her husband. But up until a few days ago they were just strangers living together and she was always apprehensive and scared around him. Now suddenly he's become her one and only whom she can't live without??

If you're saying Santu could have spoken to her before the panchayat, then equally Khemi could have also spoken to her afterwards.

I'm under no illusions that Santu is always right, God knows how often we've wanted to smack her too. And I don't think we all do see things as black and white. If we did we certainly wouldn't have a love hate relationship with all the characters. Because at some point we've hated one or the other, and at some point we've loved one or the other. It just happens to be that at the moment Khemi and co are the focus of our anger. Several weeks down the line it could very well be someone else.

It would be impossible for us to see it all in black and white, bearing in mind that all these characters have good points and bad points. Our reactions are just merely a result of whoever CV's portray in a bad light at ant one time.

When all is said and done, both of these sisters have made stupid decisions and have faced our wrath as a result. And I can forgive almost anything except Khemi favouring moti, knowing what she knows. If it had been Santu doing it, I would have been even more livid and was. When Santu kept asking moti to accept her sister and think well of her, I wanted to smack her for being such a plum and expecting such a thing from moti!

The waghela sisters will keep making stupid decisions and letting others do their thinking for them and we'll just keep banging our heads aganist a wall.