Okay...so all this drama and chaos which happened in this show recently, has got me thinking about something.....if we see in this show, really speaking only hitesh's mom completely approves of his choice, other moms, are either quiet on the issue, or disapprove of the choices, gaurav's mom, never knew if she liked rumpa or nandita better, vivek's mom has said in the past that nandita doesn't speak much especially to her, so dunno their comfort level....now rajbir's mom and yash's mom both disapprove of their sons choices, one secretly, one openly.....which one do you think is right in their approach?????
1. Rajbir's mom, even though she clearly does not prefer priyanka, she is not able to assert herself, in front of her son, whenever she is asked whether she approves of priyanka, she replies yes, and avoids the topic, she is letting the two cozy up, to the point that priyanka has started dreaming of having kids on stage with rajbir....😲.....even though priyanka said that she might keep karva chauth fast for rajbir, mom never said anything, so finally raj's dad had to step in to draw a line.....NOW....suppose, raj mom continues to let the priyanka-rajbir, on -screen love fest continue.....and then once the show is over, then they will pressure raj to call it quits with priyanka, If they still disapprove of them....if they don't then no issues...but suppose they do....and then these 2 break up.....would it be right...that they lead priyanka to believe the whole time that she might get married to raj, cozying up to him on camera...talking about getting married , having kids, the whole nine yards....and then she doesn't get married to that guy...wouldn't it be extremely difficult for her to try and get married to some other guy????? and the heartche she would have to bear, would be tremendous.....
2. Yash's mom...she has a more direct approach...she doesn't believe in mincing words....speaks what she feels is the truth.....the con side here is the huge drama that ended up getting created over her stand....the pro is that atleast she's making it clear to the girl she disapproves , that she doesn't see her as her dil....so before the said girl falls in love, she can save her heart from breaking.....here too there are pitfalls....like what happenned yesterday..and it became a full-drawn saas-bahu drama...over the guy.....but one thing's for sure that she has not given gurpreet any false hope, of a future with yash.,..if those 2 still go ahead with their relationship, they certainly will do so at their own risk,....
So, which approach do you think is better, i'm confused, i really like raj's mom, but she needs to be abe to assert herself, i hate to see, how hitesh's mom is so slyly able to use her as a mohra.....😕....and yash's mom, i don't particularly like her, and find her cold, but i do respect her for not leading gurpreet on falsely.....what is the better approach?????