Vidya......I don't get you sometimes

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Anita

@lovefever

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Posted: 16 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: lotus1963
and by the way wasnt she reading a great and instructive book on autism??? Then how does one explain the silly questions that she asked vikram?

I think she wanted to confirm what she read with a knowledgeable person. What is read many times people actually confirm what's written with Drs or people known to the disorder to make sure all are facts.

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Anita

@lovefever

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Posted: 16 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: lotus1963
As I had mentioned in an earlier post I am of the opinion that if a woman takes the decision to come back (even if it is portrayed as having been because of her son abhi but honestly she does love aditya still and by now knows that he loves her too and that he was just plain stupid and weak and unable to say no), she should try to bounce back to normalcy as soon as she can possibly. At least she should make an effort. In case she is unable to turn the page and move on, she should quit him. The point is whatever she decides to do ultimately she should do gracefully. No point sticking around but sulking, edgy, fretful and unfair.
Antara is but a child and is not responsible for any harm done to her.

In my opinion, since she decided to come back she should try to make peace within herself, forgive adi and accept antara and help her out with music and in other ways. The sooner she does it the better for everyone around!!

Double Amen. It's time....Otherwise she will continue to annoy me. Adiya is by himself working this out thanks to the help of Sameer. he needs vidya's help. She is like a STONE. totally bugs me

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skeptical

@skeptical

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Posted: 16 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: onetruelove

Agree. I'm getting very sick of Vidya's mood swings with Antara. What you have with your husband is one thing but not to defend an innocent child against"verbal abuse" doesn't make sense at all. She knew Antara's condition but she never verbally stood up for Antara with Mrs. Gupta's remark on her being MAD. Shame on her for that.

I second you for your thoughts in pink wholeheartedly..................

If she wants to pick a fight, she should do so with Adit........ not a defenceless child !!!!! Has she ever stopped to think how she would feel if Abhi was in Angel's place????

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skeptical

@skeptical

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Posted: 16 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: lotus1963
As I had mentioned in an earlier post I am of the opinion that if a woman takes the decision to come back (even if it is portrayed as having been because of her son abhi but honestly she does love aditya still and by now knows that he loves her too and that he was just plain stupid and weak and unable to say no), she should try to bounce back to normalcy as soon as she can possibly. At least she should make an effort. In case she is unable to turn the page and move on, she should quit him. The point is whatever she decides to do ultimately she should do gracefully. No point sticking around but sulking, edgy, fretful and unfair.
Antara is but a child and is not responsible for any harm done to her.

In my opinion, since she decided to come back she should try to make peace within herself, forgive adi and accept antara and help her out with music and in other ways. The sooner she does it the better for everyone around!!

Paddy,

1) I think she isn't able to come to terms with Adit or his betrayal....... fair enough. She should at least realise that if she cant make a go of it, she has to find another way out of this mess. Mayb she should have taken her time, thought about the whole thing carefully instead of making rash decisions of returning. She may have thought playing the martyr was simple. She doesn't realise, the golden orb is the heaviest to bear and you need some strong shoulders and a strong head for it.

2) I have yet to see her brief Abhi on Antara's condition (in simplified terms of course). Children have to be told to protect the special child in the family...... even if he's younger than her. The little boy can well understand that much. She would be doing Abhi a service and guiding him to be a better person.

All my views of course.........

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Veera

@rockin12

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Posted: 16 years ago

#25

Vidya has been and is right now a pain in my rear. for an educated person she lacks basic morals with regards to Antara. With motions like these she should of divorced Adhiya so he can find someone better.