Vidya......I don't get you sometimes

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Posted: 16 years ago
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As the serial is progressing, Vidya is confusing me more and more.
She has the sympathy of every woman since she's been betrayed by a thoughtless husband. She leaves the house (quite rightly) and returns for the sake of her son who pines for his father (everyone applauded her selflessness). No one expected her to be sugary sweet to Adit the creep.
She didn't want the pregnancy initially because she felt there was no love between her and him. Now she has fears that the child mayb autistic and so is afraid. She keeps poking at him about his daughter being autistic which could very well mean that this child could be autistic too. There are many deformities a gene could carry without manifesting. Do they all come from only Adit?
She almost softened yestdy while discussing the monetary issue. She suddenly hardens, throws the file on the table with a "ultimately its your decision so you make it." She has lost all faith in life because of him. She is heartbroken because of him.
Shake out of it Vidya and take your life in your hands once again. You have it in you to do that. You owe yourself that. Let's see you go forward with courage. Don't become sour and close all the doors and windows. Its bad for health. Let the sunshine come in.
You have to accede one point: Adit has squared his shoulders and has taken the responsibility of his little girl and is never tired of doing his most for her. 👍🏼 He faltered initially but not so much now. He never expects Vidya to do anything for Angel. He knows it wouldn't be fair. Also he is a good father to Abhi.
Yesterday's scene in the balcony was one of the most endearing ones. His promise to his daughter and his determination to bring the family together once more.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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She in kinda of a yo-yo of emotions. I think once she feels herself soften more to Antara you is accepting what he's done...............but time has passed now it's time to be a mother to the little child.....she needs to step up to the plate and shoulder some "caretaking" of the ittle girl. I was really happy to see Abhi get along with the Antara. Most of time this happens he other sibling hates the "other" child in question for life. Abhi and his dad are great. We just need Vidya to get over this already.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Vidya I would say either deal or divorce him and more on. Either way I'm tired of seeing her sulk all the time. Don't like the looks to Antara either.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Vid is totally complex. When I get the feeling she will be a mother of sorts to Antara she changes.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Shake out of it Vidya and take your life in your hands once again. You have it in you to do that. You owe yourself that. Let's see you go forward with courage. Don't become sour and close all the doors and windows. Its bad for health. Let the sunshine come in.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Vidya is acrtually confsuing... but being women she is getting bit too emotionall.. anmd i more over feel bad for antra!!!!!!!!
Antra needs true love from mother!!!!

Hope vidya understnds this soon!!!!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Agreed. Time has passed so she shoud get over this emotional blackmail of sorts with Aditya. Antara needs a mother. I would say the little child is craving it. She follows Vidya all over the place. Watching what she does and then doing it. Antara already sees her as a mom. Heck even the little child Abhi has more sense than Vidya. Come on time to swallow it all and take Antara in her arms.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Give Vidya a chance. They are showing it realistically. It is not eay to except a child from affair so quickly. I think they are showing it nicely how she is confused.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonal75

Give Vidya a chance. They are showing it realistically. It is not eay to except a child from affair so quickly. I think they are showing it nicely how she is confused.

I'm with you...But we're looking for some genuine concern for Antara....Anything...but the mean unhappy constant everyday looks towards the child.
Edited by lovepyar08 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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actually , if it had been a normal situation i guess she wud hav been normal or atleast at peace by now!!
but the things r way beyond normal
first she came to know tht her hubby cheated on her abd has a daughter wit anotehr woman!! its difficult to grasp such type of truth! bu tshe accepted to stay wit adit cuz of her son!
now she still didnt forgive aditya here and did not cum back cuz she was accepting him!! she came back for her son!! so in tht situation seeing antara and adit again n again ...she kind of gets traumatised!!
now before she accepts them and her life the way it is and try to gatehr the peices of life togethr and start fresh she cums to know she is pregnant!!
and now before she thinks anything else or thinks wat to do next she cums to know tht antara has sum mental prob known as autism!!
as otehr ppl even she is not much aware of wat it is!! she is not mean to antara but she obviously cares more bout her kids rite now!
which is again human nature!!she is worried bout the kid in her womb being autistic too and dunno at this point wat to do!!
cuz when u give birth to a life u obviously expect them to b normal n lead a normal life! thts the most important thing a parent want while giving birth to a child!!
so ithink her charcter is shown very realistic and belivable!! antara is not her kid and even she wud hav been her kid ...she wud hav the same doubts bout her pregnanacy!! i dun think being only aditya's daughter matters here.
so i think once antara and vidya strts bonding things mite cum back tio normal!! thst the only key now!

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