Should the word Sex be taboo word in our society? - Page 3

Originally posted by: crazy_sunny

the word sex need not b taboo. but again some ppl overdo things by silly loud talks & excs show of affectn in public . i feel its just to gain attention

Originally posted by: PhoeniXof_Hades

I like it when people talk a bit....different. 😛

Well, thank you.

well, you do have a point...some parts of Indian society are still conservative in this regard...but i do feel that things are moving forward, like Sandya pointed out earlier...at least in urban areas...

I have a question of Ajnu, why do you think the word 'sex' should be a taboo. Do you feel that there is a difference in being able to talk honestly about 'sex' and the usage of sexual references in an inappropriate manner. Are you against both usages of the term 'sex'

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

I have a question of Ajnu, why do you think the word 'sex' should be a taboo. Do you feel that there is a difference in being able to talk honestly about 'sex' and the usage of sexual references in an inappropriate manner. Are you against both usages of the term 'sex'

Oh boy. 😆 Okay, so in our desi culture, would you agree that private matters such as sex are not discussed openly in public with everyone, that there is a certain level of respect and behavior that we are all expected to attain depending on what the relationship is? (Of course, I'm not saying that all other cultures are immoral, but ours heavily relies on relationships and their meanings, agreed?) So all I'm saying is that what's wrong with that? Obviously the existence of sex is not being denied, that's silly. But is it necessary for everyone everywhere to be uttering the word in public at all times? Discuss your sex life with whoever you're comfortable with, all I'm saying is that I don't want to overhear that conversation.

To answer your question then, I'd say I'm against the usage of sexual references in inappropriate manners, then. One is obviously able to discuss sex honestly with whoever he or she wishes to do so at his or her own will.

Ajnu, I agree hundred percent that 'sex' is a very sensitive and private subject and should not be discussed openly with everyone. There definitely is a level of respect to be maintained with discussions regarding the subject.

However, I disagree that it should be a taboo. I feel that sometimes we Indians socially tend to be too aversive to the talk of 'sex' to the point that it is taboo.IMO Indian society can benefit from being a little bit more open and mature about it. Mature being a key operative here.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Ajnu, I agree hundred percent that 'sex' is a very sensitive and private subject and should not be discussed openly with everyone. There definitely is a level of respect to be maintained with discussions regarding the subject.

However, I disagree that it should be a taboo. I feel that sometimes we Indians socially tend to be too aversive to the talk of 'sex' to the point that it is taboo.IMO Indian society can benefit from being a little bit more open and mature about it. Mature being a key operative here.

Oh, I should clarify. I agree that we should not shut away the existence of sex in a closet, lock the door, and throw the key away. I'm all for sex education. I think making the word taboo does not help anyone, it only decreases awareness, and increases mishaps. But yes, maintaining that level of respect, and treating the subject as a private matter is necessary, in my opinion.

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Actually yes and no. I'd say yes, because even if we want it,its not gonna change. And No, because that is far from how things should be. I'd agree when Indians, we Indians say that our culture is our greatest strength, our traditions, norms and culture is great, but I guess been inspired from Swades (lol!), even I don't think it gives it the right to be the best.

We've got to understand first of all, Indians' got to understand that Sex is not as bad as it is portrayed, not is walking hands in hands with a guy... How can fathers allow their whole dynasty to watch item songs or "modern" films, when they don't let their girls even talk to boys from the neighborhood? Strange, and Wrong altogether!!... I don't say Indians are extremists, not all are, certainly not today... But "sex" is still a word many don't, I'd even say, fear from uttering. Why? Isn't it as much a part of us as love or relationships are? So why fear of it?

Sex Education is of utmost importance in such hugely populated countries, especially because of its consequences and impacts. It sure is a private matter to be resolved at times, with discussions only between selective people... But Sex as a general issue has been widely misunderstood over the years, or misjudged!... But I still feel India is changing, its becoming less and less probable to see such cases today... Lets hope, it doesn't stop getting better!!... ;)


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Edit: I'd like to also add that I definitely think the term itself deserves a certain amount of respect and dignity rather than flaunting the whole subject out in public... Even I still live in a family where we go for the remote as soon as sex scenes come up, or Mum would scold me like never before am I seen walking hands in hands with the BF... Seriously speaking, I still feel personal relationships are just that, private and extremely personal.... Its the usage of the word, or non-usage rather, that disturbs me... Even though what I said above, my mother still doesn't mind talking to me about the issue, or about surrounding matters... Its not the actions that need some kind of improvement in India, the norms and culture I totally agree with... Its more the perception of people that disturb me... The kind of thoughts they directly connect to the subject!!...

Hello Everyone,
An interesting topic to say the least. I think everything has a right time and place to be accepted. The Indian society needs to progress a bit for it to embrace sex and it's various connotations out in the open.
I agree with everyone here that sex education is a must in young country like India. Lack of sex education only fuels the fire of misinformation and propagates urban legends.
Comfort level of a society with subjects like sex, affairs and teenage p regency can be witnessed in entertainment industry and the media. how often have we seen a male protagonist of the show never kissing and/or hinting at sex to his partner because a good Indian boy is not expected to talk about such things before marriage. It's always the grey character of the show that engages in such activities.

Also I would like to add that talking about sex in a proper manner at a dignified time does not mean letting go off our Indian culture. Indian culture does state suppression of such ideas, it only expects respect and dignity towards our elders. So long as the discussion of sex are kept within the safe parameters of dignity and grace I do not see it offending our Indian culture.

Originally posted by: OM_Peace