Originally posted by: clodpolish
I think its all to do with the culture and mindset in which the people have been brought up and accustomed to. As of now, the usage of word "sex", even appropriately, if used openly is bound to catch attention in an unwanted way simply because it is something people are not accustomed to. However, with more exposure, the society is becoming more tolerant .
Yes good point - i think in the future as more and more people are exposed and are ok with its mention society becomes more tolerant.
oh you meant it in that way !
obviously, yeah, its wrong to stare at them that ways. Its their life ! But when something is uncommon , its bound to attract attention no? Personally speaking, i have seen such things around me and i don't really care. I might not like to do it but it doesn't give me the right to come to the conclusion that whoever does it is wrong .😊At the same time they shouldn't cross limits in public too ! I am all for self control , at least in public, if you know what i mean😆
LOLLLL Oh yes Self control is needed - I don't want to see public demonstrations myself, but simple things are sometimes very spur of the moment and if they are made into a big deal, then i think we are censoring that couple. Should we be doing that? Is a hug or holding hands in public inappropriate? what about a kiss on the cheek?
Ahh ! These are exactly the kind of situations which make you feel helpless because you know you were not wrong but you can't ever explain to the other side that because they are not open minded enough. Simply said, you can just try to make your point in such situations and if you 'd have a clean record so far (as in you have always been considered decent) , people would eventually understand after some initial hiccups.
It is obviously not correct on the part of others to make such a hue and cry out of the matter , but if we try to understand where they are coming from , it would make more sense.
However, if one knows that people around them would respond to such matters so gravely then why take the risk of going to a movie with the opposite gender first of all without telling anyone? I mean you should have informed your parents before going no? That would have made more sense i guess.
Oh the funny part was our parents also knew that we were going for the movie and we had their permission - its just that none of us considered us as the boy and girl who were seen but we were talked about this way. This became a conversation point for so many people was what i didn't like. ... Now that i think back on it it seems silly that it took much thinking time.. but at that point it seemed like a big deal that i was talked about that way..... by random strangers... Why do these strangers even care? Should they.. sometimes i think its good because that is also the beauty of the Indian society that you get to know where your kid is and what they are doing that easily... but for the kid isn't it very hard?
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