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Surendra

@flute

Voyager

Posted: 17 years ago

frns,,, what do u think of Anandi's character????

I think she has been shown more dumpy n childish than other grls of her village.😆😆😆

as I have some students in class who r good in studies but poor in dealing n understanding outside world.😊

i found that anandi is greedy by nature which is natural for a child of poor family.its okey but....😉

at the age of 12-13 a child begin to understand the circumstances of their environment ITSELF...even if he s not attending school

she did many mistakes and will keep on doing such n her saas will keep on reforming her but plz think on about other grls of village like Phooli n many who have adjusted themselves acc. to their rules.😊

I believe good what Dadisaa did for making anandi to learn cooking..
n giving punishment for that widow -bangle case.😉
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because I discussed it with my teacher n got reply that such kinda nature of child can be mended by severity n not everytime by love advices.😊😊

even jaggi has not been shown soooo unknown abt their customs.

So what r yor thoughts??plzzzz do comments...
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purvi

@coolpurvi

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Posted: 17 years ago

What r u expecting from a 12 year old girl? Dont know why these girls living in those regions don't rebel against these unjust customs. I really feel sad to see how women r treated in these rural regions. they r not allowed to continue study. Dadisa wants a 12 year girl to cook food n assume all the duties of a good wife n daughter in law. Were u urself that smart when u were 12 year old? were u uself in position to understand and perform all the duties of a good husband when u were 12 year old? Why so much burden on a girl only? When I was 12 year old I did'nt know even how to prepare tea. My parents wanted me to be obedient girt n hardworking student but never pressurized me to do household work. Aanandi is much better

Why widows r treated like that. Do u thing the way these child widows r treated in just n humane? First place urself in Phuli's place or any other child widow's place then try to find out answer of these questions. Why they r not allowd to remarry.? Imagine such harsh customs being imposed on u. Imagine all these Dos n Donts being imposed on u. Dadisa is herself a widow yet interferes in everything. eats tasty things, takes part in all celebrations does dadagiri n want other other widows to live in such inhuman conditions. What a hippocrate woman. After becoming widow a women does not cease to be a human

Anandi is soft hearted n obedient n curious. She is a ideal child.
I like her rebellious nature

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poo_supi

@poo_supi

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Posted: 17 years ago

If your teacher hits you and taunts you every now and then would you able to study or would the matter go into your head? No Nah.So now way dadisa is a great teacher...

By hitting and taunting, you are not making the child to understand but making the child revolt. The person will definitely do something wrong.

Cooking is one thing has to been done with someone assistance. Especially with children.

I had working parents, so we did not have servants. When i was 4 yrs old, i used to come home and make the food hot on my own, the food was already made by my mother. I used to assist her in cooking, run errands, shopping. My mom never uses to force me to do a thing.

I want to ask you 3 questions and please reply with your answers

Do you know how to cook on your own without anybody help?

when you get married , will you cook for your wife in presence of your mother?

Will allow your children to cook on their own when they are small?

Regarding widows , I totally agree with what coolpurvi has said.

Why there is in discrimination? What about Men? t
hey can do anything what they want. Coz they are MEN

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Vinisha

@-Vinisha-

Dazzler

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Posted: 17 years ago

Ummm....Nope Dat Daadi Sa iz Relli strict n Iz Orthodox
She Cant Be Referred To As a Teacher...A Teacher Criticizes If V R Wrng But Olso Praises If V R Ryt n Doin' Sumthin Gud...! Bt Dis Daadi Sa Neva Duz Dat..!
N Wat Bout Dat Partiality Btwn Galz n Boys..? She Loves Jagdishiya More Dan Sugna...Both Of Dem R Her Grandparents...I Dun Think Wateva She'z Doin Iz Ryt...😕😕😕...She'z Da Villain Of Sa Serial..Afterol Evry1 Serial Needs Sum Villain...😉

RT_vinisha....!🤗
living for...😳😳😳
❤️RAJAT❤️forever😍😍😍

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Surendra

@flute

Voyager

Posted: 17 years ago

but treditional customs can not be changed alone by anandi's steps alone.
its revolution to be done on large scale.

we always have been taught since junior levels that
jab baat apne control ki naa ho to chup rehkar sehne mein he bhalai hai.

So now when anandi has been put in such bad canal of life then she should accept this reality n shud put habit to live in such way.she shud not feel herself burning alone in this fire.a lot of grls r there who dont complain for such injustice.

and yes i accept injustice with gender.

ummmm i think anandi shud live the way she is being shown.😊😊

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Surendra

@flute

Voyager

Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: poo_supi
If your teacher hits you and taunts you every now and then would you able to study or would the matter go into your head? No Nah.So now way dadisa is a great teacher...

I want to ask you 3 questions and please reply with your answers

Do you know how to cook on your own without anybody help?

when you get married , will you cook for your wife in presence of your mother?

Will allow your children to cook on their own when they are small?

Regarding widows , I totally agree with what coolpurvi has said.

Why there is in discrimination? What about Men? t
hey can do anything what they want. Coz they are MEN

1)by the age of 14 i learnt cooking. i never objected why i was being forced to do so.[even most of indian students get to learn] and here's the matter of village grl.

2) nop..... [i confess gender case.]😉😉😉

3) will allow them slowly slowly.

here at this point i wud like to say that yes Anandi's mom has not taught her simple household jobs even.
for my children i will begin with giving tasks frm minor level to junior level.

starting frm Tea at age of 11 to food at age of 16 or 17.

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Vinisha

@-Vinisha-

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: flute
but treditional customs can not be changed alone by anandi's steps alone.
its revolution to be done on large scale.

we always have been taught since junior levels that
jab baat apne control ki naa ho to chup rehkar sehne mein he bhalai hai.

So now when anandi has been put in such bad canal of life then she should accept this reality n shud put habit to live in such way.she shud not feel herself burning alone in this fire.a lot of grls r there who dont complain for such injustice.

and yes i accept injustice with gender.

ummmm i think anandi shud live the way she is being shown.😊😊

Bt She'z Jus a 12yr Old Gal...n Duznt Even Noe Da Meaning Of Marriage Den Hw Cum She'll Understand Wat To Manage n Wat Not To...!!

She'z Shown Too Innocent....Whu Noes...She'z Married Jus Lyk She Used To Do Wid Her Dolls...!!! 😕

She'z Still Unawaere Bout Da Fact Of Child Marriage......n Sumthing Lyk Bearing Ol Diz Iz Too Much 4 A L'll Gal Lyk Her...😕😕😕...!!!

RT_vinisha....!🤗
living for...😳😳😳
❤️RAJAT❤️forever😍😍😍

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purvi

@coolpurvi

Voyager

Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: flute
but treditional customs can not be changed alone by anandi's steps alone.
its revolution to be done on large scale.

we always have been taught since junior levels that
jab baat apne control ki naa ho to chup rehkar sehne mein he bhalai hai.

So now when anandi has been put in such bad canal of life then she should accept this reality n shud put habit to live in such way.she shud not feel herself burning alone in this fire.a lot of grls r there who dont complain for such injustice.

and yes i accept injustice with gender.

ummmm i think anandi shud live the way she is being shown.😊😊

every revolution starts from a single initiative. History remembers n glorifies only brave persons. Accepting injustice is cowardice

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chaitalee.s15

@chaitalee.s15

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Posted: 17 years ago

Originally posted by: coolpurvi
What r u expecting from a 12 year old girl? Dont know why these girls living in those regions don't rebel against these unjust customs. I really feel sad to see how women r treated in these rural regions. they r not allowed to continue study. Dadisa wants a 12 year girl to cook food n assume all the duties of a good wife n daughter in law. Were u urself that smart when u were 12 year old? were u uself in position to understand and perform all the duties of a good husband when u were 12 year old? Why so much burden on a girl only? When I was 12 year old I did'nt know even how to prepare tea. My parents wanted me to be obedient girt n hardworking student but never pressurized me to do household work. Aanandi is much better

Why widows r treated like that. Do u thing the way these child widows r treated in just n humane? First place urself in Phuli's place or any other child widow's place then try to find out answer of these questions. Why they r not allowd to remarry.? Imagine such harsh customs being imposed on u. Imagine all these Dos n Donts being imposed on u. Dadisa is herself a widow yet interferes in everything. eats tasty things, takes part in all celebrations does dadagiri n want other other widows to live in such inhuman conditions. What a hippocrate woman. After becoming widow a women does not cease to be a human

Anandi is soft hearted n obedient n curious. She is a ideal child.
I like her rebellious nature

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you deserve this for ur reply

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Surendra

@flute

Voyager

Posted: 17 years ago

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Originally posted by: vinisha_RAJAT

Bt She'z Jus a 12yr Old Gal...n Duznt Even Noe Da Meaning Of Marriage Den Hw Cum She'll Understand Wat To Manage n Wat Not To...!!

She'z Shown Too Innocent....Whu Noes...She'z Married Jus Lyk She Used To Do Wid Her Dolls...!!! 😕

She'z Still Unawaere Bout Da Fact Of Child Marriage......n Sumthing Lyk Bearing Ol Diz Iz Too Much 4 A L'll Gal Lyk Her...😕😕😕...!!!

RT_vinisha....!🤗
living for...😳😳😳
❤️RAJAT❤️forever😍😍😍

yaa but only such acts of scolding can bring maturity in anandi slowly slowly.

i myself has a little sister(my uncle's daughter) of 10 yrs old.

she too is soo innocent just like anandi

but at this growing age only love cant build her character.
punishments are also important to be given to teach something.

so i agree with Dadi sa..

whether the institution rules r good or bad but a student has to follow anyhow.

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