Boy- stud, Girl - cheap ?

This is in response to an article on deepika and rakhi .... rakhi questioning her about her frequent changing boyfriends...

I agree with Bips that it is girls who are more likely to judge another girl, it may be because of jealousy or our sense of values but we do it. I know personally my level of tolerance for a girl is a lot lower than for a guy, I don't think of him as a stud, I just expect less from a guy. I do disagree with k-ekta fan that what ever happens is a girls fault because she is more mature, it is just that more is expected, if we all (me included) expected more of men they would rise to the occasion. Especially now when so much can happen to both genders (in regards to their health) both need to take responsibility and protect them selves.

Originally posted by: bips

why is it that when a boy has a lot of girlfriends, he is a lady-killer ... or he is a poor mis-guided soul looking for true love ....... whereas a girl is one with the loose character ?

I think guys who have lots of girlfriends are called a lady-killer because he has girls all over him but in my personal view, whoever has lots of girlfriends is a poor mis-guided soul looking for true love.

a girl with a loose character actually depends on the girl but I thought a girl who had a lot of boyfriends is a lady .... kher no worries, just my thought .... I think the girl who's a loose character possibly might be her fault because if she keeps switching boyfriends than she's just searching for true love.

1) its us girls who seem to be more eager to comment on another girls character and term her loose or vulgar ...

I agree with you but I think there are some girls who don't comment on another girl's character, possibly or maybe it's just me 😆 (no offense). I think we girls are always eager to comment on another girl's character because we girls can't grasp anything in our stomachs or keep it inside us so that's why we just have to let it out to help us make ourselves feel better 😛

2) specifically to IF, from what i gather (though there is no scientific background to this observation) - ppl on this forum are from diverse backgrounds, cultures and countries ... but i think most of us are in the younger age bracket ... mostly below 30-35 ..... if we, the young ppl, the today's generation hold such narrow views then what is the hope for a better society ?

I'm 21, going to turn 22 three days after India's Independence Day. I agree, if we hold narrow views than there's not that much hope for a better society unless if we young people can change our narrow view habits.