Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki: Episode Discussion Thread - 41 - Page 60

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I am not sure. :D She looks confused to me. If she is morally upright, she should take a stand. And support DK, even if she gets hurt. Because that is the right thing to do. She should maintain distance from Vik, Keep Dua safe with her baba because she knowingly or unknowingly made a family with DK in front of world's view. She should leave to Indore. Dua is conceived before marriage, any legal agreement and Vik abandoned her, Dua is not bonded with vik, she is bonded with DK. So all these are enough reasons to make a morally right decision. Nothing should stop her from leaving Mumbai, not even Neetu's health. Her son is back to take care of her. What happens after going to Indore is DK's and Mannat's decision.

If she is ok to compromise on that, it is ok too. But show it convincingly. Not everyone can be morally 100% right.

Morality is not sexuality or concerned with conjugal/love relationships only. Anything that puts you to in a tough position to take a decision is a moral dilemma. A person who chooses the wellbeing of others is generally considered morally right. IMO. Thats why morality changes by time, space, and position. Justice is different. It is always the same and based on evidence. With Vik, justice will not support him too. That is another matter :D

She is supposed to be confused. As of today... there are still lot of truths hidden from Mannat. Judging her behaviour based on the limited information available to her is what is wrong IMO.

Let the entire truth about Duas birth come out first... The situation is a big mess... there are no simple yes or no kind of answers. Isnt that an example of the moral dilemma she is facing???

Bold black... Mannat is not married to either of the 2 guys (if we ignore the terrace wedding)... so legally she is not bound to any of them.

In a hypothetical scenario, she can always 'divorce' DK and move back to Vik with Dua. Thats a possibility too...

Mannats decision to put DKs name on birth certificate or making Dua call DK as Baba was not her decision alone... Ronnie was an equal partner. Neetu was too ill at that point.

The question of Viks rights should be asked to Ronnie as well... not just Mannat. Its not just her. And at that time, it was taken believing there is no way back to Vik.

Now the situation has changed... or will change with Duas reveal... the morality will come in picture now... not before this...

Same goes for 'married in the eyes of society'... RoTu have been living in the same house as DK Mannat. He is the one who can vouch on Mannats virtuosity. Your previous comment hinted at physical needs hence I mentioned this.

Purple... this would be the dilemma wont it... when Mannat has to decide between DK and Vik and who has more rights... but then again Vik was innocent in this matter... and DK stepped in without being asked... rather they had no option but to go with DK.

Even now she hasnt stopped Vik from forming a bond with Dua nor has she ever badmouthed Vik to Dua. She is trying to balance... so i dont why you think theres no moral compass.

Another point which I would like to raise... DKs feelings for Mannat are hidden from her. Only Neetu knows it well... Ro seems like he has an idea but he hasnt verbalized it. The reason Mannat has so far supported DK and not suspected him is because he has concealed them well in front of her.

Seeing how much she loves Vik... I dont suppose she would 'encourage' with any such behaviour...

But thats my take.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I am not sure. :D She looks confused to me. If she is morally upright, she should take a stand. And support DK, even if she gets hurt. Because that is the right thing to do. She should maintain distance from Vik, Keep Dua safe with her baba because she knowingly or unknowingly made a family with DK in front of world's view. She should leave to Indore. Dua is conceived before marriage, any legal agreement and Vik abandoned her, Dua is not bonded with vik, she is bonded with DK. So all these are enough reasons to make a morally right decision. Nothing should stop her from leaving Mumbai, not even Neetu's health. Her son is back to take care of her. What happens after going to Indore is DK's and Mannat's decision.

If she is ok to compromise on that, it is ok too. But show it convincingly. Not everyone can be morally 100% right.

Morality is not sexuality or concerned with conjugal/love relationships only. Anything that puts you to in a tough position to take a decision is a moral dilemma. A person who chooses the wellbeing of others is generally considered morally right. IMO. Thats why morality changes by time, space, and position. Justice is different. It is always the same and based on evidence. With Vik, justice will not support him too. That is another matter :D

Toh wahi toh decision lia hai Mannat ne ab tak...

Where is she even separating Dua from DK ?

She did not even go & tell Vikrant about the truth. It is Neetu's doing and Dhairya gave in bcs of his own growing insecurities.

Its not about what is right or wrong ? Dk, Vikrant & Mannat all 3 have been victom of cicumstances & in that particular situation whatever they felt correct they did that, it doesn't matter if it is right or wrong for the audience..

Also, I dont know why all morality, all goodness, maintaining all purity of relationships is expected from Mannat only ??

Why not the same expectation from DK or Vikrant ?

But then you are questioning the characterization of every character... because each one of them has lied and hidden stuff from one another!!!!

There is not one person who is doodh ka dhula in this entire story!!!!

Not even the so called positive ones like Shruti Maa ... so whats the point going over it again and again???

Because you are never going to be satisfied if thats the idea.

Originally posted by: Mona_HappyLife

Toh wahi toh decision lia hai Mannat ne ab tak...

Where is she even separating Dua from DK ?

She did not even go & tell Vikrant about the truth. It is Neetu's doing and Dhairya gave in bcs of his own growing insecurities.

Its not about what is right or wrong ? Dk, Vikrant & Mannat all 3 have been victom of cicumstances & in that particular situation whatever they felt correct they did that, it doesn't matter if it is right or wrong for the audience..

Also, I dont know why all morality, all goodness, maintaining all purity of relationships is expected from Mannat only ??

Why not the same expectation from DK or Vikrant ?

@bold because they are useless. DK is being butchered too.

Morality is expected from Mannat not because she is woman, she is the only one who is raised well. And only one writers are little consistent.

I have a different take on this and thats why I was looking forward for Duas truth...

This is ITV.. so she will find out too ... afterall drama jo chalana hai...

And thats where Indore gang will realize how it impacts the person whose identity is doubtful. They havent thought of it because what they wanted to show was proven right...

And they are repeating the same mistake with Dua... even if its for her benefit... I agree with Neetu only for this bit...

For them to understand what Vik went through they need to see it through Dua.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Read this Sai if you have time. :D

I am only talking based on BTS. I donnt know any of this what i said will be valid if they show different from BTS. Mannat should leave Mumbai if she is an upright person. I see Neetu is sick again? If DK is saying he wants Dua, and being an equal partner in rasing Dua, and Dua not being bonded with vik till yesterday and ONLY bonded with her dad, DK, what should Mannat do? She should leave Mumbai.

If she is confused about her feelings, it is ok. IMO it is not morally correct. Either as a woman, mother and caregiver. Love is blind so she can forgive Vik on one sorry. I am not saying she should not forgive. But it will NOT look good. She has to resolve everything, and then go to Vik.

Mannat is not married to either of the 2 guys (if we ignore the terrace wedding)... so legally she is not bound to any of them.

This is the BEST decision. And some character from the past show I have seen will do exactly this! That is the highest pinnacle Mannat can reach if she does this. She is in a position where she is not obligated to anyone. I bring in DK because she is not clarifying and let him hang. Just tell him, I will take my baby and go. Tell Dua she is separated with her baba, share her with DK. But she should not leave DK and go with vik, not now, not like this.

Originally posted by: Moor278

I have a different take on this and thats why I was looking forward for Duas truth...

This is ITV.. so she will find out too ... afterall drama jo chalana hai...

And thats where Indore gang will realize how it impacts the person whose identity is doubtful. They havent thought of it because what they wanted to show was proven right...

And they are repeating the same mistake with Dua... even if its for her benefit... I agree with Neetu only for this bit...

For them to understand what Vik went through they need to see it through Dua.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I am only talking based on BTS. I donnt know any of this what i said will be valid if they show different from BTS. Mannat should leave Mumbai if she is an upright person. I see Neetu is sick again? If DK is saying he wants Dua, and being an equal partner in rasing Dua, and Dua not being bonded with vik till yesterday and ONLY bonded with her dad, DK, what should Mannat do? She should leave Mumbai.

If she is confused about her feelings, it is ok. IMO it is not morally correct. Either as a woman, mother and caregiver. Love is blind so she can forgive Vik on one sorry. I am not saying she should not forgive. But it will NOT look good. She has to resolve everything, and then go to Vik.

Mannat is not married to either of the 2 guys (if we ignore the terrace wedding)... so legally she is not bound to any of them.

This is the BEST decision. And some character from the past show I have seen will do exactly this! That is the highest pinnacle Mannat can reach if she does this. She is in a position where she is not obligated to anyone. I bring in DK because she is not clarifying and let him hang. Just tell him, I will take my baby and go. Tell Dua she is separated with her baba, share her with DK. But she should not leave DK and go with vik, not now, not like this.

Now I am confused.🤷🏻‍♀️

Mannat to jaa rahi hai na... she only stayed back for Baisakhi because Dua insisted. She was shown packing bags in today's episode for Gods sake. To ye Mumbai main rukne ka interpretation kaha se a raha hai????

Dua reveal and Court case are matters which have cropped up suddenly. Those were not anticipated neither can she run away without resolving them.

Bold purple... ye mujhe samjha nahi... she loves Vik and she knows it... everybody knows it... to confusion kaha hai?

Pink... iska to koi possibility hi nahi dikh raha hai abhi... while the audience waits for it desperately 🤦‍♀️

Green... kya clarify karna hai DK ko?

Originally posted by: Moor278

Now I am confused.🤷🏻‍♀️

Mannat to jaa rahi hai na... she only stayed back for Baisakhi because Dua insisted. She was shown packing bags in today's episode for Gods sake. To ye Mumbai main rukne ka interpretation kaha se a raha hai????

Dua reveal and Court case are matters which have cropped up suddenly. Those were not anticipated neither can she run away without resolving them.

Bold purple... ye mujhe samjha nahi... she loves Vik and she knows it... everybody knows it... to confusion kaha hai?

Pink... iska to koi possibility hi nahi dikh raha hai abhi... while the audience waits for it desperately 🤦‍♀️

Green... kya clarify karna hai DK ko?

I said based on BTS, i have written. Neetu is sick? even dua's secret is revealed, she should not stay. I am just forcasting, predicting based on BTS. not saying it will happen.

Clarify to Dk there is no future with her, go and marry someone and share dua with her. I mean you cant play house house with him all the time right. It is not about woman or man, it is about basic responsibility. I am not sure if they had this conversation. if they had already, i will take back my words. If they didnt, they should

If she loves vik, then let her love for life. Not going to say anything. Do whatever is right for dua.

Thats what I said otherwise. Resolve everything and go. She can even go to vik, but resolve it all.... it is not easy and she should TAKE steps towards the right. She should show the desperation to leave mumbai. Thats all i am saying. Court case is BS. with what confidence Vik is putting it I dont know. but thats the level of the writers. they can make it all legal.

I am not saying this is happening. To me she looks confused.