I just want to say this in this entire debate -
Individual cases of cruelty can be perpetrated by a person of any religion.. People molesting girls on Holi, throwing goats in the air, woman throwing hot water on a child because he splashed color on her - all such videos also exist.. I know that and I don't deny that... However there is only one faith that gives divine sanctity to kill those who don't believe in Allah ...
9:5: “And when the forbidden months have passed, kill the idolaters wherever you find them and take them prisoners, and beleaguer them, and lie in wait for them at every place of ambush. But if they repent and observe Prayer and pay the Zakat, then leave their way free. Surely, Allah is Most Forgiving, Merciful.”
3:151: “Soon shall We cast terror into the hearts of the Unbelievers, for that they joined companions with Allah, for which He had sent no authority”.
I have just quoted two in the interest of time and the ones I found most interesting..
There are obviously more such gems.. 
How do you handle when large group of people believe in such things.. Individual people, if they do crime, you can jail them, the rest of the community shall not bother... But what does one do when large number of people are literally lured into radicalization with the promise of 130 feet hoor..
https://www.opindia.com/2020/12/sufi-islamic-board-claims-pfi-using-72-hoors-in-jannat-belief-as-a-bait-radicalisation-terrorist-school/
The above article that I have quoted - the statement has not even been given from some hindutva organization..
There is only one religion that makes it a pious activity to trouble disbelievers and then incentivize such people with the heaven where rivers of wines flow with no shortage of sex...
I don't even have to mention the tone deaf and blind muslim community becomes when a terror attack or any attack that has religious motive behind it... Muslim community can organize themselves and hit the streets for Khamenei, for a terrorist like Yakub memon or to prevent the persecuted hindu population from getting citizenship in India but never come out in large numbers and say don't commit a terror attack or don't kill or convert in my religion's name .. Also terror attack committed by Yakub memon can be an individual thing, but a large section of people coming out in his support is not an individual thing.. The people who assembled there had a shared belief, a shared identity.. And there multiple incidents that we can go on and on about..
Problematic people exist in every faith.. I feel terribly bad when things happen during Holi but no one can ever say that Krishna stood for such things.. Mahabharat text does not support such activities.. In fact Mahabharat happened because someone dared touch Draupadi against her wish.. Any one who looks towards this text for guidance will never be able to trouble women..
Muslim community needs to make certain reforms.. It's needed.. It's important.. Every society, every faith has to move forward with moving times.. Else extremely difficult times are ahead... Last time a Wasim Rizvi recommended to remove 26 verses from Quran, he ended up having bounty on his head.. Later on he had to convert to Hinduism.. Being so closed to reform is not going to help build bridges....
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