Okay I might sound like I'm being aryaman's lawyer but here me out.
Arya keeps saying that he hates women because of radhika's dhoka, but there haven't been many instance which proves this except one. Let's take a look at the women in Arya's life, beginning with his family, including his chachi, bua, and sisters, whom he obviously adores because they are family. Then there's Roma and Tina, with whom he's grown up since childhood, Tina now being his bhabhi and Roma his colleague and friend. He was always nice to them. Then there was Ananta and Purvi, and we all know he supported Ananta against his own brother after the truth about their affair was out. And with Purvi, we've seen him be so patient and respectful, defending her from his cousins.
When Ahana entered. He was plainly upset with her because he believed Vikram had cheated on his sister with this girl he had just met a few days before. Later on, Ahana also created situations that made him suspicious of her even more, which led him to take a big step of marrying her in order to save his childhood best buddy. However, as he has gotten to know Ahana, his prejudice and hatred for her are gradually fading. He doesn't mind telling her the truth about who he is because he is now so used to being with her, also might have slowly started to fall for her.
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