Tum se Tum tak episodes - EDT #3 - Page 39

Originally posted by: ro_sh

Boomer nahin Gen X hain bichara

Adarsh upbringing according to them is just listen to whatever they say without questioning them. Hum khush toh tu bhi khush

Yes his bond with his mother/MIL is the best. Next comes Harsh. Yesterday even Mansi looked concerned which was a bit shocking.

Oh yeah I am always confused with these generation names

Originally posted by: ro_sh

After they get married it will be interesting to see their bonding. All that romance Pehle romance dikha de phir RN track shuru karen.

I have been waiting since ages for good romance on this show..pehle Anu raazi thi toh Arya nahi....Arya raazi hua toh Anu nahi

And social media read comments in bengali version of the same show after wedding RN keeps interrupting their romance coz whenever Arya tries to get close with Anu he sees a glimpse of RN in her and gets scared each time

Not sure how much this is true and how much they will copy here in hindi adaptation

Bechare Anurya didn't have a proper formal date even once. Inka rishta hamesha shuru hote hote reh jata h

Let's see kya h in store after this Mohit track

Originally posted by: ro_sh

Even today they acted baffled as she looked unhappy. Everything is happening according to her marzi then why is she unhappy? I was flabbergasted when I heard this. They completely blackmailed, manipulated and even slapped her to forget Arya and accept Mohit and now act as if she had a choice.

Anu will have a much better life at the Vardhan's house with a husband and MIL who will give her her freedom, the real kind. Even Harsh I believe will respect and dote on her. Mansi like you said is a snob but she will not manipulate her.

This is the reason I have had a soft corner for anu since the beginning. When abuse is physical everyone can see it, but when it is subtle like years of manipulation and conditioning no one can see it yet it hurts equally.

Everyone could figure out anu was sad even Mohit’s father, so there is no way her parents didn’t realise just how unhappy the poor girl is with this match, they just chose to be wilfully negligent about it cause that serves them the best.

I just can’t wait for anu to go to the Vardhan house. Even with all the RN drama, I am sure she would be looked after and cared for

Originally posted by: ro_sh

Anu didn't have a choice to accept or reject Mohit. Everything was decided for her. Mohit is well educated, smart and caring (since he's yet to be shown as a villain). That's why I felt Simran deserves someone like him. He's in love with Anu so maybe he might not agree immediately.

Also they revealed today that his father is a psychiatrist. If they explore the reincarnation angle they might show him as Anu's psychiatrist.

Ohh yes. I get what you were saying. Mohit seems like a decent guy so far but what I meant is Simran deserves someone who only loves her. It would be unfair for her to get a guy who first had feelings for her best friend.

@bold- that is really going to be a interesting angle let’s see how well the makers execute it

Originally posted by: Thequirkyquill

This is the reason I have had a soft corner for anu since the beginning. When abuse is physical everyone can see it, but when it is subtle like years of manipulation and conditioning no one can see it yet it hurts equally.

Everyone could figure out anu was sad even Mohit’s father, so there is no way her parents didn’t realise just how unhappy the poor girl is with this match, they just chose to be wilfully negligent about it cause that serves them the best.

I just can’t wait for anu to go to the Vardhan house. Even with all the RN drama, I am sure she would be looked after and cared for

Did anyone notice the difference in approach..Pushpa and Gopal used emotional manipulation, slapping even directly her responsible for Gopal's heart attack and did whatever nonsense was possible and now they have the audacity to ask her every now and then whether she's genuinely happy and claims sab uski marzee se horha h and hum koi zabardasti nahi kr rhe h

On the other hand there is Arya ... Anu is genuinely responsible for his heartbreak and also responsible for the mess he is but look at this man forget blaming her directly he doesn't have an ounce of guilt of loving her .Infact twice he promised Anu whatever her decision is even if it's to marry Mohit he is with her strongly and she will always find him supporting her ...He honestly said that he will never blame her ,never question her and will never even ask for committment. This is genuine care and support that Anu was lacking all while and he was drawn to an much older man.Because he always gave her freedom and has set her free , did not try and binding her in any way.

Warna koi aur hota usko kosta usko kasmein waade sab yaad dilata but this green flag man is not doing that.

That's exactly the main difference b/w Gopal and Arya and their love for Anu.

For Gopal he believes in caging her and Arya on other hand sets her free even if this means she will move away from him

Originally posted by: suhaaniladki

Did anyone notice the difference in approach..Pushpa and Gopal used emotional manipulation, slapping even directly her responsible for Gopal's heart attack and did whatever nonsense was possible and now they have the audacity to ask her every now and then whether she's genuinely happy and claims sab uski marzee se horha h and hum koi zabardasti nahi kr rhe h

On the other hand there is Arya ... Anu is genuinely responsible for his heartbreak and also responsible for the mess he is but look at this man forget blaming her directly he doesn't have an ounce of guilt of loving her .Infact twice he promised Anu whatever her decision is even if it's to marry Mohit he is with her strongly and she will always find him supporting her ...He honestly said that he will never blame her ,never question her and will never even ask for committment. This is genuine care and support that Anu was lacking all while and he was drawn to an much older man.Because he always gave her freedom and has set her free , did not try and binding her in any way.

Warna koi aur hota usko kosta usko kasmein waade sab yaad dilata but this green flag man is not doing that.

That's exactly the main difference b/w Gopal and Arya and their love for Anu.

For Gopal he believes in caging her and Arya on other hand sets her free even if this means she will move away from him

So true

With Arya, anu for the first time experienced what unconditional love looks like and I think that’s why she just completely fell head over heels for him.

With her parents everything is conditional. She is a good daughter as long as she is subservient towards those 2.

Also having such parents have turned anu into a people pleaser that’s why she is constantly trying to get approval from everyone around her even Meera who has wronged her a million times. Because all that girl has known her entire life is to try and gain approval from people like her parents who don’t even have her best interest in mind

That’s very toxic and Arya helped her escape from that toxicity. I bet being with Arya was the very first thing anu did that went against her parents orders

Originally posted by: Thequirkyquill

So true

With Arya, anu for the first time experienced what unconditional love looks like and I think that’s why she just completely fell head over heels for him.

With her parents everything is conditional. She is a good daughter as long as she is subservient towards those 2.

Also having such parents have turned anu into a people pleaser that’s why she is constantly trying to get approval from everyone around her even Meera who has wronged her a million times. Because all that girl has known her entire life is to try and gain approval from people like her parents who don’t even have her best interest in mind

That’s very toxic and Arya helped her escape from that toxicity. I bet being with Arya was the very first thing anu did that went against her parents orders

So aptly described ... Arya's love for her so unconditional and that's what troubling her as well... yesterday jo baatein Arya ko usko bolni chahiye voh khud ko bol rhi thi

She's was like kuch toh bura bolo mujhe I am going against ur wishes

But naaah Arya being Arya said I still trust u ...

Anu is luckiest to have him in her life

I want to erase the entire ark after kashmir from my mind.

Originally posted by: suhaaniladki

I have been waiting since ages for good romance on this show..pehle Anu raazi thi toh Arya nahi....Arya raazi hua toh Anu nahi

And social media read comments in bengali version of the same show after wedding RN keeps interrupting their romance coz whenever Arya tries to get close with Anu he sees a glimpse of RN in her and gets scared each time

Not sure how much this is true and how much they will copy here in hindi adaptation

Bechare Anurya didn't have a proper formal date even once. Inka rishta hamesha shuru hote hote reh jata h

Let's see kya h in store after this Mohit track

@Bold I hope this doesn't happen! Already too many people interfering in their life. Sharmas, Meera, Jhende, Raghupati, Mansi outside bedroom and RN inside

Originally posted by: Thequirkyquill

This is the reason I have had a soft corner for anu since the beginning. When abuse is physical everyone can see it, but when it is subtle like years of manipulation and conditioning no one can see it yet it hurts equally.

Everyone could figure out anu was sad even Mohit’s father, so there is no way her parents didn’t realise just how unhappy the poor girl is with this match, they just chose to be wilfully negligent about it cause that serves them the best.

I just can’t wait for anu to go to the Vardhan house. Even with all the RN drama, I am sure she would be looked after and cared for

This! A person who doesn't even know her realizes something is wrong. No need to even be a psychiatrist to figure some things out. And these parents say they love her a lot.