Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki: Episode Discussion Thread - 37 - Page 87

Originally posted by: Daman17

All is well all is well should be the chant mantra for the FD😂😂 By the way, just remember that Vish was shown to be on the verge of death pre-leap. That’s how she entered SM. But then how did she suddenly survive without any treatment 😂Saluja sir should seriously start investigating this now. I can’t recall a scene where she mentioned that she lied about her health. Please correct me if this was shown pre-leap.

She did everything to get Vikrant her dear son back naa, thought this wasn't addressed since it was understood

Remember, how even before the truth was out when she just entered , Vikrant didn't care to take her to the best doctor to see how her life can be saved. He accepted she was going to die

Originally posted by: Daman17

Yes, Mannat’s trauma is deep, and what makes it worse is that the person she loved the most is the one who caused her this pain. Over the last 2-3 months, we have seen the worst side of Vik. As an audience, its difficult to resonate with him on many aspects, and in that context, Mannat’s reactions feel completely natural. She has literally begged him so many times to trust her and marry her which he ignored due to Vish manipulations.

Her trauma, which had been buried for years, was triggered again by seeing Vik. I have read really bad comments about Mannat on social platforms, and it’s heartbreaking how easily people forget the depth of trauma and emotional devastation that comes with losing everything. She is a woman whose only love accused her of cheating with his own brother, denied her child, divorced her (from her perspective) followed by her mother’s death. Now, if she fears that the only person giving her a reason to live her daughter might be taken away from her, how is she expected to survive? Dua is her only hope. DK and Rotu are her support system, not the sole purpose of her existence. I saw a BTS where Mannat is hugging DK while he calmly reassures her. That also reflects his fear, because he witnessed how Mannat’s life changed after that day and that’s what he mentioned to Ronnie. He stood by her as she rebuilt her life away from Mumbai and Vikrant. After being part of that journey, how could he will be insensitive to her pain? Others may see this differently, but Mannat considers DK her strength. She has openly expressed gratitude toward him for sacrificing his life for her, Rotu, and Dua. He acknowledged that Vik is his brother and that despite everything Vik did to her, she still allowed him to be part of her life and family, giving him the chance to be Dua’s father. People often forget that relationships evolve with time. For Mannat, this is about someone who brought calmness and stability back into her life. Dua is able to live a normal childhood, something Mannat herself didn’t had due to the absence of a father and how society treated her and judges her in past. DK, too had a traumatic childhood, which is why he approaches these relationships with sincerity and without hidden motives. It was Vik who wronged all of them and created this distance through his trust issues and impulsiveness. To me, Mannat’s condition is not an overreaction at all. I don’t understand what people expect when they dismiss her pain as clownery. Honestly, I pity those who use such language on public platforms.

One such person just argued for suffering little boy Vikrant on my post.

I think those who only see & defend MLs suffering, haven’t suffered or lost anyone in their own entitled lives.

They are dismissing Mannat’s trauma as overacting & CAing her for hugging DK. Why doesn’t anyone point fingers at Vikrant allowing Y to literally cling on to him like a clam to a Pearl!

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Beautiful wrote up chaotic.

Exactly after cooling down which Vikrant is never given an opportunity or time for and is expected to immediately get into action after he goes through shock, after he himself has been through so many issues and traumas.

For example we were all aligned Mannat seeing Vikrant with YY and assuming they were a family, but at the same time we cannot accept Vikrant seeing Mannat, her new family and believing Mannat has moved on🙈

Pink: Ya, vik mostly always trusted mannat, it's just that when he is hyper he can't think straight so he misunderstands mannat, but after cooling down he himself without any proofs comes around and trusts, supports mannat...

And vik's anger and impulse also stems from the deep trauma of separation from his birth parents ... trauma as such creates havoc in ones mind when triggered but vik's case is even worse because that trauma is suppressed deep within as anger and pain because of his memory loss..... this unrealised anger and pain triggers in a wrong way.. But ya he needs to work on these anger issues of him no matter what the reasons are behind it..

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Exactly & bold black well said ❤️❤️

Bold red - this is what bothers me of how they keep shoving DK as the best person in Dua and Mannat's life (don't even want to get into today's precap where he is trying to get Brownie points for his vested interests) where as Vikrant gets projected and crucified for being who he is, not a criminal but dumb, stupid and volatile. Guess have to thank makers for atleast not making Vikrant manipulative & a criminal like DK at this point

Another way to look at the precap is will Vikrant then realise his mistake from the words DK said to Mannat about trust? He is going to need to learn at some point. Yes he has anger issues but he has been searching for Mannat for a reason. He needs closure in order to move on.

These are probably dialogues that are going to play in his mind again at the right time.

So the panic over BTSs and wild theories should really stop...

There is no DK hand hold in the faceoff scene... ManVik actually move closer to almost hug each other till Mannat spots the message on the kite. Her expression changes which is when Vik spots the message too.

Dua comes and grabs the kite... but I dont think he has seen it is Dua.

There is no DK hand hold like it was in the BTS. Dua actually drags Mannat away.

Yuvi throws another tantrum and even quickly deduces that the 'poor girl' /Dua is more important for Vik.. clearly a hint at how things will move in future

Vik assures him all the while searching for Mannat.

Mannat is panicking and there's DK to comfort her. He repeatedly says and assures her that Dua ko aapse koi alag nahi karega... vo hamari bacchhi hai... 2 different hints in same sentence.

Theres a hug and comfort which some might find odd.. to me it didnt. Mannat maintains boundaries and so does DK... he is trying to calm her.

Mannat decides to immediately leave for Dubai.

Mr. Sinha, Mr. Jindal praise the event and the chef. Vik praises too... until in the end Mr. Jindal asks Mr. Sinha to introduce him to Mannat.

Thats when Vik realizes that he did not hallucinate Mannat... that when he asked for sukoon to Babaji (on Lohri) it was indeed Mannat and not his vehem. He wonders what is Babaji trying to tell him.

Precap is Mannat being accused for the ill health due to ice Gola and Vik asking proof while DK declares his support.

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Beautiful wrote up chaotic.

Exactly after cooling down which Vikrant is never given an opportunity or time for and is expected to immediately get into action after he goes through shock, after he himself has been through so many issues and traumas.

For example we were all aligned Mannat seeing Vikrant with YY and assuming they were a family, but at the same time we cannot accept Vikrant seeing Mannat, her new family and believing Mannat has moved on🙈

Yesterday you mentioned, Rd, you missed some posts, here they are :

Same thoughts I shared

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/167660897

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/167660406

Red alert- Please watch the episode for the Manvik face off. Beautifully done. There's more which is going to upset everyone, X is already exploding!

• Both Mannat & Vik run towards the kite, and he catches it. Mannat moves away. Vik holds up the kite to give it to her. And they notice each other. It's beautiful...at first both automatically have genuine happiness, they move towards each other. Mannat almost moves her hand to touch him, when she sees the kite with the message. She remembers the FB of their marriage; and remembers everything that happened.
• Dua is waiting for Mannat. She runs towards her.
• Manvik are still staring at each other unbelieving. The kite flies and gets tuck on Mannat. Yashika is watching, she recognises Mannat.
• Dua comes running, sees the kite, grabs it and runs away, dragging Mannat away. Mannat keeps looking back at Vikrant, while he is still standing, looking at her.
• Yashika provokes Yuvi to got to Vik. And tells the poor girl took the kite. Yuvi tries to talk to Vik, he is upset that Vik gave the kite to the poor girl. Vik is not even listening, he is trying to look for Mannat. Yuvi starts crying; and says he is favouring some poor girl over him. Vik pacifies him; Yuvi insists on having gola. Vik refuses & asks him to go back to the hotel with Yashika. But Yuvi cries, and Vik relents.
• Mannat is in shock. She comes home, and goes into a total panic. When DK enters,s he hugs him saying, Vik is going to take Dua away. She cries irrationally saying, Dua said he wants to send her parents to jail, now if he knows Dua is her daughter, he wills end her to jail, separate her from Dua. Mannat is babbling, completely not in her senses. She says she lost all her happiness, her mother, becasue of Vik. She says she is living becasue of Dua. DK tries to calm her down, and keeps saying he cannot take Dua away. he is with them.
• Now here is the interesting part - DK asks her what is she running away from. mannat does not want to tell Dua about Vik. But Mannat also knows it's wrong; she tells DK is Dua's Baba, if she knows ...(i think what is unsaid is if Dua knows the truth, how will she handle it)
• Mannat says she will leave for Dubai the same day.
• At the Mela, Vik buys the gola, all the time looking for Mannat. he notices Mr Sinha with Mr Jindal. He praises the chef and the organisation of the menu. Mr Sinha tells him that he has recommended the chef to mr Jindal and she will be joining his restaurant in Dubai. Just as they leave, Mr Jindal asks to meet Mannat
• Finally, Vik realises Mannat is here. He knows now that Mannat was in front when he prayed the night before.

Pre-cap: Ice kaand. Vik comes forward saying Mannat is a liar. She says she did not lie. She protests, Vik says the dreaded word, 'saboot' She shows the signed paper to DK, saying it is not her signature. DK says he has never doubted her, has never needed proof from her and doesn't ever need proof from her.

Originally posted by: ChaoticTangles

Pink: Ya, vik mostly always trusted mannat, it's just that when he is hyper he can't think straight so he misunderstands mannat, but after cooling down he himself without any proofs comes around and trusts, supports mannat...

And vik's anger and impulse also stems from the deep trauma of separation from his birth parents ... trauma as such creates havoc in ones mind when triggered but vik's case is even worse because that trauma is suppressed deep within as anger and pain because of his memory loss..... this unrealised anger and pain triggers in a wrong way.. But ya he needs to work on these anger issues of him no matter what the reasons are behind it..

And I also think his trauma and issues may be stemming from Neetu's drugging since we are not shown how long Neetu has been drugging him for. And then if they ever plan to address the fire which was mentioned causing Vikrant to finally accept RoTu as parents.

So yes , he has a lot of issues because of the trauma and definitely needs to work on his anger which gets triggered much quickly than other characters because of all the unresolved issues. Unless he himself takes his life back into his own hands instead of getting emotionally teathered with characters like UV, Y his trauma or anger issues will not be resolved. Remember during terrace conversation he does acknowledge he has anger issues and how he reacts badly to situations. So, he is aware of his issues

l have to say, that for once, the post leap for both FL & ML are really written well.

Mannat has solid reasons to fear Vikrant's presence in her life. And Vik has strong reasons as to why he feels cheated by Mannat.

It will take them a long time to trust each other again.

Their scene today when they see each other was so telling. If they have have caused each other pain, they are the only people who can heal each other.

But I know, it's not going to be easy. We will have to face many more MUs. And tomorrow the ice kaand will begin.

I saw a BTS of Mr Sinha yelling at Dua, which was uncalled for.

I am not sure of the upcoming status of DK-Mannat or Vik Yashika. Better not to think about it.