The efforts of Abhira

1. The baby wasn’t breathing well shortly after birth. Armaan just ran away from the hospital. It was Abhira who stayed with Ruhi and then ensured her daughters well being and bought her back to life

2. Her daughter was lost. Armaan just left again. It was Abhira who put posters all around. (She should have given her own number, but oh well, she tought if Armaan found it, he would have called her and informed) but Armaan ran away with Pookie without telling she’s found and safe

3. Abhira actually went and checked the random boxes on the streets - if she didn’t. God knows where Maira would have landed up

Originally posted by: Shinning_AD

1. The baby wasn’t breathing well shortly after birth. Armaan just ran away from the hospital. It was Abhira who stayed with Ruhi and then ensured her daughters well being and bought her back to life

2. Her daughter was lost. Armaan just left again. It was Abhira who put posters all around. (She should have given her own number, but oh well, she tought if Armaan found it, he would have called her and informed) but Armaan ran away with Pookie without telling she’s found and safe

3. Abhira actually went and checked the random boxes on the streets - if she didn’t. God knows where Maira would have landed up

Originally posted by: Indira1211

these are just stuff she’s done for pookie.what about everything she’s done for Armaan and Poddars.. she’s done too much for armaaan and that family and got nothing in return. Now she needs a man who’ll love her and do stuff for her.

Only if she loves and respects her own self. If she can't do that then why anyone else would?

Originally posted by: Shinning_AD

1. The baby wasn’t breathing well shortly after birth. Armaan just ran away from the hospital. It was Abhira who stayed with Ruhi and then ensured her daughters well being and bought her back to life

2. Her daughter was lost. Armaan just left again. It was Abhira who put posters all around. (She should have given her own number, but oh well, she tought if Armaan found it, he would have called her and informed) but Armaan ran away with Pookie without telling she’s found and safe

3. Abhira actually went and checked the random boxes on the streets - if she didn’t. God knows where Maira would have landed up

The whole baby thing was coz of her own effort. I'm no longer following this show but even during BSP, Arman wanted abortion but Abhira risked her life to give birth.

It was abhira who constantly kept trying for baby and it was due to Abhira that her sister chose to carry a baby for Abhira. Armaan was initially against it too. If Abhira was not adamant, there would've been no baby between them at all. Literally Maira wouldn’t have existed if Abhira didn’t stay persistent on wanting a baby.

Originally posted by: strancho

Only if she loves and respects her own self. If she can't do that then why anyone else would?

Yes,That's the main point.

There is no greatness in supporting every act of Abhira.

She lets everyone bully her,specially those who r actually her own people.

Her greatness is one thing but not sticking upto own principle in terms of maintaining own respect is such a disgrace.Who is Armaan to question her motherhood?This girl endured labour pain once still Couldn't point this out in front of Armaan.

She had a difficult childhood still Couldn't learn to save herself from verbal abuse.

She is raised by a single mother & somehow has so insecurities about her own motherhoodness which gave Ar chance to all the crap(He isn’t justified here but initial Armaan's action would have been put in place if Abhira were actually strong)

About anshuman there is actually no spark from her side & I don’t know Why I feel she will never again fall in love ever again.

Abhira is the example of wasting love on wrong person & then giving cold fits to the right one.

Originally posted by: ghostlyghost

The whole baby thing was coz of her own effort. I'm no longer following this show but even during BSP, Arman wanted abortion but Abhira risked her life to give birth.

It was abhira who constantly kept trying for baby and it was due to Abhira that her sister chose to carry a baby for Abhira. Armaan was initially against it too. If Abhira was not adamant, there would've been no baby between them at all. Literally Maira wouldn’t have existed if Abhira didn’t stay persistent on wanting a baby.

The reason she wanted baby was for armaan

I mean he was basically begging his mom to accept them and that was the only way

That time she was so selfless

And armaan also acted as if he regretted marrying her

Originally posted by: Nydv

The reason she wanted baby was for armaan

I mean he was basically begging his mom to accept them and that was the only way

That time she was so selfless

And armaan also acted as if he regretted marrying her

Still only her who fought for the baby, Armaan did not. She may not have given birth this time, still after ruhi, It's her who gets most credit for the baby. And no it wasn’t coz of getting vidya's acceptance but to give armaan a family.

When was she selfish in matter of armaan? I literally gave up watching coz she literally became a doormat to him, letting him puch her as he wishes.

Originally posted by: ghostlyghost

Still only her who fought for the baby, Armaan did not. She may not have given birth this time, still after ruhi, It's her who gets most credit for the baby. And no it wasn’t coz of getting vidya's acceptance but to give armaan a family.

When was she selfish in matter of armaan? I literally gave up watching coz she literally became a doormat to him, letting him puch her as he wishes.

During bsp time it was bcz of vidya, at least some of it was

She was basically torturing them

Originally posted by: Nydv

During bsp time it was bcz of vidya, at least some of it was

She was basically torturing them

Main reason was she wanted to give armaan a family which she had realised, he doesn’t have.

And second major reason was, it was a miracle. She was told she can never have a baby and when the surprise came, she wanted to keep it at any cost.

Originally posted by: ghostlyghost

Main reason was she wanted to give armaan a family which she had realised, he doesn’t have.

And second major reason was, it was a miracle. She was told she can never have a baby and when the surprise came, she wanted to keep it at any cost.

It was due to her own insecurity

As she felt worthless after infertility reveal

Part of it was armaans fault for letting her feel like that