The efforts of Abhira - Page 3

Originally posted by: Indira1211

abhira fights for her rights and doesn’t take abuse from anybody else ,…except Armaan and vidya and kaveri. She finally sorted her equations out with Vidya and kaveri,.and they seem to be having a healthy relationship now..However her relationship with Armaan is still displaying battered wife syndrome..where she still blames herself for his abuse thinking she deserved it. Hopefully when she finally moves on from him..she’ll start respecting herself and loving herself and realising she is a worthy woman and he was not good enough for her. Armaan may not physically abuse abhira..but he mentally and verbally abused her throughout their marriage and continues to do so in the 7 years Apart. He destroyed her self esteem ..making her believe that she isn’t capable of raising a child. I don’t understand why people still want abhimaan to reunite..

Even I don’t understand why do the people want them to reunite ..

Generally in many shows the cause of separation is a misunderstanding.. guilt on both sides , and almost always one party is not aware that there is a kid present in the world

But over here , after the surrogate baby was Armaan treated abhira like 💩.. he barely let her touch her . Saying she has fever .. remember the way he shabbily forgot that she was not sitting on the bus

During the whole hill wala Pooja . It was a bundle of mess .. the baby was kidnapped because Vidya took the baby ( Vidya was the dadi ) normally dadi’s hold the child .. they are the first safe base to hold the baby when parents are doing ritual

It is very very common in India .. There were so many functions to be done .. in the first year . Abhira did not give the baby to any nanny ..

But blame only went to Abhira .. and then when miraculously when the baby was found ., Armaan did the unforgivable crime of running away with the baby

For 7 years Abhira has lived with the guilt and fear her baby is missing and maybe dead . She may also be scared the child has been turned into a beggar .. there are so many crimes done to kids

Armaan did not have the decency to inform Abhira he has pookie with him .. he is taking her with him and won’t return .. Abhira would have got closure that pookie is with one parent ..

Armaan has kept pookie safe which he thinks but a 7 year old child keeps on running away without him knowing away .. Mt Abu and udaipur are not crime free cities where a 7 year girl can roam around free

What are the makers smoking if they feel Abhira should forgive Armaan after this crime and pookie should have a happy family

Armaan should be arrested for kidnapping the child . And keeping her away from the mother .. Ruhi should give evidence that this is his second attempt to Baccha Chori . It might help Abhira in the custody fight.. since the kid is already attached to Arman n g2 it’s a pointless fight .. she will want to go back to them . And Abhira herself will handover the girl to them

So ideally Abhira should move on with Anshuman he can actually miraculously produce a son from a previous marriage wife dead . So that the pressure of pregnancy does not fall on Abhira .. I don’t think she can deal with this trauma

In the meantime .. there should be an accident and Armaan n G2 die .. so that Maira comes to live with Abhira .. how she rebuild her bond with her mother can be the base

Naira n Akshara stayed apart . Akshu did not live with Naira ..some years of bonding between the 2 has to be shown . And then an older Abhira can be introduced in the story for Gen 5

Otherwise they will have Abhira get another baby girl and keep Mayra as PL