As long as there are good romance scenes, a couple is acceptable? - Page 9

On topic i do like some red flags if it's written well and have good redemption arch. You know if it is woven well with story. What I don't like is if they are toxic and when story tries to justify it... Like it happened in this show. That hero was majbur (personally toxic with reason is much better than spineless) or when woman is doormat.

On another topic this show is not serving any worthwhile romantic scenes since they replaced male lead, the chemistry also went away with previous arman.

I think my attachment for Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai has gone beyond just casual watching—at this point, it’s an addiction. It’s not that I believe the writing is flawless or that everything makes sense logically, but the drama keeps me hooked in a way that few shows do. I don’t necessarily need a well-written story to stay engaged; sometimes, the sheer intensity, high stakes, and emotional rollercoaster are enough to keep me watching. Even when I know certain plotlines are repetitive or frustrating, I can’t seem to look away because the chaos itself is entertaining.

I’ve moved past an age where I watch shows just for the romance. Don’t get me wrong—I love a good love story, and strong chemistry between leads definitely draws me in. But I also need something more than just a couple romancing on screen. That’s why, even though I still think Surbhi and KSG have sizzling chemistry, I haven’t felt the urge to watch QH 2.0 or even the Zouk bag ads. Same goes for KRPKAB S3—I saw the disaster coming from a mile away, so I didn’t even bother. The romance just feels repetitive, and I don’t find myself invested in it anymore. With YRKKH, what keeps me engaged isn’t just Abhira and Armaan’s romance—it’s the overall drama. I actually like that their love story isn’t overdone because the push-and-pull, the conflicts, and the gradual emotional build-up make it more compelling.

I don’t mind toxic drama as long as it’s engaging. Of course, I don’t want to see a relationship full of red flags being glorified, but if the flaws are acknowledged and woven into the characters’ journeys—whether through growth, redemption, or even an eventual downfall—it makes for a gripping story. Sometimes, I find myself enjoying the romance despite its flaws because the emotions feel raw and real. It’s not about agreeing with everything that happens on screen; it’s about being emotionally invested enough to care. The tension, the heartbreak, and even the moments of frustration keep me coming back.

And honestly, sometimes the storytelling in YRKKH isn’t even that strong. There are times when the writing lacks depth or relies too much on repetitive tropes, but I still find myself watching. Why? Because even when the script is weak, the drama itself is compelling. Whether it’s messy family conflicts, intense confrontations, or characters making impulsive, emotional decisions, there’s something addictive about watching everything unfold. It’s almost like watching a trainwreck—you know things are going to spiral, but you can’t look away.

That being said, a huge reason I stay invested is because of Samriddhi Shukla and Rohit Purohit. No matter what they are given, they deliver. Even when the writing doesn’t do their characters justice, they manage to elevate every scene. Their chemistry makes even the most frustrating moments watchable, and that’s not something every pair can pull off. I might not always agree with how the story is going, but their performances keep me emotionally connected.

At the end of the day, I know YRKKH isn’t for everyone. Some people might not enjoy the drama the way I do, and that’s completely fine. But for me, as long as it keeps me engaged, I’ll continue watching. It’s not about wanting toxicity in a story—it’s about how compelling the journey is, even when I know it wouldn’t work in real life.

Originally posted by: Bluehue

On topic i do like some red flags if it's written well and have good redemption arch. You know if it is woven well with story. What I don't like is if they are toxic and when story tries to justify it... Like it happened in this show. That hero was majbur (personally toxic with reason is much better than spineless) or when woman is doormat.

On another topic this show is not serving any worthwhile romantic scenes since they replaced male lead, the chemistry also went away with previous arman.

Completely off-topic, but I haven’t watched Varun in any show since Swaragini. Do you know what he’s up to these days?

TV, especially Indian television, has always been about drama. From the beginning, audiences have shown a clear preference for toxic, over-the-top storylines, and that’s exactly why ITV continues to serve them. It’s not going to change unless the audience itself changes. People might criticize it, but the fact remains that drama sells, and that’s why it keeps coming back in different forms. I enjoy non-dramatic, intense romances too, along with sitcoms and chick flicks, but I know where to find them. If I want that kind of content, I turn to OTT platforms or Hollywood because those industries cater to a different kind of audience.

Entertainment is everywhere, and there’s no reason to limit yourself to just one type. If something doesn’t appeal to me, I simply skip it and move on to something else rather than complain about it. The same thing happens with American TV—look at CW shows, for example. They only cast good-looking actors and pack their series with endless drama, and people over there complain about how exaggerated it all is. But at the end of the day, those shows still have a loyal audience. It’s funny how their movies tend to be more serious and restrained, yet their TV shows go all-in on drama, proving that people do enjoy it, even if they don’t always admit it.

The same applies to telenovelas and other dramatic formats—they cater to a certain audience, and as long as people are watching, they will continue to exist. If someone enjoys that kind of content, they should watch it guilt-free. If they don’t, they can simply skip it. There’s no need to overanalyze or justify what kind of entertainment people consume. In the end, it’s all about what keeps you engaged and entertained.

At the end of the day, entertainment is subjective. Some people enjoy high drama, others prefer subtle storytelling, and many—like me—enjoy a mix of everything. There’s no right or wrong way to consume content, and there’s no need to justify what you like. As long as a show keeps its audience engaged, it has a place in the industry. Instead of expecting TV to change, it’s easier to simply choose what suits your taste and move on from what doesn’t. After all, there’s something out there for everyone—you just have to know where to look.

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

Completely off-topic, but I haven’t watched Varun in any show since Swaragini. Do you know what he’s up to these days?

I was just asking about Varun a few weeks back and wonder since Savatri Devi, I haven't seen him in any itv show. Then my friend said he was in a movie with Alia & Ajay in Gangubai Kathiawadi.

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Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

I think my attachment for Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai has gone beyond just casual watching—at this point, it’s an addiction. It’s not that I believe the writing is flawless or that everything makes sense logically, but the drama keeps me hooked in a way that few shows do. I don’t necessarily need a well-written story to stay engaged; sometimes, the sheer intensity, high stakes, and emotional rollercoaster are enough to keep me watching. Even when I know certain plotlines are repetitive or frustrating, I can’t seem to look away because the chaos itself is entertaining.

I’ve moved past an age where I watch shows just for the romance. Don’t get me wrong—I love a good love story, and strong chemistry between leads definitely draws me in. But I also need something more than just a couple romancing on screen. That’s why, even though I still think Surbhi and KSG have sizzling chemistry, I haven’t felt the urge to watch QH 2.0 or even the Zouk bag ads. Same goes for KRPKAB S3—I saw the disaster coming from a mile away, so I didn’t even bother. The romance just feels repetitive, and I don’t find myself invested in it anymore. With YRKKH, what keeps me engaged isn’t just Abhira and Armaan’s romance—it’s the overall drama. I actually like that their love story isn’t overdone because the push-and-pull, the conflicts, and the gradual emotional build-up make it more compelling.

I don’t mind toxic drama as long as it’s engaging. Of course, I don’t want to see a relationship full of red flags being glorified, but if the flaws are acknowledged and woven into the characters’ journeys—whether through growth, redemption, or even an eventual downfall—it makes for a gripping story. Sometimes, I find myself enjoying the romance despite its flaws because the emotions feel raw and real. It’s not about agreeing with everything that happens on screen; it’s about being emotionally invested enough to care. The tension, the heartbreak, and even the moments of frustration keep me coming back.

And honestly, sometimes the storytelling in YRKKH isn’t even that strong. There are times when the writing lacks depth or relies too much on repetitive tropes, but I still find myself watching. Why? Because even when the script is weak, the drama itself is compelling. Whether it’s messy family conflicts, intense confrontations, or characters making impulsive, emotional decisions, there’s something addictive about watching everything unfold. It’s almost like watching a trainwreck—you know things are going to spiral, but you can’t look away.

That being said, a huge reason I stay invested is because of Samriddhi Shukla and Rohit Purohit. No matter what they are given, they deliver. Even when the writing doesn’t do their characters justice, they manage to elevate every scene. Their chemistry makes even the most frustrating moments watchable, and that’s not something every pair can pull off. I might not always agree with how the story is going, but their performances keep me emotionally connected.

At the end of the day, I know YRKKH isn’t for everyone. Some people might not enjoy the drama the way I do, and that’s completely fine. But for me, as long as it keeps me engaged, I’ll continue watching. It’s not about wanting toxicity in a story—it’s about how compelling the journey is, even when I know it wouldn’t work in real life.

You couldn't have explained it any better

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I was just asking about Varun a few weeks back and wonder since Savatri Devi, I haven't seen him in any itv show. Then my friend said he was in a movie with Alia & Ajay in Gangubai Kathiawadi.

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Thanks! Yes, I did see him in Gangubai. He was the guy who sells Alia to the brothel. But still haven't seen him in ITV for a long time. I didn't watch Savitri Devi, but loved him as Sanskar.

Originally posted by: yum_immy

You couldn't have explained it any better

Originally posted by: theromanticcrap

Completely off-topic, but I haven’t watched Varun in any show since Swaragini. Do you know what he’s up to these days?

Originally posted by: Bluehue

hey, swara and Sanskar the good old days. Varun he was in webseries last year called jugnu on zee5 i think since then he is bit off radar even on insta he posts once in blue moon.

Yes, those good ol' days.

Oh, is it any good? His wife used to post on Instagram back when he was in Swaragini, and fans used to give her flak left, right, and center.