Bigg Boss 18 - Daily Discussion Topic - 29th Dec 2024 - WKV - Page 95

Originally posted by: Chingaari

Kashish jaldi jaldi tina style mein camera pe dekh ke ro rahi hai

Kashish does look beautiful, crying even too.. Her eye make up is so good too.. And the way she targets my KV.. It's hot too.. Good rivalry.. I like it..

honestly vivian looks happy when chahat is around https://x.com/wannabecurious9/status/1873406288337805592?s=46

Originally posted by: RishuDarling

Just picking your post to quote. Saw several replies on this and.. I would Like to give my two cents.

Suppose it just depends per person. What do you find important or nice to know to build that personal relationship. What is your own interest.. Usually, what you would like to share with someone is also what you like to know about another..

In my case for example, I know my friends and close colleagues / team very well, although I have known some only for 1 year maybe. I know about their relationships kids, siblings, parents and even grandparents. Some family members I have even met. My friends come to my home and I go to theirs occasionally. My family know them to by name and show interest in them by asking me or asking them questions.. The same friend could very well not invite me to their home ever.. Do I mind? No.. Have I wondered why this is? Yes.. But I never will ask about it. Some reason must be there and it is all fine.. In a friendship one will give more. Invest more. And not every friend finds the same thing just as important..

Like KV also tried to describe when he explained his guest list for parties and junior artists, but he didn't do a good job trying to be funny or cool or whatever. It is normal right, that we have our circles of friends, schoolmates, hobby or sports members, acquaintances, besties/close ones, colleagues with whom you are friendly and colleagues who become your friends as you hang out also in your own time.

Long list, I know.. Are you still on board?

The list is there only to show like how many circles that are there, and it depends on us only which circle we give importance too. And... Sometimes it is not the amount of years that people know each other that counts but how much time you invest in that relationship.. What are you interested in to know about the other person..

So there is a mismatch here between the fellows.. A misunderstanding or a disappointment of expectations, when people get too busy for example with work or personal life.. With some friends you can have radio silence for two years and then pick up right from where you left off..

Now, with VD and KV.. Are they friends? Or friendly colleagues? Besties they are not.. Or are they? The fact that VD did not answer does not have to mean that he doesn't know anything about KV's personal life and on what matters to him.

VD has made comments to him and about him, mentioning 'we have all seen what a family man you are'.. Some disappointment and disapproval is there..

On behalf of VD, I can see the guy is sweet. He cares but does not show it explicitly.. He is more subtle.. He shows it (and shows off with it too) is his cooking.. And he lets KV taste too.. He could be his biggest and most honest critic and friend..

I need the truth between them to come out! they both care in their own way.. One counts years, the other time spend.. I expect both come with the best intentions and are trustworthy friends when it comes down to it..

But this is Bigg Boss.. So.. For now the claws are still out I guess..

Sorry for so much text.. I think too much when I should be fast asleep already..

Good night 💋🌹❤️

I agree with everything you said. For different people the definitions of frndship are different.

For certain people long durations of friendship mean knowing each other well , having shared and exchanged personal details between them, hanging out , talking about work , family and anything and everything . People who not only become frnds wid the person but also make efforts to know each other's family .

While for introverts the definition of Friendship might be entirely different. For them people who they have talked openly for a few times is considered a good friend and they dont necessarily like getting to know them on a deeper level than that. For them friendship might just be between two people and just a level of comfort or ease . Sometimes they even consider those people as friends who have made them feel like they belong or have simply welcomed them wid open arms.

So yeah both KV and VD are right in their own perspectives cause they do have opposite personalities.

PS : Rishu not that I mind but you chose the wrong post to quote. This post is not my opinion on the matter , this was made simply with the intention to counter that nasty argument that if you have told ur guy friend your sister's name then you are a tharki.

Originally posted by: SoIWasSaying

Vivian said that he will ask three questions in return instead of reply for the first primary question.... Abhi woh hi baat prove kar diya

C- Friend hai ya nahi

KV-Do u know my school name

KV-:Do you know my sister's name

That's what friends do for each other. KV also did his part to show VD as being right and give a answer to his question, indirectly.. Give and share with him some limelight too

Same in picking the same friend Avi.. Just shows that I can't say but I approve of your choice

Kidding.. Just having fun!

Originally posted by: BeingBlunt

LMAO. Wo to dikhta hi hai. Generally there is a saying that after 60 people start losing it that's why Sathiya gaya bola Jaata hai. Yahan ye Sathiya gaya hai 15 years before.

And True, with times very few friends remain. I have just 2 friends who I am in contact with regularly. Others are just colleagues or online friends.

But my sis is next level. She made a cousin's friend as her friend and now she is more of her friend than the cousin's.

Me to you - You don't matter to me my brother because you don't know my sister's name . One contestant mentioned it in the episode . He has lost his marbles completely . Childish behaviour by himclownery at its peak.

Last lines - I feel so relatable with her .We are quite similarIMO.I'm your sister too.

Originally posted by: SoIWasSaying

Kashish holding Sara and crying but same kashish pushed Sara under the bus with gravitas and flavours

Actually, Sara did the same for Kashish by not sticking besides her with the angle creation case.. That exploded so hard in Kashish face though..

Originally posted by: rac1

thank god u guys didn't say Avinash. but I think he will be because of BB 😭

If you saying this to me then I am that one who disliked avinash from day one and I actually don't want to see him in top 5. But merey chahney sy kya hi hoga 😒

Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

I agree with everything you said. For different people the definitions of frndship are different.

For certain people long durations of friendship mean knowing each other well , having shared and exchanged personal details between them, hanging out , talking about work , family and anything and everything . People who not only become frnds wid the person but also make efforts to know each other's family .

While for introverts the definition of Friendship might be entirely different. For them people who they have talked openly for a few time is considered a good friend and they dont necessarily like getting to know them on a deeper level than that. For them friendship might just be between two people and just a level of comfort or ease . Sometimes they even consider those people as friends who have made them feel like they belong or have simply welcomed them wid open arms.

So yeah both KV and VD are right in their own perspectives cause they do have opposite personalities.

PS : Rishu not that I mind but you chose the wrong post to quote. This post is not my opinion on the matter , this was made simply with the intention to counter that nasty argument that if you have told ur guy friend your sister's name then you are a tharki.

Yeah sorry for that.. I was just reading and clicked quote as I felt like writing something too. I was lazy to go back. Tomorrow I will correct that ok. Here on IF copy pasting correcting is also a challenge for me sometimes..

And you don't worry about the tharki remark.. More or less a joke I guess. And if not, you know what the deal is for you right.. Let it be and let it rest.. So many opinions right?

And on topic, yes! I agree.. You have explained it so well on the introvert part of it. And it fits well for these two guys if you see there personalities of what we know..

My expectation is also that Vivian feels connected to Karan for the things he has shared with Karan. And not so much for the time they have actually spend with each other.

I am smiling a bit here as I joke around and call them jilted lovers.. But it almost feels like that.. Vivian felt he gave his whole heart to KV that one time.. And KV feels like oh come one.. We kissed and cuddled only once and that too wye we were drunk..

'And with the you don't matter to me, do I matter now' you can sense that this is ego, hurt, disappointment (meaning there were expectations) and a bunch of other emotions..

In the house, from what I have seen, it was Vivian who started speaking negatively about KV (saying I don't take KV seriously and others also don't do that).. But who started what outside the house.. So I am curious.. And will it end in the house?

Stay tuned.. To be continued.. Colors tv Bigg Boss

Originally posted by: RishuDarling

Yeah sorry for that.. I was just reading and clicked quote as I felt like writing something too. I was lazy to go back. Tomorrow I will correct that ok. Here on IF copy pasting correcting is also a challenge for me sometimes..

And you don't worry about the tharki remark.. More or less a joke I guess. And if not, you know what the deal is for you right.. Let it be and let it rest.. So many opinions right?

And on topic, yes! I agree.. You have explained it so well on the introvert part of it. And it fits well for these two guys if you see there personalities of what we know..

My expectation is also that Vivian feels connected to Karan for the things he has shared with Karan. And not so much for the time they have actually spend with each other.

I am smiling a bit here as I joke around and call them jilted lovers.. But it almost feels like that.. Vivian felt he gave his whole heart to KV that one time.. And KV feels like oh come one.. We kissed and cuddled only once and that too wye we were drunk..

'And with the you don't matter to me, do I matter now' you can sense that this is ego, hurt, disappointment (meaning there were expectations) and a bunch of other emotions..

In the house, from what I have seen, it was Vivian who started speaking negatively about KV (saying I don't take KV seriously and others also don't do that).. But who started what outside the house.. So I am curious.. And will it end in the house?

Stay tuned.. To be continued.. Colors tv Bigg Boss

No no. You dont need to correct anything. I dont mind it. Dnt worry. I just wanted you to know ke dt post wasnt my general opinion on dt matter.

That comment was not a joke Rishu. Not everyone is as nice and funny as you. Some just cant digest that their favs are no more in contendership to Top 5. Anywys you dnt get into all dt . Tu likh jo tujhe likhna hai bindass.

Yes KV and Viv do behave like jilted lovers and sometimes old married bickering couple. I think neither of their expectations of friendship was met by the other.

I think inside the house both hv said things abt each other , Viv more than Karan imo. Baki outside ka you send some secret agent to find out

https://x.com/allthingabsurd/status/1873411101909491949?s=46&t=bV_hbhGc6kr9KSkpf1VqPA