Teri Meri Doriyaann Episode Discussion Thread - 53 - Page 15

Then Sahiba shouldn't expect Angad to believe her words against that of his brother. Nor should the viewers. Such an expectation itself is wrong.

I'm not saying Sahiba should've brought proof , my point is she shouldn't expect Angad to believe him with out any. Nor should Santosh say nonsense like why you didn't believe her words at word value .. I mean, why lady ?? Why should he believe her ?? They don't communicate, they don't have a normal conjugal relationship, they're on the verge of divorce yet both side are high on ego and none are initiating any talk or any attempt to stop it. Isn't it obv that normal husband wife trust would be absent in their relationship?

I'd have found it hilarious if Angad had believed her at such a situation against a goody two shoes like Veer , who was basically a cutie patootie in the beginning ( that's the image of his brother in Angad's mind. )

I don't know what expectations people had from Sahiba. I never did. I don't believe in undue expectations from human beings. Especially flawed characters like Angad and Sahiba , who are made of 90 % ego and are in no way sorted human beings.

But , since I never had any undue expectations from Sahiba, I don't have any from Angad either. If they were not as they are , their marital life would not be such a farce and so easy to fracture , interfere n manipulate by others.

If Sahiba can not think why Seerat would want to kill her , then why Angad would think she'd suddenly go bonkers and acting dangerous towards his family, that too within a span of fee hours ??

If Sahiba though she'd be fine after resting for a few hours , then Angad would think the same way , no ?? That she's resting and she'll be fine after that ?

Angad was trying to explain in which situation he slapped Sahiba. I don't find anything at all wrong in that. In fact it makes his apology genuine and heartfelt.

An apology is nothing when it's only a sorry , without an explanation. He owned up his mistake and he was trying to convince that those were extenuating situation and normally he'd never slap her. Which I completely believe.

I have no idea why it is taken as him saying he's done no wrong, when he's infact saying just the opposite.

If Sahiba couldn't calmly explain it to him , then how could she possibly expect him to believe her ? What reason she has given him to trust her like that ?

the characters on the show- mongas, brars have ALL only ever blamed Sahiba for EVERY damn thing. the few times she has had her parents support- its not actually amounted to anything tangible because she is always getting tortured

Angad seh koi ummeed nahi hoti hai. he gets credit for things Sahiba does and Sahiba gets blame for what everyone else does- Angad, Seerat, Kiara, Gary, her parents, Manbeer, Inder, Rumi and every other tom, dick and harry

He has had ZERO trust in her but expects her to do his bidding and to be 100% transparent with him and have no expectations, no opinion of her own.

It takes him two secs to go from fake praising her for saving his ass and seeing her risking her life to mistrusting her and her intentions.

Originally posted by: arnavkushi14

Sahiba didn't even let Anagd talk to her. She forcefully sent him out and shut the door he tried to explain the situation, but he has been trying explain the situations any what's done is done...angad said sorry and he will say sorry until sahiab realizes. For me that is enough he stands tall.

he did the right thing he shut his mother, he confronted veer understood veer is manipulating, left morning fist thing he has to do, got the proof and took veer to moongas..

Angad didn't even know, that sahiba was not feeling well any way you have other people who can engage you ranting on angad with out watching episodes of Nipunji you know me. for me both are same..

Actually I completely agree.

Ofcourse Angad has done many wrong things, but he's also the only one trying to fix a situation.

Even then people are calling it nautanki that he brought Veer to Mongas house and tried to make him apologize. Damned if he does , damned if he doesn't.

Directly police mein keu jaye without knowing what Keerat and her family wants ?? And if they made it clear they don't want anything to be done about the matter, why should he.

I want Angad to completely give up on this. After all, he's not the one who did wrong with Keerat . He tried to help. Now he should leave the matter to Keerat and Mongas what they want to do about Veer.

Angad never thought about patching Veerat after finding out about the truth of SA. He said that before he found the truth. So it's not like he's condoning the action and still thinking of getting him married to Keerat.

He infact said by God's grace Keerat is saved from such a marriage.

Angad thinks Sahiba is stressed- thats fine. but if he really had any insaaniyat or he claims he loves her but she doesnt - the bare minimum he could do after he saw her almost jump off the roof is to call and check in and see if shes fine or ask someone to be around her. Instead he's doing useless detectivegiri over a matter thats done and dusted.

He has explained the situation in which he slapped but he has zero actual reflection. slap is the least of his wrongs. its just the tipping point. he has pushed Sahiba away even after seeing her go to extreme lengths for him and his family and groveling for his forgiveness. he has pushed her to the brink where she can no longer trust him.

He forced Sahiba to pretend, he forced her to divorce, he knew how she felt about the pretense and the divorce but he wouldnt back off and talk it out. Sahiba has begged him to listen to her explanation but he wouldnt but now he wants to offer explanation for his act of physical violence. why should she listen?!

Sahiba has done a LOT for him and his family and if Angad still doesnt trust her then thats on him. She cannot prove her love, her commitment to him more than what she has already done.

Originally posted by: DanmeiLover

Then Sahiba shouldn't expect Angad to believe her words against that of his brother. Nor should the viewers. Such an expectation itself is wrong.

I'm not saying Sahiba should've brought proof , my point is she shouldn't expect Angad to believe him with out any. Nor should Santosh say nonsense like why you didn't believe her words at word value .. I mean, why lady ?? Why should he believe her ?? They don't communicate, they don't have a normal conjugal relationship, they're on the verge of divorce yet both side are high on ego and none are initiating any talk or any attempt to stop it. Isn't it obv that normal husband wife trust would be absent in their relationship?

I'd have found it hilarious if Angad had believed her at such a situation against a goody two shoes like Veer , who was basically a cutie patootie in the beginning ( that's the image of his brother in Angad's mind. )

I don't know what expectations people had from Sahiba. I never did. I don't believe in undue expectations from human beings. Especially flawed characters like Angad and Sahiba , who are made of 90 % ego and are in no way sorted human beings.

But , since I never had any undue expectations from Sahiba, I don't have any from Angad either. If they were not as they are , their marital life would not be such a farce and so easy to fracture , interfere n manipulate by others.

Hoping writers stop from now on wards. Balance an use other characters too .

But that's norm for ITV , FL suffers a bit more than ML always. But ML does too , though viewers may or may not believe that , it's their prerogative what they want to believe. Mard ko dard nehi hota kind of society mein ML phoot phoot ke ro bhi nehi sakta.. if they injure themselves in repentance, it's called nautanki. But when the FL does the same , she's genuinely hurt.

So , see, it all balances out. ML suffers less in itv shows but they're judged with a different yardstick than that of FL.

Angad could've easily asked a servant to keep an eye in her , he'd definitely regret once he would find out what happened in his absence. I hope makers show that .

But just like Sahiba had no idea some nefarious plot is going against her , Angad didn't either. He saw her trying to jump from the balcony but once she snapped out of it, she didn't believe she did any such thing nor did she sound particularly suicidal so Angad would obviously think it's because of stress .

Ab use nehi pata Seerat Sahiba ko churan pila rahi hai and that too so strong . He'd have to have a particularly morbid and flowery imagination to guess all these will happen within a day .

He must harshly question his family members what exactly was so urgent that they couldn't even wait for him to come back before packing her up. But his family will probably exaggerate how dangerous she acted towards them.

nice that Angad defenders themselves are finally admitting Sahiba has suffered more. just that the scale of her suffering is not "a bit " but "A LOT" .

yes writing is at fault, but at the end of the day writers ko kitnaa bhi gaali deh, outcome is that Angad is now a full blown villain and not an upright protagonist and they have stretched his crap behavior and toxicity too far in the name of drama and now if they try to redeem him also it looks bogus because the scenes are simply not enough to convey a true message of regret, repentance and they will make FL look like a fool if she easily melts NOW and goes back to this scumbag too easily like she has been doing for all this time. she will come across as even more stupid if she buys his 2 rupees nautanki. they need to do a LOT more to account for everything they have put Sahiba through at Angads hands.

this is why they should stretch something till it breaks.

So many of us ex- "Sahan" fans cannot root for Sahan anymore because Angad is too far gone