Koi update dega??

I stopped watching the show with samar ka death... Did not want to see rona gaana... 

So can anyone give me chotu gist of what is happening with anuj n anupama these days?? 

Choti is doing some bada bada kaand... But has anuj started using his mind as well??? 

In a nutshell, MAA got in an accident, Vanraj banned her from the mohalla, CA and Anuj blamed her for not prioritising them, MAA left KH and became a Jogan for 5 years, Devika gave Joganpamaa tickets to go to Amreeka, MAA visits and works in a restaurant, Anuj lives in Amreeka with CA and fiancé Shruti, The losers have now finally met each other…

Originally posted by: Criticiser

In a nutshell, MAA got in an accident, Vanraj banned her from the mohalla, CA and Anuj blamed her for not prioritising them, MAA left KH and became a Jogan for 5 years, Devika gave Joganpamaa tickets to go to Amreeka, MAA visits and works in a restaurant, Anuj lives in Amreeka with CA and fiancé Shruti, The losers have now finally met each other…

did anuj consider that the car accident situation might be over imagination of Choti and not completely anupama choosing shah scene???? 

Originally posted by: SoIWasSaying

did anuj consider that the car accident situation might be over imagination of Choti and not completely anupama choosing shah scene???? 

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Matlab?

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

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Matlab?

when choti is younger... She and anupama along with kinjal and pari get in an accident.... And choti feels anu chose others over her.... 

And i am not sure what anuj thought at that time... So did her reconsider the situation now or even then??? 

And not just assume that anupama choose shah over choti... 

Ur username is unique  tm 

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Ur username is unique  tm 

thank you! 

Originally posted by: SoIWasSaying

when choti is younger... She and anupama along with kinjal and pari get in an accident.... And choti feels anu chose others over her.... 

And i am not sure what anuj thought at that time... So did her reconsider the situation now or even then??? 

And not just assume that anupama choose shah over choti... 

Anuj and CAs feelings were not based on one incident but Anupama abandoning them for Shahs again and again and again. 

If she hadn't done that, neither CA, nor Anuj would even question her based on one incident. 

All the questioning etc happened because of her past repeated behaviour. Also no good person runs away from their loving husband and a 9 year old adopted kid based on one question or misunderstanding. Only evil people do that. 

Originally posted by: SoIWasSaying

when choti is younger... She and anupama along with kinjal and pari get in an accident.... And choti feels anu chose others over her.... 

And i am not sure what anuj thought at that time... So did her reconsider the situation now or even then??? 

And not just assume that anupama choose shah over choti... 

Sorry, but, Anuj's question to Anupama are based on a history of neglect and not this one incident. Infact, when he ask her, it is on her questionable and conspicuous absence from their lives on a regular basis let alone important occasions.

Besides, if one were to look at the series of events, Anupama had been neglecting Choti Anu in lieu of her responsibilities of her pseudo Maayka and the kid has mentioned that to her mother, she has also repeatedly, asked assurances to not leave her, especially with her panic attacks. When Kinjal and Pari arrived after but a month and Anupama went ALL out with gifts and a colouring book for Choti Anu, she expressed her insecurities whoch was rugged under the carpet. Under the circumstances, on the damned trip as well, she wanted Anupama to cuddle and pamper her and naturally felt jealous, left out, so when Anupama took the child to the passenger seat with her, Choti Anu, naturally, also wanted to sit with her. In this process, the accident occurred.

The question now is, do we still (after seeing the sequence of events) want to blame a 9-10 year old child for the accident?

Her insecurities were cemented when Anupama rescued her last when she was, infact locked in the car when Anupama rescued Kinjal and Pari and herself came out of the car and the car door got locked. It was a nick of time that the door was broken, Anupama pulled Choti Anu out. It was more luck and blessing that everything happened on time, else, Imagine, Pari, Kinjal and even Anupama would have been rescued and Choti Anu would have gone down with the car. GOD Forbid, had that happened, who would be responsible for that?

My limited point is, while the accident hit the last nail in the coffin, the issues had been brewing long enough, had it not been this incident, something else, may be even a trivial thing would have triggered it.

Edited by Bodhianveshika - 3 months ago

Originally posted by: SoIWasSaying

did anuj consider that the car accident situation might be over imagination of Choti and not completely anupama choosing shah scene???? 

Because the makers are brain-dead, they certainly tried to make it look like Anuj did not consider what Anupama went through.

But honestly it was the straw that broke the camel's back. 

While Adhya did cause the accident and Anupama did do her best to save everyone. 

It was preceded by several incidents where she chose to neglect Adhya and prioritise her grown up adult kids. Or Baa and Bapuji or throw baby showers for her sautan Kavya! Grr.. so irritating to even think about that one.

Not to mention that Anupama instead of bringing up the fact of how the accident was caused chose to be butt hurt that a child thought she was a biased mother (the child is much much younger Anupama, and traumatised, at least wait one day before being offended that said child did not immediately start singing your praises) or that her husband wanted her to pay a little more attention to their family. (Sure be rude to the guy's mother, sister in law and every other family member, leave him and run to ex husband at midnight, bring in ex-husband's parents to his house, throw baby shower for ex-husband's new wife but be offended the moment he dares question this nonsense behaviour)

Instead she herself decided that Anuj no longer wanted to remain married to her.

Anuj even exclaimed Maine aisa kab kaha yaar?

This is the literal dialogue from the episode. I am not making it up. Dude just wanted her to say their relationship still mattered to her.

This after being thrown out of Shah House for the umpteenth time. Vanraj also accused her by the way. Told her she was the cause of the accident as she took Kinjal and Pari for picnic even when Vanraj did not want that and had warned her to stay away from the Shahs, all of which led to the accident eventually. Waha bhi madam bata sakti thi ki accident kaise hua par phir sympathy nahi milti na toh kaise bata deti 

But still everytime the incident is brought up Anupmaa conveniently forgets the Shah side and remains butt hurt over Anuj and Adhya instead. And she still has not brought up how the accident actually occured. 

I don't think Anuj accused her of not saving x and y first. But his question was don't you always pick the Shahs over us?

And let's face it. She does. 

And it's also a thing right. If your child has been in an accident and is crying and saying I was left all alone in a damaged vehicle hanging off the edge of the cliff, wouldn't any respectable father feel horrified? Wouldn't such an incident just bring back all those little moments that were brushed off in the past where your child was neglected?

Especially when I repeat Anupama did NOT offer any proper explanation. 

This is all pointless. Anupama will never mend her ways and makers will continue to twist the characters around her to glorify her and ensure the sympathy TRP keeps coming in

PS. To all those idiots saying Anupama kyu safai deti rahe. Mere pyaare akal se cycle pe rehne wale logo, jab koi accident hota hai toh husband kya, padosi bhi 10 baar puchte hai. Kaise ho gaya? Kya hua? Iska matlab ye nahi ki woh aapko insult kar rahe hai. Accident hua toh log puchenge hi na. Ek baar properly samjhaya ka try karna nahi Upma ko but offend jarrur hona hai.

Edited by HoneyBee7312 - 3 months ago