Originally posted by: Historia
That's what I was thinking .aapne wahi baat ki joh mere Mann mein thi..
Also I found both devika and Anuj creepy people . Especially anuj this guy is seriously very weird and
Creepy guy . How can anupama be okay with devika giving all her private information to anuj .and how can anuj keep stalking anupama for 26 years . How is she okay with this
She has no maturity to understand this is illegal and stalking
Thats why she failed as wife and mother too
She feels cooking and saying yes to kids is mother hood
While motherhood is all about instilling right morals, attitude and values in kids and keeping eye on kid that they do not go wrong ever till 21 years atleast
She thinks cooking cleaning taking care of in laws and kids is wife duty thats all
But in reality wife duty is much more to support husband in up and down, financially and emotionally and in sickness and giving ideas to husband in problems and talking to him on subjects that interest him, going out with him on holidays and tours etc is what make a husband happy not cooking mopping etc that maid also can do who are paid at home
She never matched the compatibility of either vanraj or anuj kapadiya as wife
Vanraj wanted a modern wife who dressed nicely went out on corporate parties and tours with him spoke english well etc thats why he liked kavya. Although vanraj is a leechy man and would falls for 4-5 women even if wife is modern like kavya
Anuj kapadiya wanted a wife who stayed with him and his child and give him a home but anupama was never there for him or CA or his kapadiya family ever in pain and upset or sickness
What a husband wants from wife at 25 years is different from what he wants at 45 or 60 years
At 25 years when vanraj married her he wanted to flaunt his wife to collegaues and others that see here is my beautiful modern english speaking hi -fi wife
At 45 years anuj wanted a home maker wife who took care of him his child and home and be with them give companionship
After 60 a husband wants a mother in wife who takes care of him in sickness and cooks and removes lonliness
Anupama has failed miserably to understand life or all this
In reality even a 15 year old girl or boy will know exactly what the opposite gender wants but anupama at 30 or 45 do not know
Edited by myviewprem - 2 years ago
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