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And the root cause of the way he conducts his personal life is he is unwilling to reach out to others, runs away from his problems and tries to solve things on his own. He did that on the baby issue. If she had been more forceful in their marriage then perhaps he would have felt more comfortable talking to her about it instead of assuming what she thought. Then this whole **** show might have been avoided. And I have always said Khushi made mistakes.

I acknowledge your arguments. I am still not able to cut and paste for some reason so have to paraphrase my arguments as writing them out from the text is too laborious. This hinders my logical responses somewhat. But anyway I think we both know how we stand so I am putting it once again to rest.

I know there have been quite a few important points in the story that my views have been in the minority. But I have dared to put them out there anyway. People are respectful and I appreciate a logical response.

There are points I agree with in all the rebuttals to my responses. Hopefully there are things in my arguments that people agree with too.

Anyway, people ultimately have to take responsibility for their actions no matter what the outcome or why they did it. You can understand why something happened and learn from it but I’m not big into excuses. How are you going to insure that you never make that mistake again and how are you going to fix it.

Originally posted by: BollyBabe75

The part about never starting the divorce if he knew it would break her or words to that affect. To me it shows that he is not so depressed that he doesn’t have self awareness of his actions.

Yes, he has dealt with a lot but he runs away from his feelings, doesn’t reach out and tries to handle it alone. He has an irrational fear of having a child for some probably traumatic reason, and refuses to discuss it with his wife. Finally, it’s all catching up to him.

He functions well outwardly so others don’t suspect his out of control feelings. But the point is he knows he is spiraling, thinks about going for counseling and as his habit runs away from confronting and thinks he can handle it on his own and the bad decisions start and pile up. He himself realizes he could use help and doesn’t act on it. Now that he has rendered devastation it looks like he may be willing to seek councilling.

His sentence to Khushi is telling iMO. He thought what he was doing is right. He thought between the 2 of them atleast Khushi would be happy. He is convinced he can't be happy or he doesn't deserve to be happy.

And now the results are in front of him he will seek help. Is it too little too late I guess time or rather Arpita will tell

Originally posted by: imshveta

Congratulations on thread 3 Arpita. I think at the rate this is going, it will be a new thread for every update ❤️😊

Originally posted by: SwatStar_Arshi

Then you will get another insane poem, and another one, and another one, that's all... 😂😂😂 People here are willing to put my craziness in hall of fame, so all of you watch what you wish for...

You encourage madness, you will get more madness from me, that's all... 😛 😛

On a side note, I fed my boys maggi when the cook auntie did not show up yesterday, all thanks to my desperation and FOMO... Thankfully she is coming today and I will be saved for a week...

My husband is giving me looks and started using resurgence word 4/5 times a day just to irk me... my husband has declared cheating wife is easier to figure out than wife who has crazy girlfriends' group. Looks like we act more suspicious as wild girls... 😂 😂 I told him he is just jealous 😛 😛

I’m going to call this rise and resurgence of boxer detectives 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: tina_1234

When can we expect the next update?

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

I think Arpita might not be able to comment on our discussion now because anything she says might be treated as clue or she can't comment without divulging critical aspects of the story

Originally posted by: Savera84

Has anyone read Letter Box? It is a good story based on the show.

The below stories are available on IF

Mohabat Door Jaane Na De - Based on the show

Colors of the Wind - Based on the show

Sabi's stories

Unexpectedly Expected - Not based on the show, but hilarious.

Cheers..

Originally posted by: tashi26

Thanks for tagging her. now we rely on Isha more than the author herself. I guess even Arpita needs her help too. 🙈

Wow. THREAD 3 !! Congrats many many more threads to come. I dont doubt you know but let me say it again you are a fantastic , fabulous and best writer. Just read the chapter 11 B and for me my most favourite chapter. The way you have describe the angst, the stress,, the guilt, the betrayel, the strong will of Arnav is really commendable. With khushi's character as a woman we can relate a quite a bit but with arnav it was seening the another side of the world.

Before this chapter i was fully on khushis side and was hoping you were not let us down with arnavs character and i am right it was far most the best character potrayal of arnav.

I am glad lavanya is a cunning from the start. & arnav is not giving the chance to father lavanya's child which the same he has denied the chance to his khushi. Some of the guilt has lesson with that.

But on second thought what if lavanya was genuine how arnav will have cope with this life long. I hope all the man out there who is facing this will find a peace with it at some point of time.

I am in love with all the characters off course lavanya and manali are exceptional.

Loved it so much i am really excited for upcoming chqpters. Thanks for the long and intrigued chapter.

OMg aman he is so cool and great friend to arnav and brityer to khushi. He is the hero of the chapter. Offcourse credit goes to you ;)

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

sabi’s pen is comedic genius and she has my heart. I think she is the one who had an incomplete ff where Khushi is a dentist and horrible cook but she happens to always cook at critical times for Arnav (like when’s just famished and dying of hunger). It was a very fun take to see the whole world hating Khushi’s cooking while Arnav thinks he had never had better cornflakes in his life 😂

That's prescribed insanity. But Sabi has wrote another story 'The Untold Stories' it's so beautiful.it does have sabi's brand of humour but she has touched a very sensitive subject where Khushi is divorcee from abusive marriage and Arnav is her boss. Their relationship is so organic. Akash, lavanya and Anjali are amazing. That Khushi is something like this story's Arnav. Trying to do things on her own. Without asking for help.

But a warning, Sabi hasn't updated it for almost a year now and they have stopped at a crucial juncture. But still I will suggest u all should read the chapters for the sake of reading an incredible story. I hope Sabi comes back and finishes that