New Promo: Anupamaa leaves for the USA - Page 5

Originally posted by: poobaniparvati9

Never denied any of those things happening and have already condemned his actions. Sigh, this is getting tiring, each post I make do I have to put on a disclaimer that I also condemn Anuj's previous actions yada yada? Based on the show, Anupama has forgiven and whole heartedly accepted Anuj's majburi as valid even though we all think it's stupid. Clearly something has happened with Maya which we don't know yet and now the child she apparently considered hers is left all alone probably going through some kind of trauma (which is why the BTS earlier said can I leave my daughter in this condition etc.) This is less about Anuj and more about CA. If it was Pakhi, Toshu or Samar in this condition would she have done the same? Even if she had an issue with Vanraj, she would put everything aside (including her self respect as she has multiple times in the past) to be there for her kids. And in this case, she apparently doesn't even have an issue with Anuj and they love each other. If it was just to be with Anuj that she had to stay back for, I would have said please just leave pick yourself up for once and go. This is about her foster kid who she apparently thinks of as equal to her bio kids who is dealing with some super messed up events at such a young age.

This woman would run to her grown ass badtameez kids who treated her like crap and constantly put her down, but she was there for them no matter what, sacrificing her marital life also in the process of doing so. I'm sorry if I feel there's a MAJOR contrast in her treatment of the Shahs vs her treatment of Anuj and CA. She solved the Shah's problems for 26 years and then even following her divorce and re-marriage continued to do so, she left her husband on a wheelchair to celebrate her poti's ceremony and do jhula jhuli with her ex-husband, she didn't show up for her daughter's dance competition to make Baa's khichdi, couldn't come back when her daughter had a panic attack because she and she alone could manage Pari even though there were so many other members in the house, she went to celebrate Holi right after their foster daughter was taken away and her husband was grieving expecting him to show up and dance as well because it was Pari and Pakhi's (after marriage) first holi and the list is ENDLESS. I don't have the time or energy to type it. And now they are her one true family because they cried a little, put on a skit for her and fed her food. Who, the same Shahs who abused and belittled her for 26 years, treated her like an unpaid maid, harassed her and subjected her to constant taunts?

Huh. Okay.

She will come back from the USA if Dimpy says anything to her bhagwaan Baa but she will not stay back (or even check on) her so called daughter who has clearly been through something very traumatic, if Maya is out of the picture now either by going to the mental asylum or dying or whatever. Would any mother leave their daughter in that situation, especially Anupama who considers being Maa above everything else in the world?

Firstly, I completely agree with the fact that Anupamaa never, not even once, has shown an ounce of real love for CA.

It seems completely forced.

I don’t know if Rupali does it on purpose or if she has been instructed to. The whole equation that Anu and CA have is of a forced relationship, a responsibility which she never really wanted.

She will move heaven and earth for her biological kids but she never does anything for CA.

Agreed.

Plus I think when Maya came into the picture she further gave up because the child’s biological mother was alive and hale and hearty and more than willing to care for the child. They had been with her for only a few months, so I don’t think the bond was strong enough.

BUT.

If my husband left me like that, for something that wasn’t exactly my fault, ghosted me for months, started living with another woman (whatever be the reason), and told me repeatedly that it was over,

I would dump his sorry ass and never look back. NEVER.
He was the one chanting meri beti meri beti…so now raise the beti yourself 👍🏼

But Anupamaa being the (fake) achchai ki murat, she will probably cancel everything and go back to Anuj and CA. Both of who left her in a sorry state without a care in the world.

Anupamaa is the biggest doormat in the show.

I wanted Anupama to go to America as it's almost like a forever dream for her.. But I guess they will end will all three of them going US together..

Promos at times are misleading, but then you never know. Hope she doesn't disappoint Malti devi.

Completely agree! Instead of glorifying her fake mamta, they should have taken a more realistic approach towards the whole scenario. Honestly,if they had shown Anupama apprehensive regarding adoption and reluctant to accept CA as her fourth kid,I would have appreciated it wholeheartedly. Actually,their bond should have developed gradually depicting a beautiful message that embracing motherhood in middle age might be challenging but not impossible but as usual it's ITV and it's foolish to expect something sensible. Let's simply hail the fact that Anupama is the "BESHT MAA"!

She ain't going anywhere. From what I have noticed so far - production people doesn't like to spend a lot.

Like for convenience No Rakhi - hence we don't see her house a lot. Pakhi and Adhik rented another house which is no where to be seen.

They don't show office like any office - Kinjal, Vanraj they both are at home always.

Anuj Kapadia God knows on which planet he is operating so called huge empire that we don't even see those so called servents at his house let alone his office often.

So them showing USA setting with Americans. NAH Naada not happening 😆

Originally posted by: Fighter03

BUT.

If my husband left me like that, for something that wasn’t exactly my fault, ghosted me for months, started living with another woman (whatever be the reason), and told me repeatedly that it was over,

I would dump his sorry ass and never look back. NEVER.
He was the one chanting meri beti meri beti…so now raise the beti yourself 👍🏼

I agree with that 100% and we are on the same page but unfortunately, Anupama is not doing that. She did not do that with Vanraj, who did worse things to her, and she's not doing with Anuj. The narrative is literally the opposite of that. My post was with respect to her treatment of CA since Anuj would be calling her back on CA's request and it would be great if I didn't have to keep emphasizing this everywhere because it's getting tiring now. ANUJ WAS WRONG, I will add this to my signature if it's required. But he fact remains that he is now going back to being her doormat and playing second fiddle, like he was before this whole Maya majburi happened, and not because of what he did since as per Anupama his decision was correct and Maya didn't need medical assistance, she needed Anuj, and that Anupama still loves him or whatever. But because, that's just her priority list, CA always comes last. And as for Anupama, she will never learn. They could show her going to the USA and undergoing a much needed personality transformation but nope, they'd rather do the planning-plotting-murder, Maa hu ne jaap, toxic family is life rubbish and rinse and repeat.

Originally posted by: Ashita5500

WOW! So another character (CA) has been successfully butchered to prove Anupamaa as "Tyag aur Mamta ki Murat". Bechari Bachchi ko bhi nahi baksha...

Child's character has been butchered the day when Maya asked her to write her name on anuj's hand n she complied n wasn't shown uncomfortable in doing so because in earlier episodes she was already shown that she understands anuj love for anupmaa n called them Radha Krishna. It looked like she has accepted maya n anuj together and was no more asking for anupmaa.

Now after Maya's death she is again asking for anupama.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Child's character has been butchered the day when Maya asked her to write her name on anuj's hand n she complied n wasn't shown uncomfortable in doing so because in earlier episodes she was already shown that she understands anuj love for anupmaa n called them Radha Krishna. It looked like she has accepted maya n anuj together and was no more asking for anupmaa.

Now after Maya's death she is again asking for anupama.

Originally posted by: Ashita5500

That's so ridiculous! One moment they portray CA as highly mature who wanted to sacrifice herself for her mummy's happiness and next moment they transform her into a stubborn kid who wants her mummy to sacrifice her career for her happiness. Does it make sense? They can do whatever they want but nothing can justify Anupama's negligence and misplaced priorities. Anupama was wrong in letting CA go with Maya and hiding the truth from Anuj. Also this track looks so fake coz they never shared a mother-daughter bond. It's a desperate attempt to whitewash Anupamama's misdeeds but they miserably failed...👎🏼

Most of the ppl wanted here that anupama should not take away Maya's kid and she has no right to seperate a mother from her kid.

So anupama did right in giving maya's kid her back. Even court would have given same decision. It was stupid of her to not tell anuj that anu wants to go with her mother.

Ideally anupama should not stop from going to America because she had committed to MD n herself also. So it's completely wrong to stop for a husband n child who had already decided to live without her with maya.

But also anupama is shown over emotional in show which is reason she keeps running back to shah house by emotional blackmail. Her mother too stops her but she never listens.

Now again she will be shown getting emotional for anuj n anu n she will stop.😵

Can u answer me what pushed anuj to take s extreme level , even kanta Joshi know d reason of anuj's extreme level , he was a depressed man at that time who realised anupama biasness sadly some people don't know or ignore it just to blame s whole kaand in anuj's head anuj was only wrong to take maaya ki responsibility, thou i would be happy if anuj would had never married anupama she would be more happy & content with mr shah & shah family as from heart she is still Mrs Vanraj shah first love is first love only

I wish pakhi , samar, toshu should be great problem , anuj should lock anupama in a room neither tell her d reason for locking her nor let her try to help them , then we will she how anupama react , how much calmness or patience she shows, or meeti baatein she spill from her mouth , on top of that anuj should keep ranting tum mujhe se pyar karti hoon na, I m also very sad I can't show my pain , throw a party, enjoy in that party then we will see how much tolerance anupama shows .

Even CA dint went coz she really want to she told anupama d reason still that lady don't do anything.

Raising finger on anuj won't hide mahan karname of anupama.

I myself want anupama to go to America , anuj & CA should move on with their lives why they r wasting their lives , I want to see how anupama enjoys success when there is no one to share with, I forgot mr shah hain na.

Originally posted by: naaznin

Most of the ppl wanted here that anupama should not take away Maya's kid and she has no right to seperate a mother from her kid.

So anupama did right in giving maya's kid her back. Even court would have given same decision. It was stupid of her to not tell anuj that anu wants to go with her mother.

Ideally anupama should not stop from going to America because she had committed to MD n herself also. So it's completely wrong to stop for a husband n child who had already decided to live without her with maya.

But also anupama is shown over emotional in show which is reason she keeps running back to shah house by emotional blackmail. Her mother too stops her but she never listens.

Now again she will be shown getting emotional for anuj n anu n she will stop.😵