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Originally posted by: dair10arshi

SHEEEEE KNOWWWWWWSSS!!!! Finally, the cat is out of the bag. As much as I wanted this moment, this confrontation, I know that my poor Khushi is broken. I wish she had saved some money for herself just so that she could away, from all of them and just live for herself. I know that leaving one's family and everything that they love is difficult but she needs to live for herself. Everyone keeps deciding for her.

It must have been so hard for her to keep it to herself. And Arnav brought Lavanya to his place. He could not stoop any lower. I am waiting for the next chapter with bated breath.

P.S. And you used Grant Gustin's Runnin Home to you <3 I am melting. That song has my heart. It's such a gem.

And totally agree with you that the Flash has not been the same! A Snowbarry shipper here 😁

And the song, not a lot of people know and appreciate it. You have just become one of my favourite writers.

About your previous comment, please don’t ever apologise for ranting or rambling. Those comments make me really happy.

And yesss, the song is such a beautiful, lovely hidden gem. Grant did so much justice in the voice and in the scene. I was tearing up when it first aired. This just HAD to be the song when Arnav is literally trying to run to the only home he’s known for so long. Khushi ♥️

Ps- I have had my snowbarry shipping phase too 😅

Originally posted by: coderlady

She knew she had been cheated in the worst possible way, but she still asked Payal to keep her friendship with Arnav. Shows what kind of person she is. She is truly a gem.

She believed he would move heaven and earth for his friends, but she did not have any expectation for herself. She didn't think she had the right to anything that was his.

If this is to go anywhere, he will have to show her that he can move heaven and earth for HER and no Anamika or Lavanya matter.

last point is true. Literally moving heaven and earth for Khushi might just be the only thing to save him. But those kind of things hardly exist in life.

Originally posted by: shyamidutt

In hindsight maybe that’s why she agreed to a second marriage without much resistance as she already knew he moved on and there was no hope for her if he fell for Lavanya?? So she didn’t protest much when her parents started looking for alliances?? Like anyway my life is over let me atleast make my parents happy?? It’s only Shyam Manohar Jha that made her come out and actually try to put her foot down about re-marrying??

See Arpita we can’t seem to stop thinking 😂😂

Originally posted by: SwatStar_Arshi

Another interesting observation... Arnav tells Akash “I slept with Lavanya Kashyap” - He does not say he is having an affair with her or seeing her... Just curious as to what this means??

The bungee jumping evening, he might be both high with new experiece of life as well as low due to missing Khushi, had drinks and blurted out his marriage status to Lavanya and one thing led to another.... They might have been friends or at least acquaintances and it just happened one time?????

Lavanya hoping she has a chance now that they were together; is calling/texting/asking him about his divorce and pursuing for a genuine relationship??? I have been thinking about this so just thougth to put it out here....

Or may he indeed had a proper affair with Lavanya for few months,

How did you all conceive this conversation between Arnav and Akash?? just curious!

Waiting for the next chaper hopefully by Friday! Arpita, what have you done to us?

Originally posted by: BollyBabe75

Lavenya tells Manali she is grieving. What about do you think? I have been wrong about a lot of things pertaining to Arnav because I have little faith in him after the cheating and the way he pushed Khushi away in the last months of their marriage and the way he conducted the divorce not to mention his refusal to talk about children. But I think it was more than a one time thing with Lavenya. She’s an experienced woman. Would she expect a relationship or even marriage after a one night stand? But then again she has been obsessed with him for six years. He also seems bitter about Manali interfering in Lavenya’s personal life and standing in the way of her relationships. A full blown affair would be dastardly. A one night stand is still horribly unacceptable. As I’ve said before, I really am stumped as to the why and how of the affair. I just know I have very little, actually, no sympathy for him right now.

But I’m with your pov. Till now, Arnav of the story hasn’t done anything that should get him any sympathy. Yes he had been hurt and looked after Khushi from afar, but the hurt he has caused Khushi is bigger than this.

Originally posted by: BollyBabe75

As has been said before, just because he doesn’t want to have a relationship with her doesn’t mean there was not an ongoing dalliance with her. It shows that he never really cared for her enough to want to be with her in a meaningful way except for his convenience. She’s becoming a nuisance and he’s tired of her. Whether the sex was him comforting her one time or an affair of convenience for him, he is a hypocrite who has made a mess of his life and completely destroyed Khushi at this point.

Originally posted by: coderlady

If Lavanya wants a serious relationship, she should first stop having affairs with married men. No serious relationship will come out of it. If she does get married, would she want her husband to cheat on her? How will she feel? She is not the only party in these affairs but she is a party. How can you engage in this behavior and talk about wanting a serious relationship?

Originally posted by: coderlady

I don't think Arnav truly got his emotions involved completely after Anamika. When she left, he was broken. Lavanya, he is not emotionally involved with that much.

Khushi comes the closest after Anamilka, but he has not let her in fully. He did not consider her an equal partner in his life. Did not share his concerns and feelings completely. I don't say there was none of that, there was, but not to the level that was needed and none lately. He shut off and distanced himself. The baby talk might have made things a little too real and he just ran at that point. There is something about babies that scarred him. Does Khushi know his feelings completely on that subject? Its not about responsibility, its way deeper than that. He has not let it out to anyone.

Remember "Once Bitten, Thrice Shy"?

This is the exact reason I feel it will take forever for khushi to come out of this.

If she chooses to stay with Arnav will she ever be able to trust him to love and respect her like she did previously, she never accompanied him to all the parties, that also shows she had full faith in him.

I have heard stories where wives in Bollywood accompany them to keep a check on their roving eye.

And if she chooses to move on, will she ever be able to love someone like she did Arnav.

All in all Khushi is at the losing end for choices she never got to make, which people made for her or for themselves.

But in my heart I just wish she at least finds peace with herself and gets her self confidence back.

Originally posted by: tashi26

This is the exact reason I feel it will take forever for khushi to come out of this.

If she chooses to stay with Arnav will she ever be able to trust him to love and respect her like she did previously, she never accompanied him to all the parties, that also shows she had full faith in him.

I have heard stories where wives in Bollywood accompany them to keep a check on their roving eye.

And if she chooses to move on, will she ever be able to love someone like she did Arnav.

All in all Khushi is at the losing end for choices she never got to make, which people made for her or for themselves.

But in my heart I just wish she at least finds peace with herself and gets her self confidence back.

Also this is the reason I believe puja’s point stands true - this is not a feel good story. Because there’s no end that’s justified. Khushi may have to drastically change her notions of love and move on with someone that she knows she will never love like Arnav. And what is the alternative? Now, can Khushi even love Arnav like she used to? I believe cracks like these stay forever in the marriage/relationship. And it is extremely hard (read near impossible) to make it work from there. Let’s see what these two do now. They haven’t had the most normal life in a sense.