Is forgiveness so easy?

Baa bhagwan the one who tortured anupama always like instead of supporting her in her second marriage with anuj for her happiness she did so much nautanki like saying dadi ki shadi nahi hoti and went as far as cursing her that if she marries anuj then something bad will happen in her life. Even after her marriage with anuj this baa bhagwan cursed anupama that she will never be happy as how dare she be happy when her good for nothing trashraj is unhappy .

Vanraj the ache pita who never respected anupama, manipulated her in not going to America for her career , then cheated on her, said she smells like masala's, tried to again manipulate her when she was about to get married to anuj and then even after her marriage to anuj he still lusted after her as now he didn't want kavya but anupama ( anupama knows this as trashraj offered her to come back to his life when anuj went to picnic with maya and choti anu)

How can anupama so easily forgive them? Are the above crimes that small or am i thinking too much? How can baa be pyaari when she can easily curse anupama? How can a man ( sorry my bad he is not a man) so how can a person who cheated on her physically and now cheating emotionally on his second wife kavya be so easily forgiven?

Heights of Insanity really

May be she is forgiving them for her own peace of mind as she is The great Anupama.

But yeah showing them in white light after whatever they have done is disgusting.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VP3nkBpui5s&pp=ygUWQmFhIHNjZW5lcyBpbiBhbnVwYW1hIA%3D%3D

Yeh baa khud kabhi tameej se baat nahi karti aise baa se Kaun tameej se baat karega

Makers always show wrong things and want audience bash CH,

N audience bhi start ho jaate hain but dekhna Nahi band karte

I agree people like show but please do not coment such sence don't give makers that

Bura yeh acha dekho gaye audience start fight n prise there fav

Anuj ek gair aurat ke saath apni beti ki bio mom

Anupama Kisi aur ke Pati ke saath apne kid ke bio father ke saath

Yeh hai what she say sanskar n tamieez

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dq1nW429LqE&pp=ygUVYmFhIHNjZW5lcyBpbiBhbnVwYW1h

The question of forgiveness arises when both the victim and the wrongdoer, admit that the latter wronged the former. Here, neither Anupama nor Vanraj, Leela and the others, felt that their behaviour with her is wrong. Anupama herself accepted such treatment of her, as a necessary sacrifice in order to bind the family. Even after the separation, she still kept coming back and enduring all their taunts and abuses, because it may not be a big deal for her in front of her duty towards them.

And in such patriarchial households, forgiveness is what the husband is anyway entitled to, from the wife for the most part. Anupama's identity is rooted from being a wife, mother and daughter-in-law. Being a woman or human takes a backseat and she'll never even expect an apology or feel like one is needed from them. Leela or Vanraj sobering up is only circumstantial and they will be back to their original selves in no time because that's what they are used to being and the same goes for Anupama, who'll always be docile in front of them.

Ths is stockholm syndrome where victim fals in love with her abusers or kidnappers and who tortured her

I am sorry but i couldn't quite get what you mean to say

I assure you that i dont watch the show but i do read written updates and why i do that well india is a democratic country so we can do what we want

Do you mean i should not comment on this show anymore

Nicely explained 👍🏼

If Anupama is entitled to forgive husband vanraj then why can't she forgive her 2 nd husband anuj jisne vanraj ke mukable kuch bhi nhi kiya jisse usse maaf na Kiya ja sake , ye ho sakta she never considered anuj as husband

The woman is highly attach to vanraj which make her forgive him always or ye baccho ke baa bapuji ki vajah se nhi hai . No woman with little bit of self respect will see vanraj's face or want to keep any relationship thim when he questioned her character that 2 after divorce, it means she still loves vanraj only in a twisted way.