Originally posted by: atominis
My brother, younger mama mami and elder mami and a cousin are Cancerians. I like them all.
Amusing how astro websites say Aries and Cancer do not get along. A lot of people I trust and love, adore and find to be nice at heart are Cancerians.
My younger brother is my laadla. Probably the person I love the most. He is Cancerian.
Cancerians can be moody but they are very emotional and soft at heart. They are sensitive. Their core is soft.
They speak less though and are not too expressive about their hurts or needs. They seem moody or distant or at times have outbursts like a child when they are hurt but they are genuinely people with a heart.
If a Cancer gets distant or quiet or cuts off, it is sure that they are in stress or they dislike you or feel hurt by you.
Cancerians are too emotional IMO and have lot of empathy and that can be used against them as others can take advantage of their goodness.
I have found Cancerians to be home bodies, devoted to family, yaaron ke yaar, ready to do anything for friends or ones they love. They also require pampering and molly cuddling like a kid and melt easily if someone is sweet or kind to them.
They are not too good at drawing boundaries with ones they love and extend themselves too much, beyond their capacity if they love someone.
Cancerians can be moody and temperamental though and their worst part is that they open up less and withdraw in own shell. They will get sick or act out but not express what hurt them. You are left to figure out why they are self isolating or crying or withdrawn.
I have found Cancerians to be quite indulgent. They are fond of good things, like to be pampered and pamper others, prefer a relaxed, easy or luxurious lifestyle. They are easy going and dislike too much stress or pressure.
They are fairly clear about their likes or dislikes if you know how to read and observe their behaviour. They are not too good at pretense or faking it.
Their moodiness and lack of direct expression can sometimes make people think they are weird. At times they talk a lot, if they are comfortable, maybe too blunt. At times they are totally silent. They eventually do their own thing and are not too obedient or pliable as much as others might want them to be.
Anyway this discussion is spiralling out of hands as some members seem to be taking it too personally. 😉
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