Libra being best advisors is a gross generalisation. I have burnt my fingers following advice of Librans or repeatedly going to a specific Libra for advice. She'd confuse me and often her advice was more due to her own confusion or regressive and people pleasing nature and not in my best interest nor even fair for the situation and I have also noticed Libras wash their hands off quickly if someone follows their promise or advice and it backfires and lands other in mess. And act as victims or clueless or say 'we didn't know it would land up like this'. It is appalling how they either wash their hands off or play clueless and leave you in the lurch. I am suffering in life due to following advice and words of atleast 3 Libra persons.
Anyway I like your example of rasgulla and karela. Good choice of words and analogies.
I think you are taking it too personally. What is getting out of hand? I think the most bashed sign in this thread is Scorpio and I have not seen Scorpios get so defensive as the Libras are getting.
Libras like to think highly of self and think they are genuinely sweet, nice or good at heart or kind or balanced, so they feel no one should dislike them or they probably have no flaws at all or how can anyone dislike them.
They do not like being called out nor are used to it nor expect someone can even dislike them.
In real life also I have seen Libras act as martyrs and cry and blame others if someone called them out. They would rather guilt trip others than accept they may have done something wrong.
They rarely change either and often repeat same patterns and behaviours that hurt or betrayed someone earlier.
Aries is opposite sign but is atleast direct and does not play games. Too honest, too blunt, often at the cost of their own image in eyes of others. And Aries owns what they do- good or bad. They are not good at hiding or being diplomatic or shifting blame on someone else. They would rather blame themselves for trusting wrong people and self destruct or self isolate than act all goody two shoes and beg for sympathy like emotional blackmailers Libra who are forever acting like Nirupa Roy of 70s films - puppy eyed victims who can do no wrong and who were always earnest. While Aries is always painted as the difficult one even if they keep silent and cut off from others who hurt and betrayed them. Anyway Aries' biggest weakness is to be fooled by sweet talk and anyone pretending to be their well wisher. They get manipulated very easily by pretense of sweetness or patience and take time to understand not everyone is as direct or honest or frank as they are and that not everyone says what they mean or mean what they say or do what they say or keep promises or commitments. It takes typical suffering or 'thokar' for Aries to realise not all are what they say, seem or claim to be.
I am surprised you gave example of Amitabh and Jaya. 😀
It fits though. Jaya is vamp in eyes of people for not being as diplomatic as wily Amitabh who keeps perfect image, and has managed to be darling of masses despite controversies, hate speech, affairs, Bofors, inciting mobs against a community in pogroms, Panama papers etc. Libra knows how to maintain perfect image and get away with anything. Amitabh has used and thrown people at whim including ones who made his career such as Salim Khan or Gandhis and ones who helped him in bankruptcy like Subrata Roy and Amar Singh.
Still he has people singing Amit ji Amit ji raag and revolving around him. He has used and thrown Rekha but has her obsessed with him till date.
Rekha is another wily one who has made herself look like victim despite being a serial philanderer and going after married men be it Amitabh or Vinod Mehra.
Libras are PERFECT at image management and winning public sympathy and projecting self as victims or picture of calm and patience.
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