Losing interest quickly and putting self interest first is a fact.
You may make any effort for the Gemini to stay or remind them of good old days or talk nicely or give gifts etc but they do not care once they have lost interest or find you or your company of no use or outgrow you or get bored or lose interest or find something or someone new to interest them.
But while they are interested in you, they can be really sweet and nice, making you feel they are gonna be there for you for life.
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