Do you need to be drunk to say ILU to your husband of 6 years.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Akshara needs to be in a drunken state to say ILU to her husband from 6 years. From my and my point of view marriage between Akshara and Abhinav is not a marriage at all. It is a comprise that Akshara has made with her life so that she can give a stable family to Abhinav.


It is a compromise that Abhinav has made so he can have a wife, a child and a family. He has even adopted the neighbour as his own sister.


Honestly anything coming from AK is a total bakwaas. The lady is still making jams, could not even expand her business or the brand name.



Instead of focusing Abhinav (who btw is a prince direct from a fairy tale but without any kingdom), the writers should have focused on building AKs character as a woman and mother. Women do not always marry a male who helps her in need, there is something called friendship too and I that is something the writers could have explored as well but no they had to make a jalebi of all relationship in the show for the sake of their title.



Really I don't care whether she says ILU to Abhinav or I hate you to Abhi but certainly I will not marry a man who offers me his seat in public transport or a doctor who will help save my child or the friend who has helped me in finishing my project or the bank manager who approves my loan.


Women are getting into leadership roles, have gone to the moon, are flying planes and here we are stuck with a jam making mother

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: AvantikaP

Akshara needs to be in a drunken state to say ILU to her husband from 6 years. From my and my point of view marriage between Akshara and Abhinav is not a marriage at all. It is a comprise that Akshara has made with her life so that she can give a stable family to Abhinav.


It is a compromise that Abhinav has made so he can have a wife, a child and a family. He has even adopted the neighbour as his own sister.


Honestly anything coming from AK is a total bakwaas. The lady is still making jams, could not even expand her business or the brand name.



Instead of focusing Abhinav (who btw is a prince direct from a fairy tale but without any kingdom), the writers should have focused on building AKs character as a woman and mother. Women do not always marry a male who helps her in need, there is something called friendship too and I that is something the writers could have explored as well but no they had to make a jalebi of all relationship in the show for the sake of their title.



Really I don't care whether she says ILU to Abhinav or I hate you to Abhi but certainly I will not marry a man who offers me his seat in public transport or a doctor who will help save my child or the friend who has helped me in finishing my project or the bank manager who approves my loan.


Women are getting into leadership roles, have gone to the moon, are flying planes and here we are stuck with a jam making mother


But one should marry a man who "falls in love with them" from hearing their voice at a random temple and who got engaged to their sister days later.

Maybe people shouldn't marry at all.

Edited by Deltablues - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: AvantikaP

Akshara needs to be in a drunken state to say ILU to her husband from 6 years. From my and my point of view marriage between Akshara and Abhinav is not a marriage at all. It is a comprise that Akshara has made with her life so that she can give a stable family to Abhinav.


It is a compromise that Abhinav has made so he can have a wife, a child and a family. He has even adopted the neighbour as his own sister.


Honestly anything coming from AK is a total bakwaas. The lady is still making jams, could not even expand her business or the brand name.



Instead of focusing Abhinav (who btw is a prince direct from a fairy tale but without any kingdom), the writers should have focused on building AKs character as a woman and mother. Women do not always marry a male who helps her in need, there is something called friendship too and I that is something the writers could have explored as well but no they had to make a jalebi of all relationship in the show for the sake of their title.



Really I don't care whether she says ILU to Abhinav or I hate you to Abhi but certainly I will not marry a man who offers me his seat in public transport or a doctor who will help save my child or the friend who has helped me in finishing my project or the bank manager who approves my loan.


Women are getting into leadership roles, have gone to the moon, are flying planes and here we are stuck with a jam making mother

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Why is your profession superior to that of a jam making mother's? What gives you the right to so blatantly disregard the hardwork that these jam making mothers that the likes of you sneer on ,put in to make their small businesses a success?


Would you be okay with going back to a husband who terrorized you and called you the murderer of your own mother, kids and brother and abandoned you at the lowest moment of your life?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Not every woman want to go to moon and be business woman,lawyer..not everyone have to be BossGirl.. some are just simple and wanna be happy with little things and Ak is one of us. She can still make jam and be with a Driver..not everyone have to be Rich..also many girl will marry a guy who help her in every possible thing..or you wanna say the guy have to be Too handsome or paise Wala? Then only girls will marry? Ak stayed with Abhinav for many month to know him..she didn't marry him the day they met in the bus..he wasn't stranger after knowing everything.. arrange marriages are compromise only. And people do fall in love after years

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Posted: 2 years ago
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And nothing can be as regressive as taking away a woman's autonomy over what SHE wants to do with her life , how she wants to live her life and WHO she wants to live with.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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First it was will akshara confess her love to abhiM in drunken state?

Now that she has confessed her love to her Legally wedded husband, people will dissect the confession in 100 ways and claim there is no love or this marriage is a sham

PS-Not a Navra or abhira fan jisko gali deni hai/shade karna hai Karo this is my pov

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Absolutely !! One should not accept help from who met in bus but they should go back and beg to the person who has given divorce multiple times and blames her for murder when you are in vulnerable condition.


Also, women are flying planes , running business but but they should not move on and have a happy family 👏👏👏👏

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Are you not aware of this universal truth ki "jis shadi mein do teen baar divorce na Hui ho woh shadi sacchi wali nahi hoti". Baki mere jaise normal logon ke liye aisi Akshnav wali normal shadi hi thik hai. Yeh ultimate soulmate wala multiple divorce included shadi package jinhe chahiye unhiko Mubarak.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Read carefully my post does not imply that the female should run back to her husband for whatever abuse she has gone through . My post is not about who is a better husband Abhinav or Abhimanyu.?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

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Why is your profession superior to that of a jam making mother's? What gives you the right to so blatantly disregard the hardwork that these jam making mothers that the likes of you sneer on ,put in to make their small businesses a success?


Would you be okay with going back to a husband who terrorized you and called you the murderer of your own mother, kids and brother and abandoned you at the lowest moment of your life?

I mean, the only thing Abimanyu has over Abhinav is unrealistic amount of money from a family that owns hospitals (let's not get into the fact that you cannot be an ethical person if you're trying to earn profits from healthcare infrastructure), so we only find classist reasoning to dislike Abhinav

Now that Akshara has kinda confessed that she loves Abhinav, she would be subjected to the same classist reasoning. If she made a flashy IG page called ~ Nav Terai Jams~ and charged 500 bucks for a jar of 100% organic, vegan Himalayan jam/ marmalade/ preseve then she'd be a girlbawse. Or maybe not; because she loves Abhinav.

Edited by Deltablues - 2 years ago

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