Do you need to be drunk to say ILU to your husband of 6 years. - Page 4

Originally posted by: Naay

Well the point was mentioned meant that to survive Shaadi karna zaroori ni h ... All jobs deserve respect... Jam wali ya yoga instructor wali....

Point yeh h ki you don't see people getting married aise jo Akshara k type .... Which really doesn't make sense... Aaj kal sab Bolte h uska marzi uska haq n all toh why compromise and get married just because she wasn't strong enough to survive n heard people ka tana ?? Was it required? When she was hospitalized she could have asked money from kairav kv hated birlas anyway toh he would have helped her without anyone's knowing if required ( afterall she is his sister n Karthik naira's daughter) n started her own jam business with loan from kairav n lived her life raising abhir .... Not saying she should go back to Abhimanyu.... Abhinav could have been like a best friend who supported her than this love angle...

Why don't people help others thinking it's brother or sister i these serials...why is it always go to love angle....har koi stranger help karega kya love k liye .... Agar reality m if i help someone stranger I'll think bhaiya h ya behen h hel karte h....

That person said Naira considering Naira's choices superior to that of Akshara's. And here you are arguing about how Akshara could have asked money from Kairav. Then why did Naira not go back to her family or ask money from her family who always supported her, unlike the Goenkas who have always let Akshara down? The other person was of the opinion that faking one's own death was better than moving on in life and getting married to someone. Is it really? It that realistic for you? To make the family who loves you assume that you are dead? And whatever choices Akshara made, she atleast had Abhinav to take care of her during her pregnancy. But Naira was all alone and doing waitressing and other energy consuming small jobs to keep herself afloat. Why are Naira's choices better than Akshara's when objectively speaking Akshara managed to give herself and her child a far more comfortable life than Naira did?

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Why cannot she marry because she wanted to? Usse kisise bravery aur strength certificate lene ke liye ajeevan sexless, companionlesa rehna chahiye tha?

By that standard, Arohi is the best character in the show.

Let women live or not live with whoever they want lol.

I never said that she shouldn't..... If you get my point that is she agreed to gett married to give name to her son father please go and rewatch the episode.... That's the point i was making that for that she shouldn't have.... That once the baby is old tell him the truth and after that I'm sure if she had any feelings for him get married or whatever ... Why feeling so scared that abhir getting to know the truth n guilty everytime that abhinav helped so much nothing should go wrong...... Agar kuch kiya h uske liye guilty kyun n darr kyun.... She should be able to live happy life even facing her past .... Strong what i meant is able to let go and accept the reality and move on from the past ...

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

In the first sentence you say one thing and in the right next sentence you go on to say the exact opposite of what you said . Do women who manage to move on on life and marry someone else after a divorce even if its for the sake of stability not deserve respect?

And Akshara didn't fight hers?

I don't judge Naira because it was CHOICE she made for herself just like AKSHARA did .

The way Akshara moved on didnt seem to work for me it’s my opinion.Naira might have run away but she managed her life herself.Akshara relied on someone else completely.

She saw how Abhinav was involved with taking care of her and her baby during pregnancy and when she heard from the nurse how he took care of the baby for three days while she was unconscious, then only she decided to ask him to be the father of her kid.

Originally posted by: Naay

I never said that she shouldn't..... If you get my point that is she agreed to gett married to give name to her son father please go and rewatch the episode.... That's the point i was making that for that she shouldn't have.... That once the baby is old tell him the truth and after that I'm sure if she had any feelings for him get married or whatever ... Why feeling so scared that abhir getting to know the truth n guilty everytime that abhinav helped so much nothing should go wrong...... Agar kuch kiya h uske liye guilty kyun n darr kyun.... She should be able to live happy life even facing her past .... Strong what i meant is able to let go and accept the reality and move on from the past ...

Why not? Its a choice she made and she had all the right to do whatever she thought was necessary for the sake of herself and her child. She wanted to raise her child with a good man like Abhinav. So she selfishly asked him if he would marry her. They both had no problems with this arrangement. Then why should anyone else bother?

And marrying him after living with him for seven months is definitely better than what she did with Abhimanyu. Sending rishtas without even knowing if she actually loves him, and then blackmailing her by using her sister as a bait.

So? It makes her struggle to build a life of her own any lesser than any other woman just because she chose not to remain single and wait for her husband who may come with his mother to snatch away her baby.

So? Housewives who depend on their husbands for their expenses don't deserve respect?

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

And Abhir was always happy with Akshara and Abhinav he still is. So what seems to be the problem here?

Huh no problem I answered your question why Kairav didnt seem happy.I didnt say Abhir wasn’t.😁

Originally posted by: Naay

I never said that she shouldn't..... If you get my point that is she agreed to gett married to give name to her son father please go and rewatch the episode.... That's the point i was making that for that she shouldn't have.... That once the baby is old tell him the truth and after that I'm sure if she had any feelings for him get married or whatever ... Why feeling so scared that abhir getting to know the truth n guilty everytime that abhinav helped so much nothing should go wrong...... Agar kuch kiya h uske liye guilty kyun n darr kyun.... She should be able to live happy life even facing her past .... Strong what i meant is able to let go and accept the reality and move on from the past ...

She can marry because she, an adult, chose to get married with her full consent. She decided that it was the best course of action for herself and her baby. Her partner agreed. They got married. End of story. If she didn't get married and stayed as roommates/live-in partner/rakhi brother with Abhinav, that would have been her choice as well. If she decided to raise Abhir alone as a divorcée single mother in a strange city, it would have been her choice as well

She doesn't owe any explanations or justifications to anyone.

Her fears are rooted in Abhimanyu being an abusive, inconsiderate manchild who would snatch her kid away from her and not in Abhinav lol

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

So? Housewives who depend on their husbands for their expenses don't deserve respect?

never said that, what I meant was that Naira a woman who stayed strong and had guts to be self reliant is stronger than Akshara a woman with musical talent who relied on a total stranger.I guess there is no point in this.. to each their own.