Do you need to be drunk to say ILU to your husband of 6 years. - Page 2

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

Read carefully my post does not imply that the female should run back to her husband for whatever abuse she has gone through . My post is not about who is a better husband Abhinav or Abhimanyu.?

When did I say that your post implies that? Your post implies that Akshara has downgraded which is debateable.

Also, would like to point out what's the use of flying a plane, landing on moon when you forgive and go back to your abusers there by becoming their enablers. This is not being empowered

Jam making mother is still better 😭

Who cares about Abhinav and Abhimanyu. MY post is about the character building of a female lead by the producers.

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

Who cares about Abhinav and Abhimanyu. MY post is about the character building of a female lead by the producers.

It was a very mature take on love and relationships but that show bombed miserably

Naira Akshara’s mother was a lot stronger.When Kartik and she had misunderstandings she shifted to mumbai to pursue her studies.Also later on she raised her child Kairav as a single mom in goa single handedly.She was a yoga instructor who paid her bills.She had her flaws but she stayed much stronger than Akshara.

Now, Akshara ran away twice once she was a shadow of Dr.Khera’s sister but Akshara was slightly strong in that track.But after the 6 year leap She married a random helpful stranger and lives on the mountains giving up her singing career and passion for music.She could have started music classes and earned money to raise her child trying to be independent.Then the respect for this character would have increased for me personally.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Naira Akshara’s mother was a lot stronger.When Kartik and she had misunderstandings she shifted to mumbai to pursue her studies.Also later on she raised her child Kairav as a single mom in goa single handedly.She was a yoga instructor who paid her bills.She had her flaws but she stayed much stronger than Akshara.

Now, Akshara ran away twice once she was a shadow of Dr.Khera’s sister but Akshara was slightly strong in that track.But after the 6 year leap She married a random helpful stranger and lives on the mountains giving up her singing career and passion for music.She could have started music classes and earned money to raise her child trying to be independent.Then the respect for this character would have increased for me personally.

Contradictions contradictions everywhere. Why did Naira become a dancer or dance teacher after she "ran away" from her husband who questioned her character? Why does a yoga instructor deserve more respect than a jam maker? Now I'm not the kind of a person who judges women for making choices that do not align with my own, but according to you faking your own death, leading your family (a very loving family who always supported her btw) to believe that you are no more, is better than getting married to a decent man and leading a peaceful life away from the chaos , and still maintaining communication with your family is far worse, eh? Lol And in your opinion, only single parents deserve respect, but not the ones who chose to remarry and move on in life? My cousins' moms who live in small villages, are homemakers and help out in with the finances by making homemade achars and papads and doing other household chores do not deserve your respect eh?

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

Who cares about Abhinav and Abhimanyu. MY post is about the character building of a female lead by the producers.

Yep and working women cannot be strong, progressive unless they want to accumulate money through constant business expansions?

All of us should turn hedgefund managers?

As shitty as ITV is, Akshara was shown to be moving on from her abusive, alleged soulmate. She was shown to have transformed from a whimpering, manic pixie ingenue for Abhimanyu to a strong, assertive woman who doesn't shy away from speaking her mind and castigating her husband. That is character growth.

But when she says she loves her husband, and he's the best decision of her life then we would insist that she has downgraded and compromised. And her very legal marriage is not a marriage at all because she trusted a stranger who took care of her through a traumatic pregnancy. So much respect for autonomy.

But her decision, previously, to marry a stranger who gaslighted her into a confession and used her sister as a collateral damage was sound because stranger danger applies to Abhinav but not Abhimanyu?

Originally posted by: Deltablues

I mean, the only thing Abimanyu has over Abhinav is unrealistic amount of money from a family that owns hospitals (let's not get into the fact that you cannot be an ethical person if you're trying to earn profits from heathcare infrastructure), so we only find classist reasoning to dislike Abhinav

Now that Akshara has kinda confessed that she loves Abhinav, she would be subjected to the same classist reasoning. If she made a flashy IG page called ~ Nav Terai Jams~ and charged 500 bucks for a jar of 100% organic, vegan Himalayan jam/ marmalade/ preseve then she'd be a girlbawse. Or maybe not; because she loves Abhinav.

But hey!!! She waited six years to find the right time to confess her love to her husband, and you know saaaax suuuuxx bhi abhi Hui hai! Toh its not really walllaaa soulll wallla love okaaayyy????

If she had confessed to him within a day, a week or two of knowing him like she did with her ex, that would have been reeeeaaaallllllll luuurvvvveee.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Naira Akshara’s mother was a lot stronger.When Kartik and she had misunderstandings she shifted to mumbai to pursue her studies.Also later on she raised her child Kairav as a single mom in goa single handedly.She was a yoga instructor who paid her bills.She had her flaws but she stayed much stronger than Akshara.

Now, Akshara ran away twice once she was a shadow of Dr.Khera’s sister but Akshara was slightly strong in that track.But after the 6 year leap She married a random helpful stranger and lives on the mountains giving up her singing career and passion for music.She could have started music classes and earned money to raise her child trying to be independent.Then the respect for this character would have increased for me personally.

I wouldn't consider a person I've lived with for over 7 months a stranger. But a person who sends rishtas to my home after 1 week of casual interaction, now that is the one I wouldn't touch even with a barge pole.