Tere Bin (Yumna Zaidi-Wahaj Ali) DT#120 - Page 101

Originally posted by: Starsign12

I agree with butchering of character even if he think of remarriage because he proclaimed such big things in the name of love ..and in a love story murtasim and meerab they cannot move on with any other person..it ruins the story

I just want him to show Haya her place..That's why I think that marriage will be a set up

If they go itv types and meerab last minute entry it will be soo badp

I am waiting for murtasam to say yes to the marriage with Haya.

soon as I hear that Yes I am done with TB!

no last minute entry can save murtasam

Beautiful poetry

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsS4hFIuOrF/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Sure we can👍🏼

Yes murtasim is no saint but atleast he isn't as toxic as meerab.

And he doesn't get unnecessary backing and justifications like meerab gets😛

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

second marriage is surely allowed but there r circumstances.

here we r talking about Tb, let’s not bring our religion, because then we can talk about this whole contract thing is against our religion!

Men can merry 4x but what’s the rule? People tend to forget that!

so let’s not go there bcs TB is so not Islamic tv show 😂 it has no logic

now back to the characteristic: I am talking about how murtasam chracter was build up and then his one line was enough to ruin the chracter fully.

I'm not talking only about religion, instead I'm saying that if a man decides to move out of a toxic relationship, then he should be encouraged not character assasinated.

I meant to say that if Murtasim decides to move on then he shouldn't be called a person whose love was fake.

I know a man who loved his wife dearly but his wife always disrespected him and one day she left her house in ego and started to live on streets nearby. Even then that man used to bring food and basic necessities to her. He kept convincing her to return home but that women didn't budge and continued to disrespect him by living on those streets.

After many days that man became fed up of her nonsense and divorced her which ended up in that woman begging for forgiveness. Now I cannot say that the man was wrong or his love was fake. That woman brought him to that point and the man was absolutely correct with his decision of moving on.

Every man and woman holds the right to move out of toxic relations and I meant just that.

Originally posted by: Rashi23

Kis muh se jaayegi woh apni foster mother ke pass.Because of her attitude and carelessness her father died while searching for his daughter whom he loved so much.

Meerab doesn't care for relationships, if she would've she would have forgiven her foster parents, her birth father and would have accepted her marriage with murtasim.

Lol studies woh kya hota hai🤪 Murtu permitted her to continue her studies ,asked her to understand his pov and not encourage Maryam but she never cared and went on to help her elope with a stranger.

Now because of this separation I hope she learns to value relationships.

@Bold: I don't agree with it. He was concerned for her. But he did not die because of her attitude and carelessness. He was insensitive to reveal her birth secret in an insensitive way without considering her feelings. He could have revealed it in a more sensitive way and made her understand his position. Did he take a stand for her when Murtasim slapped her? And then he left her at haveli. He was being insensitive again. He didn't consider her feelings again. Aneela didn't take a strong stand for her either. After all this, should she be loving and understanding towards her adoptive parents? He didn't even show that much concern when he saw his loving daughter was slapped by MB. Aneela had to convince him to talk to Anwar. And it didn't take a second for him to doubt Meerab regarding Rohail's issue. He did take a stand for her regarding Mariyam's matter. But before that he also disappointed her. She faced betrayal from the person she trusted.

Why should she care for relationships when those didn't care for her?

- MB wants property and wants Meerab to act like she wants.

- Murtasim doesn't care for her feelings. Even after she told him to stay away from Haya he didn't listen.

- Her adoptive parents were insensitive.

- Her father who is always ready to abandon her at the drop of a hat.

Meerab should be caring about the relationships with these people?

Murtasim himself didn't care about Mariyam. He wanted to meet Anas only because Meerab was not talking to him. Otherwise he didn't care about Mariyam. Whether she was getting forcefully married or not it didn't matter to him.

I don't want her to learn the value of these relationships during the separation. I want her to learn about life and become strong during this separation.

Originally posted by: Slender-Rose123

I'm not talking only about religion, instead I'm saying that if a man decides to move out of a toxic relationship, then he should be encouraged not character assasinated.

I meant to say that if Murtasim decides to move on then he shouldn't be called a person whose love was fake.

I know a man who loved his wife dearly but his wife always disrespected him and one day she left her house in ego and started to live on streets nearby. Even then that man used to bring food and basic necessities to her. He kept convincing her to return home but that women didn't budge and continued to disrespect him by living on those streets.

After many days that man became fed up of her nonsense and divorced her which ended up in that woman begging for forgiveness. Now I cannot say that the man was wrong or his love was fake. That woman brought him to that point and the man was absolutely correct with his decision of moving on.

Every man and woman holds the right to move out of toxic relations and I meant just that.

I was thinking you referring that to TB! We have no logic there 😂

And for TB: do they have toxic relationship? I think they have emotional unbalance which need to talk out.

I put define toxic relationship is where husband abuse wife or wife abuse husband. Both physically and mentally.

I don’t think Meerab and murtasam fall under that.

They took some wrong decisions! Once they come to term I don’t think this will be ok.

Nooran perhaps wrote some physical abuse, we saw 2 slap! But I still dont think it fully falls under abusive toxic relationship.

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Originally posted by: Rashi23

Sure we can👍🏼

Yes murtasim is no saint but atleast he isn't as toxic as meerab.

And he doesn't get unnecessary backing and justifications like meerab gets😛

PS..you will find ppl supporting meerab because they SOMETIMES get where she is coming from and what she is doing...

And it's Meerab and murtasim journey together to a happy after....that's what many ppl are still hoping for....

Please don't tag me again...like I said I understand your views tc

Originally posted by: pressu

@Bold: I don't agree with it. He was concerned for her. But he did not die because of her attitude and carelessness. He was insensitive to reveal her birth secret in an insensitive way without considering her feelings. He could have revealed it a more sensitive way and made her understand his position. Did he take a stand for her when Murtasim slapped her? And then he left her at haveli. He was being insensitive again. He didn't consider her feelings again. Aneela didn't take a strong stand for her either. After all this, should she be loving and understanding towards for her adoptive parents. He didn't even show that much concern when he saw his loving daughter was by MB. Aneela had to convince him to talk to Anwar. And it didn't take a second for him to doubt Meerab regarding Rohail's issue. He did take a stand for her regarding Mariyam's matter. But before that he also disappointed her. She faced betrayl from the person she trusted.

Why should she care for relationships when those didn't care for her?

- MB wants property and Meerab to act like she wants

- Murtasim doesn't care for her feelings. Even after she told him to stay away from Haya he didn't listen.

- Her adoptive arents were insensitive.

- Her father who is always ready to abandon her at the drop of a hat.

Meerab should be caring about the relationships with these people?

Murtasim himself didn't care about Mariyam. He wanted to meet Anas only because Meerab was not talking to him. Otherwise he didn't care about Mariyam. Whether she was getting forcefully married it didn't matter to him.

I don't want her to learn the value of these relationships during the separation. I want her to learn about life and become strong during this separation.

well said.

Meerab has suffered allot, and whole drama has been how to change meerab into one of the khan.

MB: haven’t changed: selfish as always even to her daughter.

Anwar: idk what he does 99% of the time

Haya: selfish as Mb! Both actually have same characteristic

Murtasam: he didn’t change anything in his life other than falling in love with Meerab.

Maryam: she just took her chance and left the house 😂

Meerab: still fighting to fit in and when she couldn’t or even tried and failed she just ran way.

Every single chracter is wrong and right in their own way.

But most was asked from was meerab: is to change her completely.

man’s we saw the selfishness of each character

so you can’t really talk about female power or male power bcs this drama fails in both

Lol don't wanna waste my time for this argument because meerab ke itne kaands hai ki 2 3 page bhar jaayenge agar likhne jaaye toh.

Forget about the past, just like how yall have forgotten how caring and understanding murtu has been towards meerab, current scenario was that her foster parents had accepted that they were wrong in letting meerab marry murtasim and now they wanna keep their daughter to themselves.

When she knows this why didn't she go back to them?Now don't tell me murtu would have dragged her back to Haveli, she could have ran away to some other country with the help of her parents if she really wanted to discover herself but nope she is now taking help of some stranger and would be living with her instead of contacting with her parents.

Ofcourse he died because of the trauma and stress he got since meerab refused to keep any relationship with them and refused to accept them. Her running away was like last nail in the coffin he couldn't handle it and died.