Aap Pagal Hain Kya? - Page 3

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Anu's, "Aap Pagaal Hain Kya?" triggered me. It triggered me badly. I have suffered from clinical depression a few times in my life, and every time I had to hear, "Pagal Hogayi Ho Kya" from near ones. It hurt then, it hurt today. The way MAA manhandled a PTSD patient was scary, inappropriate, and insensitive. I should not have watched today's episode so early in the morning. That "Pagaal Hain Kya" dialogue will stay with me for a while. I can't enjoy their romance for a few days.

What else did you expect?? They made a joke of all serious issues....rape, molestation, fosteringa nd adoption and now....mental health too......

This is the reason that mental health patients are even afraid to tell to any body what they go through...tu pagal hai kya?? ....and they suffer silently and not to mention that sometimes end up taking their own lives....but Devi ji is a psychotherapist as well.....mein Anuj ko theek karoongi......this woman is nuts....just leave the man alone....he needs either alone time or he needs therapy.....u can't theek him....

Recently our cat died....we had her for 10 years....my daughter was very attached to her because growing up she had always seen my cat and she was like a family member...we all took it very hard...but my daughter being the youngest took it really hard...she sometimes used to wake up in the middle of the night crying....we tried for a while to talk to her and when it didn't work...we sought the help of a grief counselor....she went through counseling for almost one year and she is fine now...she still misses her but is not traumatized.....sometimes we all need professional help and there is no shame in asking for it......no one ever told my daughter....ki pagal hai kya??

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Anu's, "Aap Pagaal Hain Kya?" triggered me. It triggered me badly. I have suffered from clinical depression a few times in my life, and every time I had to hear, "Pagal Hogayi Ho Kya" from near ones. It hurt then, it hurt today. The way MAA manhandled a PTSD patient was scary, inappropriate, and insensitive. I should not have watched today's episode so early in the morning. That "Pagaal Hain Kya" dialogue will stay with me for a while. I can't enjoy their romance for a few days.

I am sorry Aisha you had to witness this.😢

Unfortunately my dear they’re what everyone called romance end when their real life began, sadly! They have not been the same and never will again.
There is no 🤣romance when one person can’t seem to let go of her past to live in present and live for the future.😡
You can just romance yourself, it requires two. Anuj found out the hard way.🤣

Now he will have to live with guilt of knowing he wasted 26 years waiting to romance and marry this stupid woman. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

I'm sure you didn't watch the episode (good, keep going with that). Bro, it was so bad - the way she kept invading his personal space while he seemed so broken and depressed, it was so suffocating to watch - this must have been triggering to a lot of people

Anupama angers me on normal days so on days like this I know she will be suffocating to watch. Thankfully, trolling is so much better for my sanity.😂

Originally posted by: myviewprem

This uneducated illiterate lady thinks depression and anxiety and loss and grieving is going mad

Depression can be caused by chemical imablance in barin like low dopamine does this woman know anything

Same for anxiety

Even madness and anger is caused by hormones or change in chemicals in brain

But in this serial all illiterate educated are there so i have no hopes they know all this

That is why pyschiatrist give tablets to correct these chemical imbalance

If you have thyroid and diabetes or BP you can have depression or anxiety etc because chemicals in brain go low

Exactly! My youngest 16 years old battles with anxiety and depression so knowing the signs are important. I sometime feels, I will become depressed just watching this show in general. So I quit watching.

Like I said before, coming here, Reading your hilarious recap and point of views keeps me sane and laughing.🥰

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

That still remains a very good question - it feels like the people who are supporting Anupama here would have probably just destroyed Anuj and started petitions on removing him from the show

After all, they just want some one to just sit back and be her purse holder and keep quiet. Let her do what ever she wants with no care in the world.😡

Originally posted by: inlieu

Some are saying he shouldn't have said those things to her in his outburst or that he didn't mean what he said.

Well, hello! He did mean all that, and because he's basically a gentleman, he held out so long and kept mum so as not to bring up these points with her. She pushed him and asked for all that and now some people are going to say he's behaving like Vanraj and accusing her needlessly. It doesn't help that Devika and Dheeraj are trying to side with Anu blindly.

Also, I don't get this whole idea that just because he got to marry her after 26 years that he should suffocate in this marriage for the next 26. Sometimes things don't work out, so cut your losses and move on.

He's right to ask her how she moved on so quickly because he's seen her extreme reactions when it comes to her 3 kids. She would have gone ballistic but with CA there is none of that. I'm not saying everyone has to show grief like that but since it's the norm for Anupama and she hasn't behaved that way, it tells you that she's not so bothered. Of course, the precap where she asks about holi with her biological family just proves what we've been saying.

I am beginning to wonder if it's deliberate and for a change the writers aren't trying to whitewash her anymore. Her journey from oppressed to potential oppressor is unfolding right now.

Since I only recap and what you all post here. I am only going by what every one is saying.

What would you want from human?. Especially man. They are weird to keep their feeling inside first.😡

Anuj tired his best to ignore his stupid insensitive wife as not to hurt her feelings but she would not allow this too and forced him to open up. Now her devotees can deal with the pandora box opening up.
He is right, he lost everything, his world changed, where her world remained the same.

Originally posted by: Toto123

This is disturbing to even read😕.

I cant imagine watching this shit! Thank god I have stopped watching.

Me too, seriously! It such a relief. It was first and last time I will watch Indian shows and drama. I have never seen something this badly written before in my life.
I even stopped watching TV in general for 20 years when my kids were younger so they could watch and I got peace quite. When I did return, my first mistake was watching Pakistani drama that bore me quickly than finding this useless show.😡

I have decide to stick with American shows, they trigger me less.😂

Only good I got I out of this show was finding this forum and you ladies.🙂

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Originally posted by: Peppss

This

All of this i had to deal with

Ended up hiding going to therapy from my family fearing i would be tagged mad forever(been called one so many times before)

The whole confrontation was triggering

I just kept thinking throughout that scene -take your hands off him women

I can't even handle people coming anywhere near me when I am in that zone

To see her physically forcing him to speak up was just nauseating

Such cruel and insensitive writting

Itv should stay miles away from MH issues

That is so sad to read.😢I hope you are in better place. I hope, your family one day will understands. I know as a mom it took me few weeks to get how bad my son’s anxiety and depression was.
What not to do and cause of it. I found I wanted to talk to my child right away and solve his issues because as mom I could not see him in pain.

His therapist in his first session set us all done and explains what will happen and not to do. We needed as parents was to give him space to come to us. So that is what we do now daily.

Give him space and just wait. I hope your family will to get it, it they have not already.😌

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

Me too, seriously! It such a relief. It was first and last time I will watch Indian shows and drama. I have never seen something this badly written before in my life

Ideally I should be feeling sad at reading this but good decision tbh. However, if you ever watch one in the Hindi ITV space, do try out some of the shows from Sony TV/SAB (like Bade Acche Lagte Hai season 1 - only till the child grows up or Kuch Rang Pyaar Ke Aise Bhi). They may not be the best but they are generally non toxic and not dragged out. I barely remember a decent show on Star of late apart from the first 100 episodes of Kahaan Hum Kahaan Tum. Another show which I really liked in the past was Ek Hasina Thi. And Sasural Genda Phool. Others may recommend better shows, if there are any 😆

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Ideally I should be feeling sad at reading this but good decision tbh. However, if you ever watch one in the Hindi ITV space, do try out some of the shows from Sony TV/SAB (like Bade Acche Lagte Hai season 1 - only till the child grows up or Kuch Rang Pyaar Ke Aise Bhi). They may not be the best but they are generally non toxic and not dragged out. I barely remember a decent show on Star of late apart from the first 100 episodes of Kahaan Hum Kahaan Tum. Another show which I really liked in the past was Ek Hasina Thi. And Sasural Genda Phool. Others may recommend better shows, if there are any 😆

To give you a good idea last time I watched India drama was Choti bahu, came out in 2000, I think. Two season, I think. That left such a sour taste, I quite watching any international drama. So like said, I will I just catch up all the Law and order Franchise series, I missed. Less trigger.🤣