Aap Pagal Hain Kya? - Page 2

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

I'm sure you didn't watch the episode (good, keep going with that). Bro, it was so bad - the way she kept invading his personal space while he seemed so broken and depressed, it was so suffocating to watch - this must have been triggering to a lot of people

I wanted to reach into the screen and pull him out of her clutches. It was all about her... I wanted to ask her 'tum paagal ho kya?'

Originally posted by: SoulSpiller

That still remains a very good question - it feels like the people who are supporting Anupama here would have probably just destroyed Anuj and started petitions on removing him from the show

Some are saying he shouldn't have said those things to her in his outburst or that he didn't mean what he said.

Well, hello! He did mean all that, and because he's basically a gentleman, he held out so long and kept mum so as not to bring up these points with her. She pushed him and asked for all that and now some people are going to say he's behaving like Vanraj and accusing her needlessly. It doesn't help that Devika and Dheeraj are trying to side with Anu blindly.

Also, I don't get this whole idea that just because he got to marry her after 26 years that he should suffocate in this marriage for the next 26. Sometimes things don't work out, so cut your losses and move on.

He's right to ask her how she moved on so quickly because he's seen her extreme reactions when it comes to her 3 kids. She would have gone ballistic but with CA there is none of that. I'm not saying everyone has to show grief like that but since it's the norm for Anupama and she hasn't behaved that way, it tells you that she's not so bothered. Of course, the precap where she asks about holi with her biological family just proves what we've been saying.

I am beginning to wonder if it's deliberate and for a change the writers aren't trying to whitewash her anymore. Her journey from oppressed to potential oppressor is unfolding right now.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

This uneducated illiterate lady thinks depression and anxiety and loss and grieving is going mad

Depression can be caused by chemical imablance in barin like low dopamine does this woman know anything

Same for anxiety

Even madness and anger is caused by hormones or change in chemicals in brain

But in this serial all illiterate educated are there so i have no hopes they know all this

That is why pyschiatrist give tablets to correct these chemical imbalance

If you have thyroid and diabetes or BP you can have depression or anxiety etc because chemicals in brain go low

What more can you expect from someone who thinks sending her son to rehab will cure him of his anger issues and EMA tendencies?

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Anu's, "Aap Pagaal Hain Kya?" triggered me. It triggered me badly. I have suffered from clinical depression a few times in my life, and every time I had to hear, "Pagal Hogayi Ho Kya" from near ones. It hurt then, it hurt today. The way MAA manhandled a PTSD patient was scary, inappropriate, and insensitive. I should not have watched today's episode so early in the morning. That "Pagaal Hain Kya" dialogue will stay with me for a while. I can't enjoy their romance for a few days.

I’m simply appalled by her cold heartedness and the audacity to call him ‘pagal’…I would have smacked her face and said its not me its you who is a nutter…seriously there has to be end to her torture

Originally posted by: hinz

I’m simply appalled by her cold heartedness and the audcacity to call him ‘pagal’…I would have smacked her face and said its not me its you who is a nutter…seriously there has to be end to her torture

I am against all forms of physical violence, but today I wished Anuj slapped her a few times.🤬

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I am against all forms of physical violence, but today I wished Anuj slapped her a few times.🤬

Really now Anupama is the one who tortures Anuj 🤦

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Anu's, "Aap Pagaal Hain Kya?" triggered me. It triggered me badly. I have suffered from clinical depression a few times in my life, and every time I had to hear, "Pagal Hogayi Ho Kya" from near ones. It hurt then, it hurt today. The way MAA manhandled a PTSD patient was scary, inappropriate, and insensitive. I should not have watched today's episode so early in the morning. That "Pagaal Hain Kya" dialogue will stay with me for a while. I can't enjoy their romance for a few days.

Aisha! 🤗❤️ Don't let this silly show get on your nerves. Thankfully, we have this forum to vent. I am hopeful you and others use this platform to get it off your chest & feel light.🤗

This is disturbing to even read😕.

I cant imagine watching this shit! Thank god I have stopped watching.

Originally posted by: shriz

Things you should never do to a depressed person

Minimize their feelings

Deny their feelings

Compare their feelings to others

Express apathy

Call them selfish

Say they are over reacting

And guess what! they did all of the above to anuj 🥲

This

All of this i had to deal with

Ended up hiding going to therapy from my family fearing i would be tagged mad forever(been called one so many times before)

The whole confrontation was triggering

I just kept thinking throughout that scene -take your hands off him women

I can't even handle people coming anywhere near me when I am in that zone

To see her physically forcing him to speak up was just nauseating

Such cruel and insensitive writting

Itv should stay miles away from MH issues

Originally posted by: Peppss

This

All of this i had to deal with

Ended up hiding going to therapy from my family fearing i would be tagged mad forever(been called one so many times before)

The whole confrontation was triggering

I just kept thinking throughout that scene -take your hands off him women

I can't even handle people coming anywhere near me when I am in that zone

To see her physically forcing him to speak up was just nauseating

Such cruel and insensitive writting

Itv should stay miles away from MH issues

Yo, Peppy how are you? After a long time..

I hope you are in a better space now. I can totally relate. I dealt with everything alone and took some ghastly decisions to deal with that which I would regret for the rest of my life. Although it was painful and numbing at times, it also taught me a lot of things. And I hope it was the same for you ❤️

ITV should stay away from every issue. They should stick to their saas-bahu saaga only.