Toxic Marriages - Page 3

Once Vanraj said, "I feel suffocated with you." Today, Anuj said the same thing. It's sad that MAA's biggest fear came true. She was always scared of getting broken the second time. It takes a lot of courage to hold on to someone after getting betrayed. She gathered the courage only to be crushed in the same way. I know separation is necessary for a show to go on and I honestly do not have any problem with leads separating but they could have done it without butchering Anuj's character. They could have shown Anuj succumbing to depression and ignoring Anu leading to a separation. Those hurtful words were not necessary.

Originally posted by: ShikhaAgrawal

Nd Anuj is still the same decent nd respectful but all he wants a very normalised family like us

Nd trasheaj se compare plzzz

Nd Anupama is her self responsible for everything

Tamashah cant handle thr issues nd Anuj he smjhe everytime wow

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Nope, it's not ALL her fault. A lot of it is, but not completely. Anuj is also to blame. Dude never told her that hey, after marriage yunno I might wanna adopt a kid. They didn't even HAVE a conversation about children. If their relationship was so open and honest, could he not have expressed his hearts desires to her? Or randomly during their honeymoon he started dreaming of adoption all of a sudden??

Also, notice that many times when CA showed that she was understanding and very mature, Anuj never spoke to her about that. He also let her go to the Shahs house with Maa where she ended up getting attached to the Shahs too (which is horrible!)

When CA said that she wanted everyone there at the festivals, Anuj didn't put a stop to that. He didn't establish a divide between himself/CA and Shahs either. He would dance and hug Vanraj and be all buddy buddy with him despite how he treated his wife in the past (wtf?).

So yeah, he is definitely to blame as well.

I'm not able to sympathise with anyone here, no matter what. Perhaps I'll have to blind myself to the fact that all this is being done to complete the typical ITV agenda of bringing as much sympathy for the heroine as they can by making her cry, cry, cry and sacrificing others forcefully. Then will come the glorification part where she will prove to be the best, no matter what. Often times other ITV serials fulfill this very agenda but do it in a way, that it's not that obvious (in your face type) and can induce both sympathy and applause for their FL. But this show is something else. Everything is so damn blatant and in your face type that I can't feel for them even if I want to.

That forced villainising of Maaya, making Anuj spew angry dialogues at Anupamaa and prioritising his daughter over 26 saal ka pyar, making Choti Anu utter dialogues that claim she wasn't least bit hurt by her so called foster mother's negligence (giving Anupamaa a clean chit for Maaya's accusations) are so in your face type that I won't be able to feel anything for their titular character even if I want to.

Therefore, I completely understand and respect your opinion but I am not able to sympathise with her at all. I may sympathise with Anuj a bit and mostly with Maaya (whose characters are being destroyed) 😆

I don't know if I feel for Anu too now. This little girl has turned into an instrument for Anupamaa's glorification. I don't see her as a child anymore after yesterday. I hope I am able to connect with her at least like before. Damn you makers

They literally don't know how to be in a healthy marriage relationship. Either he keeps giving her everything without a single no or he just keeps on blaming her. I don't find his anger on Anupamaa sane. But I don't get her obsession for CA. He can let go of her just like he did for Anupamaa if he truly loves her but this man was got some unhealthy obsession to keep her with him.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

Anupama jaise bhi hain, it’s honestly sad to see her second marriage turn out like this. Imagine your second marriage turning out exactly like your first one. Imagine the person who claimed to love you the most and waited for you for 26 years turned out like your toxic ex. Anupama didn’t even want to remarry after her divorce, she was scared that these events would happen again, looks like her fear came true. Whatever Vanraj told her before her marriage came true, people always change after marriage. It’s sad sad to see how a decent, respectful man has become another typical MCP. DKP should be ashamed of themselves for showing such disgusting content! People will think that remarriage is bad and that everyone changes and becomes toxic and abusive! Looks like MaAn is officially over.

No Anuj is NOT like vanraj. Please stop spreading this propaganda. Stop demeaning words like toxocity, MCP, or abuse

This is primary example.of why women who undergo trauma and abuse are not believed in society today. Because people misuse these terms according to their convenience

Asking for someone to pay attention to their child is not toxic or MCP just because someone is a woman

Being upset because someone spends 90% time in their exes house is not toxic or MCP just because someone is a women

Asking for accountability and responsibility in a relationship is not toxic or MCP just because someone is a woman

A father having PTSD for losing a child is not obsession just because he is a guy

There has been a rash of such posts on this forum and i am really disappointed

The gist of all such posts is - a woman can never ever be questioned no matter how much she neglects a relationship, how much she neglects a child and anyone who does it is toxic and MCP

And these people never ever consider how the neglected husband is feeling or the abandoned child is feeling. As soon as you question a woman anything you are automatically toxic or MCP

Anuj became same like vanraj who raped Anupama. Abused him for years, cheated on her, just because he dared to question a woman! Ridiculous

Worst of all, thse people dont under that such comparisons are actually problematic for women themselves. If you use terms like toxic, MCP, abuse just for questioning any women, when a woman is genuinely abused, no one will belive it or have sympathy for them

Words and terms have meaning, toxic, MCP, abuse all are huge words with serious ramifications. Lets not misuse them to just drive an agenda or to like or dislike a character. Such misuse just takes away the power of the word and only harms victims of genuine abuse

Originally posted by: Harish111

No Anuj is NOT like vanraj. Please stop spreading this propaganda. Stop demeaning words like toxocity, MCP, or abuse

This is primary example.of why women who undergo trauma and abuse are not believed in society today. Because people misuse these terms according to their convenience

Asking for someone to pay attention to their child is not toxic or MCP just because someone is a woman

Being upset because someone spends 90% time in their exes house is not toxic or MCP just because someone is a women

Asking for accountability and responsibility in a relationship is not toxic or MCP just because someone is a woman

A father having PTSD for losing a child is not obsession just because he is a guy

There has been a rash of such posts on this forum and i am really disappointed

The gist of all such posts is - a woman can never ever be questioned no matter how much she neglects a relationship, how much she neglects a child and anyone who does it is toxic and MCP

And these people never ever consider how the neglected husband is feeling or the abandoned child is feeling. As soon as you question a woman anything you are automatically toxic or MCP

Anuj became same like vanraj who raped Anupama. Abused him for years, cheated on her, just because he dared to question a woman! Ridiculous

Worst of all, thse people dont under that such comparisons are actually problematic for women themselves. If you use terms like toxic, MCP, abuse just for questioning any women, when a woman is genuinely abused, no one will belive it or have sympathy for them

Words and terms have meaning, toxic, MCP, abuse all are huge words with serious ramifications. Lets not misuse them to just drive an agenda or to like or dislike a character. Such misuse just takes away the power of the word and only harms victims of genuine abuse

Thanks for saying this, earlier I was reading posts like Maya and Anuj should be a thing and he should leave Anupama, everyone was enjoying Maya’s obsession towards Anuj and suddenly it turned to Anuj’s obsession towards CA and Maya being called a homewrecker, while neither Maya eyeing a married man was right nor is Anuj obsessed with CA

A father saying he cannot live without his child he will die is not obsession, a father begging his life partner to not let their child be taken away from them is not obsession

Anuj was never obsessed with Mukku or Anupama, he tried his best to protect them as he loved them but that love is being compared with a father’s love for his child

Anupama is herself responsible for her second marriage failing, Anuj was absolutely a normal husband, supported her at every step, gave her opportunity to grow in life, but she chose Shahs over everything, and today’s episode proved how she forced Anuj to let CA go, not even try once, she didn’t even clear CA’s misunderstanding of her parents fighting because of her, she will be solely responsible if anything wrong happens with CA in all this drama and her marriage going worse

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