If anupama is scared does that mean she thinks.............?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Anupama is scared because anuj went with Maya but why


In todays time husbands travel abroad and stay with women colleagues in same home in USA/UK etc


Its common for men to stay with female colleagues in while travelling or in same service apartment with two bedrooms etc (from indian companies)


So whys anupama reacting so much?


Tomorrow anuj goes on business trip to US or eurpoe she will follow him everywhere to see which rented house he stays and with how many other female colleagues or what?


Does she not have that much confidence on her husband that he will not stray or sleep like toshu or vanraj with another woman?


Or she knows that shes not fit to be anuj kapadiya wife as shes not good looking smart educated or business woman or professional like maya or kavya or kinjal etc


If we marry we cannot follow husbands everywhere where they go to keep watch what they do with other woman you must have confidence that no matter which woman tries to attract your man he will be loyal to you


If anupama cannot have confidence in her ability as anuj wife that that means she too knows anuj is way above her ability and may try to find better partner in life or companion that shes not right partner for him


Usually people marry to their education leavel and status and professional level only in past 20 years unless not relatives or family friends means parents arrange that marriages


Where have you seen an MBA US returned marrying 10th pass local medium woman and mother of 3 kids when hes all alone and bachelor in india or abroad? Nowadays people match their qualification or ability etc like a doctor will marry a BE or MBA or MBBS or PHD or CA or nurse they will not marry BSC or BA pass too nowadays anyone equal or above in education or their fields. Its not only managing house people need companion to know their profession and have meaningful conversations too after coming home every evening etc


Same way they will match their class too like anuj is millionaire such ppl they will search wife whose almost similar status in society for compatibility


If anupama is insecure of maya or any woman being alone with anuj even in a room or house or hotel it means shes scared that shes neither in education nor status nor profession equal to anuj very below him hence insecure


Because its common on tours or business trips to live in same house as female colleagues or professions in USA or europe for indian nowadays


If ppl go one college trips do not male or female classmates sleep in a big room together etc even in india colleges. Ask ppl in metro city this is all common nowadays


This is stupidity to think if a man and woman go together they will sleep together or to do affair only


Anupama has this thought means shes unfit to anuj kapadiya class or level of thinking too because in business its common to share rooms by men and women in hotel or rented apartment or homes etc nowadays

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Posted: 2 years ago
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The lion the witch and the audacity of this….

It’s OK for her to visit Shah phemili for no good reason and even make eyes at Meeshtar Shah but how dare handsome ATM go for a harmless picnic with another woman 😤 That she’s not his equal in looks, status, education or exposure is an unquestionable truth but she makes up for it with her cunning and emotional manipulation telent 😊

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Posted: 2 years ago
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You wrote this post is 2023 but Anu Maa is living in 1820s where thij izz not nurmal.


In 2023 , there is globalization where people of all walks meet ,spend time and are ok maintaining platonic friendships . In devijis world, men are cheaters. All men are !! And she needs to make sure her puppy is sh*tting only where he is supposed to (read shah house )

Posted: 2 years ago
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I think if everything was normal, I mean, Anuj hadn't told her again and again that he wants her attention for Anu and himself, it wouldn't have ever occurred to her. Now she's feeling that she's being replaced by another person in her own home. College trips and other trips are different. This was supposed to be her family but some other woman is going in HER place. Letting your husband go with a female colleague is different from letting him go with another woman, when you were supposed to be in her place. I think her heart is aching because of it.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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What do u expect from a woman like her who not only forgiven her abuser ex husband but is playing games happily with him,forgiven her cheater son and manipulated her young,independent,beautiful,educated daughter in law to forgive her useless n cheater son n made her stay with him.Now why is she scared to think Anuj will cheat on her when it is ok for Kinjal to stay with her son who cheated on her for his needs when she was pregnant.

Kudh ka beta cheat kare to no issue but now getting scared to think ke agar Anuj usko cheat karega to uska kya hoga.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Anuj will always remain a puppy. He is mentally ill. Normal hota to shaadi hi Naa karta is jaisi se.

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Originally posted by: zohakhan7

What do u expect from a woman like her who not only forgiven her abuser ex husband but is playing games happily with him,forgiven her cheater son and manipulated her young,independent,beautiful,educated daughter in law to forgive her useless n cheater son n made her stay with him.Now why is she scared to think Anuj will cheat on her when it is ok for Kinjal to stay with her son who cheated on her for his needs when she was pregnant.

Kudh ka beta cheat kare to no issue but now getting scared to think ke agar Anuj usko cheat karega to uska kya hoga.

You forgot about Kavya ...the woman who was cheating with her husband and pretending to be her friend.....has been forgiven and is a bestie now because she is Devi ji's bhakt now...

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

You forgot about Kavya ...the woman who was cheating with her husband and pretending to be her friend.....has been forgiven and is a bestie now because she is Devi ji's bhakt now...

And deviji even gave her unhygienic saree pallu to wipe her tears...Such friendship goals they give..

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem

Anupama is scared because anuj went with Maya but why


In todays time husbands travel abroad and stay with women colleagues in same home in USA/UK etc


Its common for men to stay with female colleagues in while travelling or in same service apartment with two bedrooms etc (from indian companies)


So whys anupama reacting so much?


Tomorrow anuj goes on business trip to US or eurpoe she will follow him everywhere to see which rented house he stays and with how many other female colleagues or what?


Does she not have that much confidence on her husband that he will not stray or sleep like toshu or vanraj with another woman?


Or she knows that shes not fit to be anuj kapadiya wife as shes not good looking smart educated or business woman or professional like maya or kavya or kinjal etc


If we marry we cannot follow husbands everywhere where they go to keep watch what they do with other woman you must have confidence that no matter which woman tries to attract your man he will be loyal to you


If anupama cannot have confidence in her ability as anuj wife that that means she too knows anuj is way above her ability and may try to find better partner in life or companion that shes not right partner for him


Usually people marry to their education leavel and status and professional level only in past 20 years unless not relatives or family friends means parents arrange that marriages


Where have you seen an MBA US returned marrying 10th pass local medium woman and mother of 3 kids when hes all alone and bachelor in india or abroad? Nowadays people match their qualification or ability etc like a doctor will marry a BE or MBA or MBBS or PHD or CA or nurse they will not marry BSC or BA pass too nowadays anyone equal or above in education or their fields. Its not only managing house people need companion to know their profession and have meaningful conversations too after coming home every evening etc


Same way they will match their class too like anuj is millionaire such ppl they will search wife whose almost similar status in society for compatibility


If anupama is insecure of maya or any woman being alone with anuj even in a room or house or hotel it means shes scared that shes neither in education nor status nor profession equal to anuj very below him hence insecure


Because its common on tours or business trips to live in same house as female colleagues or professions in USA or europe for indian nowadays


If ppl go one college trips do not male or female classmates sleep in a big room together etc even in india colleges. Ask ppl in metro city this is all common nowadays


This is stupidity to think if a man and woman go together they will sleep together or to do affair only


Anupama has this thought means shes unfit to anuj kapadiya class or level of thinking too because in business its common to share rooms by men and women in hotel or rented apartment or homes etc nowadays

That is what I don’t get either. If she was still married to Vinrij and he went on trips with other female colleagues, I could see because of his cheating in past but here she is with a man who has shown with words and action that his heart and body belongs to her so this insecurity doesn’t make sense to me.

I just find it clownish for a woman her age acting this desperate.

I can’t speak for all woman, but my husband has attractive colleagues he travels with on business trips, and young female employees under him that I am pretty sure he works very close with but if I become insecure,and this desperate where I have to call him every few minutes, I have no business being married.



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Posted: 2 years ago
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I am sure she thinks that Anuj will not get attracted to Maya .


But for CA he might form a complete family with Maya.


She has fears and self doubts that she isnt giving much time to Anuj and CA and its already hurting Anuj.


But im sure Anuj would not fall for Maya. I mean the guy has wasted his 26 years of life, he is handsome and could have married anyone.

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