If anupama is scared does that mean she thinks.............? - Page 2

Originally posted by: GunDaa

I am sure she thinks that Anuj will not get attracted to Maya .

But for CA he might form a complete family with Maya.

She has fears and self doubts that she isnt giving much time to Anuj and CA and its already hurting Anuj.

But im sure Anuj would not fall for Maya. I mean the guy has wasted his 26 years of life, he is handsome and could have married anyone.

But would anuj like to spend rest of life with a woman who gives 90% time to shahs and only 10% to anuj and CA or his other family physically and mentally and emotionally

Why marry than if your spouse is emotionally and mentally only thinking and married to another family most of the time even when physically with you for 10% of the waking time?

In Shah house anupama never remembers anuj or CA or kapadiya house ever. Yesterday she did but of jealous and fear that maya went with anuj. If maya went only with CA i doubt anupama would think of CA and maya together even once. But because anuj went with CA and maya shes continously thinking of anuj. Never seen her remember anuj or CA at shah house ever. She acts like shahs are her real family when shes with shahs and never remembers anuj or CA or her extended family kapadiyas till maya arrived. Compared to that anuj remembers her at office or in parks or in picnics even when others are there

And would anuj be ok when he completely ha trusted anupama with vanraj her ex in shah house, she keeps doubting and having anxiety attacks thinking of him with other woman when he goes out. If i am anuj i would be wild if my spouse starts such drama or thinks/speaks about my decisions like anupama is doing at shahs and even before they left at kapadiyas just because i go out with a colleague or family friend etc on picnics few days. When anuj is allowing her to go everyday at ex house 95% times without any real reason anuapma has no rights to doubt or suspect him etc actually.

In reality you do not get husband like anuj kapadiya in india or USA who will be so liberal to allow wife to go everyday to ex house that too when all 3 of her kids are adult and 2 have spouses too

CVs lost the plot here.

"Mujhe sab sab sab chahiye" ne sab barbaad kar diya.

Originally posted by: GunDaa

I am sure she thinks that Anuj will not get attracted to Maya .

But for CA he might form a complete family with Maya.

She has fears and self doubts that she isnt giving much time to Anuj and CA and its already hurting Anuj.

But im sure Anuj would not fall for Maya. I mean the guy has wasted his 26 years of life, he is handsome and could have married anyone.

for a moment perhaps one could give Anupama the benefit of doubt that she’s been cheated on in her previous marriage and thats the reason of her fear but if you think on the contrary, she’s being unfair to Anuj for even letting the insane thought come to her mind…she knows Anuj is no Vanraj and to doubt him is like doubting herself in a way?

The last time a woman came close to her husband, she discovered that he was cheating on her so her being scared is normal. She knows that Anuj loves her and will never cheat on her but wo kehte hai na, dudh ka jala chhach bhi fuk fuk kr peeta h!

Originally posted by: myviewprem

But would anuj like to spend rest of life with a woman who gives 90% time to shahs and only 10% to anuj and CA or his other family physically and mentally and emotionally

Why marry than if your spouse is emotionally and mentally only thinking and married to another family most of the time even when physically with you for 10% of the waking time?

In Shah house anupama never remembers anuj or CA or kapadiya house ever. Yesterday she did but of jealous and fear that maya went with anuj. If maya went only with CA i doubt anupama would think of CA and maya together even once. But because anuj went with CA and maya shes continously thinking of anuj. Never seen her remember anuj or CA at shah house ever. She acts like shahs are her real family when shes with shahs and never remembers anuj or CA or her extended family kapadiyas till maya arrived. Compared to that anuj remembers her at office or in parks or in picnics even when others are there

And would anuj be ok when he completely ha trusted anupama with vanraj her ex in shah house, she keeps doubting and having anxiety attacks thinking of him with other woman when he goes out. If i am anuj i would be wild if my spouse starts such drama or thinks/speaks about my decisions like anupama is doing at shahs and even before they left at kapadiyas just because i go out with a colleague or family friend etc on picnics few days. When anuj is allowing her to go everyday at ex house 95% times without any real reason anuapma has no rights to doubt or suspect him etc actually.

In reality you do not get husband like anuj kapadiya in india or USA who will be so liberal to allow wife to go everyday to ex house that too when all 3 of her kids are adult and 2 have spouses too

Originally posted by: hinz

@ bold-precisely…

for a moment perhaps one could give Anupama the benefit of doubt that she’s been cheated on in her previous marriage and thats the reason of her fear but if you think on the contrary, she’s being unfair to Anuj for even letting the insane thought come to her mind…she knows Anuj is no Vanraj and to doubt him is like doubting herself in a way?

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

I think if everything was normal, I mean, Anuj hadn't told her again and again that he wants her attention for Anu and himself, it wouldn't have ever occurred to her. Now she's feeling that she's being replaced by another person in her own home. College trips and other trips are different. This was supposed to be her family but some other woman is going in HER place. Letting your husband go with a female colleague is different from letting him go with another woman, when you were supposed to be in her place. I think her heart is aching because of it.

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

Heartache that she is a root cause of. She has herself to blame here.