AbhiM discovers a new Ak: Epi Air Date Jan 24 2023 - Page 28

@Red 👏

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

let me begin by saying I love you jyothi 🤗 please don’t take my point of view personally, you are my betal angels James Bond 💕

I understand what you are saying

I am not blaming Abhimanyu or absolving akshara I agree she needs to stop and think before she rushes to solve things

these are questions I ask myself

Why do we as viewers say Abhimanyu has been so patient with her, she has crossed the line, who determines the line, he has also crossed the line many times in his reactions

why is Abhimanyu’s behaviour dependent on how akshara reacts to him, does it give license to a person to react angrily if a person doesn’t listen to him, could Abhi not have left the room, calmed down, why do we say oh that’s his nature so it’s expected of him to get angry, it’s for drama

I accept that Ab wanted her to go to the room, because he was in no state to handle things, and also maybe he wanted to protect her from reactions of his family ( I hope so , not sure) and I personally feel Ak should have stayed in her room till matters calmed down, becoz her presence angered Arohi and Manjari

but there’s a part of me which asks why, she also considered Neil as her brother, so why should she not be allowed to mourn his death in her own way, is it because her presence causes pain to Arohi Abhimanyu and Manjari, so indirectly am I blaming her for Neil’s death, is there a guarantee that Ak and MM would treat her better if she had left the room

Does one have to tiptoe around your spouse/ family for fear of igniting his/ her anger,

I would just like to reiterate I am not blaming Ab or Ak they both reacted to the situation based on their life experiences and their nature,

where do we go from here, are they going to show introspection from both i would also like to ask sitara did they put a disclaimer when manjari and Abhimanyu were scolding ak, that such behaviour is unacceptable, ( not sure if they did)

but they did put one when parth slapped Shefali

I don’t know what I have written I hope it makes sense

I also want to specify I am not an Abhinav akshara pair supporter/ shipper or Abhimanyu/ new girl for him / or Arohi supporter. No new person can make you/ keep you happy if you are not happy or healed inside yourself

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Agreed. Abhi has always had these anger tendencies. It was going to one day befall Akshu. This is why I never got all emotional about Abhi being this "perfect male lead" nor the "impefect perfect male lead".

I am still upset with what he did to Akshu. But truth is Akshu also does not listen and does what she wants even when others tried to sheild her from getting involved. She didn't deserve that severe of a backlash considering she herself was suffering.

The separation was harsh but I got why. What is irking everyone is Abhi not seeing what he did wrong. Its the same thing for Akshu right now. Hiding her son is wrong. 6 years is plenty of time for her to have reached out and let him know he had a child.

Abhi's mistake does not make Akshu’s mistake right. Nor Akshu’s mistake makes Abhi's mistake right.

Writers have to redeem both characters to have them understand where they went wrong. When people say they want old Abhi back, for me its not his anger but his ability to stand up to right and wrong and to actually take accountability for his actions and stand firm to protect Akshu. In this case to protect her from his family when his mother starts to meddle.

HC is a fabulous actor but even he cannot save/help correct a horrible script or very bad dialogues. We feel for Abhi to a certain extent but the mintue he starts his taunts on Akshu we disconnect. Its the same with PR. She cannot convey Akshu properly if the writers have her going here or there. And most importantly her dialogues.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

They are 200% confident that with HC’s eyes, body, abs and lover boy antics he can be redeemed easily in our eyes so they went too far that day. I doubt the makers have any intention of showing realization and actually getting help for his mental and anger issues - they mentioned Abhi going for therapy but I don’t think they did anything with that.
To makes things worse, Abhi is now shown to have selective amnesia with absolutely no self awareness. He has absolutely no recollection of what he did, what he said in his anger the day he threw Akshara out. He seems to have conveniently repressed that memory to suit his needs. It’s like he’s in a trance.

maybe his calmness being shown is as a result of the therapy, one can only hope. Also after seeing Ak, he didnt do any thodpod. Lets see how long that lasts. I did miss the old Abhi roar with the electricity chor but then again I loved Ak in that new avatar and each other witnessing their changed behaviours.

As for Abhi's amnesia, purely for more drama. Based on the new promo, I was trying to figure out what the purpose of Abhi's visit to shimla was, just so Manic Manju could know he is really lonely and as expected for Abhi to agree to the unthinkable😡😡.

Whatever happened to that IF spoiler of Nav being injured, can we still hope for Nav to insist on driving Abhi and they meet with an accident and Abhi saves him. So not interested in seeing udaipur drama.

Certainly feels like Abhi’s Shimla trip was just so he could personally confirm that Akshara has moved on. And then come home and be manipulated by Khandeshwari to agree to marry Aarohi on paper.

Now Abhi will do ( for Roohi) exactly what Ak did for Abhir - get into a legal marriage of convenience.

The story will shift to Udaipur and the Birla Shark tank.

Shefali should call Parth and Mahima out for DV. The actress playing Shef is very good. They can use her to accuse Manjari and Abhi of doing the same thing to Akshara. If this happens I am satisfied.

Originally posted by: sunshining

maybe his calmness being shown is as a result of the therapy, one can only hope. Also after seeing Ak, he didnt do any thodpod. Let’s see how long that lasts. I did miss the old Abhi roar with the electricity chor but then again I loved Ak in that new avatar and each other witnessing their changed behaviours.

As for Abhi's amnesia, purely for more drama. Based on the new promo, I was trying to figure out what the purpose of Abhi's visit to shimla was, just so Manic Manju could know he is really lonely and as expected for Abhi to agree to the unthinkable😡😡.

Whatever happened to that IF spoiler of Nav being injured, can we still hope for Nav to insist on driving Abhi and they meet with an accident and Abhi saves him. So not interested in seeing udaipur drama.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

Nice post Grace🤗i have only one dilemma what does a woman do if her spouse has divorced her and said he wants nothing to do with her or her child anymore ( not sure if Abhimanyu said that about her child, when she tried to reach out to him or when the new chr spoke to him) Choco’s post yesterday really affected me Grace, he was celebrating mom’s birthday and treating Arohi so well but when it comes to Ak emotionally affected so can’t deal with it

Life moves on always.

You are sad do you not drink water or eat food?

You are sad do you not still go to work? (Bills have to be paid)

You are sad do you not still take a shower and go to the bathroom?

You are sad but do you not put that aside to celebrate a parent's birthday? (In this case his mother is a nervous emotional wreck that the mere mention of Akshu apparently sends her into hyper tension and fainting spells. Even if Abhi wanted to mope and lock himself in a room to contemplate he wouldn't be able to because of his mom's emotional blackmail. To know that thinking about an ex would send her to Birla Hospital her other permanent house of residence is strong stuff.)

Many people go about their day fulfilling their responsibilities or doing their duty. But what is inside does not always reflect on the outside.

I am going to post something I saw on Twitter. Its from a male viewer and gives some prospective on how sometimes males react. Jus thought it was interesting. Food for thought. Not saying it is the case for eveyone.

https://twitter.com/lemarrionette/status/1616682960312496129?t=i_wFrX9jP_ecgUPi3e1Zew&s=19

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Life moves on always.

You are sad do you not drink water or eat food?

You are sad do you not still go to work? (Bills have to be paid)

You are sad do you not still take a shower and go to the bathroom?

You are sad but do you not put that aside to celebrate a parent's birthday? (In this case his mother is a nervous emotional wreck that the mere mention of Akshu apparently sends her into hyper tension and fainting spells. Even if Abhi wanted to mope and lock himself in a room to contemplate he wouldn't be able to because of his mom's emotional blackmail. To know that thinking about an ex would send her to Birla Hospital her other permanent house of residence is strong stuff.)

Many people go about their day fulfilling their responsibilities or doing their duty. But what is inside does not always reflect on the outside.

I am going to post something I saw on Twitter. Its from a male viewer and gives some prospective on how sometimes males react. Jus thought it was interesting. Food for thought. Not saying it is the case for eveyone.

https://twitter.com/lemarrionette/status/1616682960312496129?t=i_wFrX9jP_ecgUPi3e1Zew&s=19

I hope my post doesn’t come across as bitter or angry, if it does I am sorry, 🤗❤️

This is truly disgusting i tell u

https://twitter.com/PA010401/status/1617541216635342848?s=19

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

insightful post Grace, points to ponder This topic about mother and son triggers something inside me, Abhimanyu has to build the courage to get out of his mom’s manipulation, I may sound harsh but I don’t feel sorry for him when he fears for his mom’s health I have been through emo blackmail of the worst kind, which turned my whole life upside down, I am not saying one should not love their mother, they should but I am not moved by this devotion he has for his mom, and it’s purely based on my life experiences rest I agree life moves on, it just saddens me that he doesn’t have/show the same consideration/ kindness for his spouse

I hope my post doesn’t come across as bitter or angry, if it does I am sorry, 🤗❤️

Loving your parents is great. But there is a line to draw.

Abhi drew that line for his father (for other obvious reasons) but he has trouble drawing that line with his mother. The only hope is Abhir will give him the courage to draw that line. When he sees his mother meddling in matters of raising his own son I hope it will kick him to say no.

I lament that the writers have mucked this up with the storyline and not giving certain characters a story that we lost so many people. Vinay Sir as Harshvardhan was excellent I was waiting for Abhi and Harshvardhan to come to an understanding and Abhi seeking more guidance from his father who had shown time and time again he knew his son better. But not sure if Vinay Sir left the show. Honestly wouldn't surprise me. A well established veteran actor like him can find better work than YRKKH.

I don't feel sorry for Manjari at all now. What Harshvardhan did was not acceptable. But she needs no sheild anymore and Abhi has to stop protecting her.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

Certainly feels like Abhi’s Shimla trip was just so he could personally confirm that Akshara has moved on. And then come home and be manipulated by Khandeshwari to agree to marry Aarohi on paper.

Now Abhi will do ( for Roohi) exactly what Ak did for Abhir - get into a legal marriage of convenience.

The story will shift to Udaipur and the Birla Shark tank.

Shefali should call Parth and Mahima out for DV. The actress playing Shef is very good. They can use her to accuse Manjari and Abhi of doing the same thing to Akshara. If this happens I am satisfied.

both in legal mg of convenience, how will they get out of it , both Ak and Ab are the same they will never break each other’s marriages

Originally posted by: Aarthiviji

This is truly disgusting i tell u

https://twitter.com/PA010401/status/1617541216635342848?s=19

Let's try not to get into the drama behind the scenes.

I try to speak only to the character she is playing. I may make comments on areas of her acting that she needs to improve but this other stuff we should stay away from to keep this place healthy and negative free. Even if I don't approve of the behavior.