AbhiM discovers a new Ak: Epi Air Date Jan 24 2023 - Page 30

Originally posted by: sunshining

@bold. Nitya, my turn to give you hugs and kisses 🤗🤗💕💕. Such an ordeal to go through. I hope you managed to come out of it unscathed.

When I watch itv shows and the way they show mums manipulating, I often think that just happens in reel, hard to believe it can happen in real.

That brings me to this question. Not just in shows but in real too, why are women the worst enemies for their own kind. I am not excusing Abhi here he is still responsible for everything he did. But I wish as a mother Manic Manju was shown to be at least empathetic towards Ak may be not that day because she was consumed by grief but at least later. Death is her only redemption.

Here is my conspiracy theory. It was Manic Manju's plan to get Neil killed and put the blame on Ak. killing two birds in one go.

She never really loved Neil. She brought him home to hide his identity and make sure he never got his fathers love. Once the adoption truth was out, she made it all about herself to avoid being blamed and started showering extra love just so no one blamed her. Divorced Harsh so he didnt become a hindrance to her master plan.

Ak, she never liked her anyway. Her number 1 ambition in life was/still is to get Ar married to Abhi. So she just pretended to be Ak's mother but in essence was always the monster. What do you think?

Hello Ladies!!!

Love all your thought provoking posts and it helps see things with different perspectives, added with our life lessons and experiences. I can feel the “Shakthi” in each and every one of you.

All I wanted to say is BIG HUG 🤗🤗 to all of you…keep the “Shakthi” alive in YOU to cope with what life throws at us.
Stay Strong!!! Stay Blessed!!! 🤗🤗

Regards,

Sri

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

I agree Ash the kk separation involved only akshu and Ab, no third person involved that’s why they flaunted it

This time it’s completely different they have brought in a “ love” angle for both,(and children too )even if it’s one sided, convenience, we can give it any name but the truth is they are involving others in AkAb mg ,distasteful , but I guess that’s how sitara operates , the PH probably is keeping it quiet because the mighty GD had mocked other serials for what they show,now they’re doing the same, you had made a very wise point once , in the end it’s all to do with money/ career / job no one cares

you know what surprises me more. HC I recall in one of his interviews post Bepannah talking about having to take a poison pill so the story moves forward. How many poison pills is he on now?. This is probably the only show where I have seen his character completely destroyed. Looks like even he has had to compromise for money/career/job as you say.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

nice theory you are living upto your name betal angels, I sent you a pm did you get it

yes got it. Love you lots 💕💕.

Poison pill in terms of MU lack of trust, he even did seducing with false promises and bigamy. But this is uncontrollable anger coupled with DV. I hope he’s sure they will redeem him.

TRP audience I suppose don’t care about all this. And they are the masters the makers are serving.

Originally posted by: sunshining

you know what surprises me more. HC I recall in one of his interviews post Bepannah talking about having to take a poison pill so the story moves forward. How many poison pills is he on now?. This is probably the only show where I have seen his character completely destroyed. Looks like even he has had to compromise for money/career/job as you say.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

let me begin by saying I love you jyothi 🤗 please don’t take my point of view personally, you are my betal angels James Bond 💕

I understand what you are saying

I am not blaming Abhimanyu or absolving akshara I agree she needs to stop and think before she rushes to solve things

these are questions I ask myself

Why do we as viewers say Abhimanyu has been so patient with her, she has crossed the line, who determines the line, he has also crossed the line many times in his reactions

why is Abhimanyu’s behaviour dependent on how akshara reacts to him, does it give license to a person to react angrily if a person doesn’t listen to him, could Abhi not have left the room, calmed down, why do we say oh that’s his nature so it’s expected of him to get angry, it’s for drama

I accept that Ab wanted her to go to the room, because he was in no state to handle things, and also maybe he wanted to protect her from reactions of his family ( I hope so , not sure) and I personally feel Ak should have stayed in her room till matters calmed down, becoz her presence angered Arohi and Manjari

but there’s a part of me which asks why, she also considered Neil as her brother, so why should she not be allowed to mourn his death in her own way, is it because her presence causes pain to Arohi Abhimanyu and Manjari, so indirectly am I blaming her for Neil’s death, is there a guarantee that Ak and MM would treat her better if she had left the room

Does one have to tiptoe around your spouse/ family for fear of igniting his/ her anger,

I would just like to reiterate I am not blaming Ab or Ak they both reacted to the situation based on their life experiences and their nature,

where do we go from here, are they going to show introspection from both i would also like to ask sitara did they put a disclaimer when manjari and Abhimanyu were scolding ak, that such behaviour is unacceptable, ( not sure if they did)

but they did put one when parth slapped Shefali

I don’t know what I have written I hope it makes sense

I also want to specify I am not an Abhinav akshara pair supporter/ shipper or Abhimanyu/ new girl for him / or Arohi supporter. No new person can make you/ keep you happy if you are not happy or healed inside yourself

Lots of good questions.

Firstly, we are all making interpretations on fictional characters who at any point in time at the whim of the writers can be dragged to the lowest of lows and pulled up to the highest of the highs. Consistency is few and far between in the TRP race. Which is why truly debating whether fictional characters belong together or not is a bit moot. Abhimanyu is the ML and Askhara is FL. No debating about that. Either one of them go this show ends. Despite all the stuff going around seeing them both on screen in the same frame had me far more excited then seeing Birlas, Gonekas, and even illusionary family with Abhinav. I love Abhir and would prefer more scenes with him and Akshu or him and Abhi,

Actions and reactions are always connected. One person says one thing the next person response, etc. But you are correct there is a line between action and reaction / cause and affect. You can only control the reaction you give not the situation at hand. Your reaction can only help you better handle the situation.

Abhi from the beginning had a habit of forgiving or brushing things off to the side when it came to Akshu. Why? Because he was in Love. They fight but did not discuss about what lead to the issue and simply moved onto I love you and let's promise not do this again. This is where resentment and frustration can brew and eventually it will explode out into a fight in a very nasty way. I am not defending Abhi's behavior that day. It was bad. Does not excuse him letting her walk out in her condition. But I feel there was some precedence there for why Abhi started bringing up the past.

If writers are equal opportunity then Akshu has the right to call out Abhi's anger and the way he behaves.

From the start many complained how immature Abhi and Akshu were behaving once they confessed. No, mature talks. No actual discussions. We all had a picture in our mind that either Abhi would be mature and Akshu be the childish one. Or Akshu was the more mature one and Abhi was the childish one. What we got were two individuals completely new to love, trying to meld family relationships, and were so enraptured with the thought of what a "perfect" love life would be. But reality hit them hard. Very hard.

They had to face each other's traumas in the most dramatic ways and mostly due to poor communication, delayed communication, or meddling family members.

Balance was never fully there.

This is the journey of Abhira. It's not all rainbows and sunshine. There be winds and nasty storms. Its a journey about how they loved, how they fought, and how they loved again. At this point this is simply who they are. We can take it or leave it.

Originally posted by: sunshining

maybe his calmness being shown is as a result of the therapy, one can only hope. Also after seeing Ak, he didnt do any thodpod. Lets see how long that lasts. I did miss the old Abhi roar with the electricity chor but then again I loved Ak in that new avatar and each other witnessing their changed behaviours.

As for Abhi's amnesia, purely for more drama. Based on the new promo, I was trying to figure out what the purpose of Abhi's visit to shimla was, just so Manic Manju could know he is really lonely and as expected for Abhi to agree to the unthinkable😡😡.

Whatever happened to that IF spoiler of Nav being injured, can we still hope for Nav to insist on driving Abhi and they meet with an accident and Abhi saves him. So not interested in seeing udaipur drama.

I too agree Nisha,Abhis selective amnesia is for pure drama.

I also am not interested in udaipur drama.what happens if akshara got amnesia😉.She remembers only pre neil deadth.Then abhi and akshu will have to stay in the same room but he couldn't touch her.

Oh it will be fun.i think I am going madBut I want to see some progression

Originally posted by: sunshining

@bold. Nitya, my turn to give you hugs and kisses 🤗🤗💕💕. Such an ordeal to go through. I hope you managed to come out of it unscathed.

When I watch itv shows and the way they show mums manipulating, I often think that just happens in reel, hard to believe it can happen in real.

That brings me to this question. Not just in shows but in real too, why are women the worst enemies for their own kind. I am not excusing Abhi here he is still responsible for everything he did. But I wish as a mother Manic Manju was shown to be at least empathetic towards Ak may be not that day because she was consumed by grief but at least later. Death is her only redemption.

Here is my conspiracy theory. It was Manic Manju's plan to get Neil killed and put the blame on Ak. killing two birds in one go.

She never really loved Neil. She brought him home to hide his identity and make sure he never got his fathers love. Once the adoption truth was out, she made it all about herself to avoid being blamed and started showering extra love just so no one blamed her. Divorced Harsh so he didnt become a hindrance to her master plan.

Ak, she never liked her anyway. Her number 1 ambition in life was/still is to get Ar married to Abhi. So she just pretended to be Ak's mother but in essence was always the monster. What do you think?

You r right she never loved Neil.MM also has a God complexion.Thats y she is hell bend on taking others life decisions.she is a monster and a sadist. If we really think we can see how she made Neil at the receiving end of physical and emotional abuse by Papa birla.Neil never had any value among Birla brood.During the initial episode he was always treated by an outsider.

She really got her revenge on Harshvardans cheating her by making him hate and despise his own son