Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 09 Jan 2023 - Page 8

Why is Anupamaa’s ghosla still the Shah House even after marrying AK. They have been married for more than 6 months, fostering Anu for 3-4 months, yet the ghosla is Shahs not her new family with Anuj and Anu. Anuj’s extended family toh bhul jao. Mukku and GK are gayab.

I don't think Anuj has a ego. But ofcouse his friend will give a balanced opinion and advice.

Though I am not too impressed with Anupamaa or her reasoning recently lol but Rupali looks pretty in the saree with her hair down. I like her necklace as well.

One can only move on in life, if they want to! If u keep dwelling on the past and want others to pity u, then that is what going to happen.

If u want to move ahead, grow, be loved/respected/cared for; you need to love yourself. You need to stop pitying u or stop trying to make everything about you!

It was two childhood friends meeting each other after decades. reminiscing their childhood, catching up on their lives. But Maa made it about her 25 saal ki shaadi, her inability to be a good wife ( not mother to CA coz even now she doesnt care about that) and made a scene!

She should have discussed that in the morning with Anuj. Instead of dressing him up, she could bare her heart out for him to hear.

I would be so embarrassed if my spouse did this in front of my childhood friend who has no idea what went on in my life for last 30 yrs. In a way, she made that friend judge Anuj.

Anyways, Maa kabhi galat nahi ho sakti. When she cries and shares her heart, everyone feels like crying. When Anuj cries and shares his heart; he is forcing Anu to do what he wants!!!!

For me the most weird & illogical thing is her comparing anuj & CA with other responsibilities. I mean her previous relations are described as nightmares by her in bhashans. Her entire life has been tragedy & those people have abused her for years. How can a person even compare relations which are so precious according to her( in her own word) with people who made one's life hell..Where does prioritsing & managing even come from??

If Anuj & CA are responsibilities for her & shahs are also only reponsibilities where is the difference?? Imagine other way round..what if Anuj says barkha & his brother are his reponsibilities same as Anupmaa is his reponsibilty so he has to manage both..would that be taken so positively? NO..there people will say he has to choose his wife as he should recognise value true love !!

Super confused man!!

FD mein lots of people ka Anuj and Anupama mein double standards ki hadh hi nahi hai....

Basically it's been a couple of episodes since Anu had a chance for baashan, so makers were like "haii naya shikar mil gaya... Yaha rakege baashan...."

Seriously,why was that auto biography of Maa infront of Anuj's friend? There's a time and place for everything.. sab kehne ka ek tareekha hai, which Anu is not shown to have here .

I'm actually feeling bad for both of them, because it's doesn't seem like Anu is grasping the fasad ka jhad (fingers crossed for at least baby steps with no regressions)... Even now if SH Drama Factory ne koi stupid si kaand kar thi, she'll possibly run over there or probably guilt mein doobege and Anuj ko bhi guilt trip me bhejenge.

And poor Anuj.. the thought of his loneliness just grips my heart with sadness too... 6months of marriage and not a single proper moment with Anu &CA without SH Drama Factory wale....

Both of them need to sit down and talk ....to each other and probably seek professional help. Mein pehle se bhi soch raha tha ki ye koi type of Stockholm Syndrome hai?

It's going to be a long arduous journey........... But makers ka koi bharosa nahi, so not much expectations.

But main thing is, Dheeraj , he must be like "mein yaha kya sochkar aaya aur kaha phas gayi mein "🤣🤣.. and he hasn't met the SH pagals yet 😂😂

Originally posted by: Toto123

For me the most weird & illogical thing is her comparing anuj & CA with other responsibilities. I mean her previous relations are described as nightmares by her in bhashans. Her entire life has been tragedy & those people have abused her for years. How can a person even compare relations which are so precious according to her( in her own word) with people who made one's life hell..Where does prioritsing & managing even come from??

If Anuj & CA are responsibilities for her & shahs are also only reponsibilities where is the difference?? Imagine other way round..what if Anuj says barkha & his brother are his reponsibilities same as Anupmaa is his reponsibilty so he has to manage both..would that be taken so positively? NO..there people will say he has to choose his wife as he should recognise value true love !!

Super confused man!!

True, confusion hai

What I still don't get is Anupamaa ka yeh khonsa responsibility hai usko adult bacho se jo uski 6 saal ki choti beti se bhi zyada hai ?

2(T,P) are married, one has their own child now- who they should show some interest in taking care of... Kitna pathetic kaand Kiya Paritosh ne ? Uski Pari ke liye ? S too is said to be responsible and working.

Khonse responsibility hai uski ex saas se (baa - she herself has said "daraake dabake rekna saas"), her gaslighting Wale ex sasur (baapuji) se? they are infact the main responsibility of her ex husband.. you know ... their son a.k.a ACCH BETA ?

Her abusive cheating ex husband se aur uski wife se khonse responsibility??? Jiske liye uske pyar ko asequate time and saath nehi de sakti ?

In what same universe does a woman bhaag dhid karti hi after her ex sasural to THIS extent ? And actual mykaa bhoolkar yeh toxicity ki wholesale agency ko hi mykaa bana diya ?!! Her kids are there rishta hai aur rakna bhi hai.. but boundaries bhi nhi kichenge ?

Aisa hai to divorce kyu liya? Doosri shaadi karkar another duniy kyu basaya ? Confusing hai.. bohot bohot bohot confusing hai.. bolo....🤣🤣

P.s I'm sleep deprived and tired, so zyaada tamatr jhoote mat phekna please

Woh toh hain,the only unconditional and true love is of your parents.

And it's very sad to see when kids ill treat their parents.