Why women prefer best friend over husband or boyfriend - Page 5

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

Aryan was in jail and not dead(God forbid) He was going to be out sooner or later......but the fact that she ignored SRK's pain at that time was so insensitive....I will never do that to my best friend....like never ever....well you have your own perception and I have my own.....nothing you will say will redeem Kajol's behaviour in that one month in my eyes and I know vice versa is also true...so lets agree to disagree.

BI, I rarely disagree with your reasoning and I can understand the dislike for Kajol's public behaviour.

However, what do we know went on on the private level? Nothing.

She could have spoken MANY times with SRK/Gauri over the phone, she could have had issues with Ajay not wanting her to take a stand openly that would give a hint where her genuine loyalties are. SRK may have advised/demanded his friends to abstain from any open take on what was/had been done to Aryan/to his family (which I firmly believe he did indeed).

And DDLJ celebration definitely wasn't on his mind at that time...

Friendships like this are fair-weather ... 'A Fox in a hen house' scenario 👏

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Women prefer anyone who shows them some love.. It is not understandable for the male gender though, they never seem to want to settle down with their best friends ..

Originally posted by: YourCat

Women prefer anyone who shows them some love.. It is not understandable for the male gender though, they never seem to want to settle down with their best friends ..

Quoting_YourCat 😃

YourCat_Has to be available to show them love ...

And to make it understandable to the male gender,

So they can want to seem to settle down being a best friend to YourCat

Originally posted by: Clochette

BI, I rarely disagree with your reasoning and I can understand the dislike for Kajol's public behaviour.

However, what do we know went on on the private level? Nothing.

She could have spoken MANY times with SRK/Gauri over the phone, she could have had issues with Ajay not wanting her to take a stand openly that would give a hint where her genuine loyalties are. SRK may have advised/demanded his friends to abstain from any open take on what was/had been done to Aryan/to his family (which I firmly believe he did indeed).

And DDLJ celebration definitely wasn't on his mind at that time...

You got me all wrong......I am not talking about what she did not do....but what she did do.....I totally understand her and Ajay's fears about supporting SRK openly in the current environment......They have 2 kids of their own and not risking them is fair and understood....when I say that SRK should keep his mouth shut ...how can I expect others to speak openly....

Her not supporting SRK openly....or wishing him Happy B'Day openly is understood.....but while SRK is suffering because of Aryan being in jail.....how do you expect his best friend to put happy posts about herself and her kids.......Aryan going to jail is the toughest and the saddest thing SRK must have faced after losing his parents and in this tough time .....a best friend is not supposed to behave as it doesn't affect them at all....like they don't care......her professional commitments.her celebrating DDLJ are all fine.....I only had problems with personal posts which could have been posted once Aryan was out......She is a mother herself....how could she not have empathy and sympathy as a parent for her best friend......I don't even know SRK personally and yet I was so disturbed to what happened to Aryan.....not as a fan but as a parent....like I said before....if it was my best friend I would have suffered with her....

Whatever Kajol did as a person is fine.....as a best friend no....heck not even a friend...

Did you see Hritik's post....he is not even SRK's friend and the post he wrote about Aryan was so brave knowing that he has 2 sons of his own....

So many supported and sympathized with SRK at that time....and they were not even friends of SRK...just random people and in between those SRK's supposed best friend Kajol's happy posts stood out like a sore thumb...

Also this

Is thread inspired by those girl before husband and girl before bestie cringe fantasies meme

Originally posted by: Newbird

^^ On similar note- My ex turned into ex but my friends have not turned into ex-friends! That's tell you something!

Friends are forever, men are whatever😆

My case is ulta though...ive had the same man forever, but my friends change like underwear🤣

Originally posted by: la_Reine

Friends are forever, men are whatever😆

My case is ulta though...ive had the same man forever, but my friends change like underwear🤣

Your friends change every single day?! And you are disclosing this after we have become buddies? Oh okay..I see how it is

Originally posted by: Supari_khala

Also this

Why are you giving him 2 extra minutes to text you back? Queen of generosity! ❤️