Feeling bad for Sumbhul - Page 2

Sumbul has been guided by one and all but she doeant want to change because she knows what she is doing and wanta to do that only her words never match her actions so no point in feeling bad for her given she is paying the price of her actions and she is well aware of her actions

I don't think sumbul has any romantic feelings for shalin...bas liking as a friend is definitely there but I have never got the feelng of her being insecure with tina and shalin's PDA...she behaved normally around them..

Poor girl was dragged by tina because it's tina who is really insecure of sumbul's popularity and fears sumbul's pairing with shalin might gain more traction with than hers with her sha..i think her failure to make it in my glam has fueled her hatred and insecurity to the point where she has now become obsessed with sumbul and going at her with full vengence , not realizing she is only a teenager and she a full grown women in her 30s..

I genuinely felt so bad for Sumbul. They don’t need to humiliate her again and again but I do think she has a crush on him. May be in her words she doesn’t feel that way but her actions and desperation prove otherwise. Moreover Shalin is also partly responsible. Even if it’s not a crush there’s some emotional feelings involved and Tina being a jealous and petty person that she is,is trying to give it a narrative. Sumbul shouldn’t have come to this show IMO. Hope she gets good and sensible people to guide her properly.

God I don't get the hate Sumbul gets ,y just because apparently she has a crush on Shalin ,so what it's her life ,her choice ,there was no need for her to get shut shamed on national television.

. she has been constantly denying that there are no feeling involved, why can't we take her NO as answer .

In a show where there are molesters ,abusers and mcp's sumbul gets the utmost hate

Originally posted by: YeahMe

God I don't get the hate Sumbul gets ,y just because apparently she has a crush on Shalin ,so what it's her life ,her choice ,there was no need for her to get shut shamed on national television.

. she has been constantly denying that there are no feeling involved, why can't we take her NO as answer .

In a show where there are molesters ,abusers and mcp's sumbul gets the utmost hate

Originally posted by: YeahMe

God I don't get the hate Sumbul gets ,y just because apparently she has a crush on Shalin ,so what it's her life ,her choice ,there was no need for her to get shut shamed on national television.

. she has been constantly denying that there are no feeling involved, why can't we take her NO as answer .

In a show where there are molesters ,abusers and mcp's sumbul gets the utmost hate

Her No doesnt translate into her actions thats why and she has no relevance in the show beyond the Shalin angle

I also feel for Sumbul, always have but sometimes her own actions has me disliking her.

However, when it comes to this situation with Sha I think there is some reason for her clinginess.

- she comes from one parent house, where the father is the authority. Though I don't know her what little I've seen of her father my impression is he rules her, tells where what to do in terms of her career and etc. Out of all the contestants in the house Sha is very alpha - meaning he can take charge just by his sheer aggressive and behaviour and given her background, she latched on to him. An older man represents safety and in her mind, will take care of her if things get bad.

- the House is a pit of snakes. You need a lot of life experience to play the mind games they are doing, the cunning some showing (Tina). And 18yr old - no matter how long she has worked - is not a match simply because they have not lived as much as the others and only by living do you gain the experience and the savviness to understand others. Even Abdu, only an year old, is left clueless at times and needs the others to explain. Sumbul has no one beside Sha and as we all have seen he is savvy and playing his own game and not above using her for the numbers.

- It is a number game. The more followers you have, the more likely you will stay the longest and may win as well. Sha and Tina know this very, very well. They are using one another because they recognise each other as the longest from the tv industry. Then Sumbul, they find out has huge followers. With her father coming, they were given another clue that BB is keeping an eye on her (my personal belief is that it is due to her mental health, she was bad the first week or two) and that she of some consequence. This is why they both keep her stringing on. I would like to think Sha has some decency, realises that Sumbul is holding on to him like a anchor in the wild boat ride that is the BB house and so he is kind to her whilst keeping a firm stance from it advancing to anything personal.

Sumbul, I don't think she has deep feelings for him beyond he is her friend. Out of everyone, she is very loyal to him and I think Sha knows this. She is very attached to him, it is obvious from her traumatised action from the stan/sha argument. She definitely got scared, and in her mind she thinks she has to protect him from everyone and anything that could harm him. Out of everyone, her emotions were very genuine but Tina took it and twisted it into something ugly. Sumbul does herself no favour as well, she needs to sit down and make it clear so (we) and the HM can hear it. But I think she is very private by nature and is also too young to understand that opening up can help her - in this, she is typical teen. They find it difficult to open up about their emotions and talk about what is happening. Somewhere I also think she knows she will be ridiculed.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

I also feel for Sumbul, always have but sometimes her own actions has me disliking her.

However, when it comes to this situation with Sha I think there is some reason for her clinginess.

- she comes from one parent house, where the father is the authority. Though I don't know her what little I've seen of her father my impression is he rules her, tells where what to do in terms of her career and etc. Out of all the contestants in the house Sha is very alpha - meaning he can take charge just by his sheer aggressive and behaviour and given her background, she latched on to him. An older man represents safety and in her mind, will take care of her if things get bad.

- the House is a pit of snakes. You need a lot of life experience to play the mind games they are doing, the cunning some showing (Tina). And 18yr old - no matter how long she has worked - is not a match simply because they have not lived as much as the others and only by living do you gain the experience and the savviness to understand others. Even Abdu, only an year old, is left clueless at times and needs the others to explain. Sumbul has no one beside Sha and as we all have seen he is savvy and playing his own game and not above using her for the numbers.

- It is a number game. The more followers you have, the more likely you will stay the longest and may win as well. Sha and Tina know this very, very well. They are using one another because they recognise each other as the longest from the tv industry. Then Sumbul, they find out has huge followers. With her father coming, they were given another clue that BB is keeping an eye on her (my personal belief is that it is due to her mental health, she was bad the first week or two) and that she of some consequence. This is why they both keep her stringing on. I would like to think Sha has some decency, realises that Sumbul is holding on to him like a anchor in the wild boat ride that is the BB house and so he is kind to her whilst keeping a firm stance from it advancing to anything personal.

Sumbul, I don't think she has deep feelings for him beyond he is her friend. Out of everyone, she is very loyal to him and I think Sha knows this. She is very attached to him, it is obvious from her traumatised action from the stan/sha argument. She definitely got scared, and in her mind she thinks she has to protect him from everyone and anything that could harm him. Out of everyone, her emotions were very genuine but Tina took it and twisted it into something ugly. Sumbul does herself no favour as well, she needs to sit down and make it clear so (we) and the HM can hear it. But I think she is very private by nature and is also too young to understand that opening up can help her - in this, she is typical teen. They find it difficult to open up about their emotions and talk about what is happening. Somewhere I also think she knows she will be ridiculed.

Originally posted by: infinity101

I think she needs to get out of Shalin Tina’s company, they are no good for her IMO. She can have plenty of friends in that house but still she chooses to stick to Shalin.

No one is a true friend in that house, tbh.

But yes she does need to find others but I think it's too late for that now for her. No one will trust her.

One of the crucial thing to do in BB is form a group and build trust. She did neither. In the last task, she openly betrayed her group. Everyone by now knows she is attached to Sha, will never turn her back on him and for that reason I think no one will trust her.

I only hope her mental health does not deteriorate further.

Originally posted by: infinity101

I think she needs to get out of Shalin Tina’s company, they are no good for her IMO. She can have plenty of friends in that house but still she chooses to stick to Shalin.

No, I thi k she needs to stick to shalin all the more now seeing how much it irritates tina. Shalin also need to fuel her insecurities by giving more n more attention to sumbul.

After all Bb is about mind games and they should not take a step back and let tina have her way..