Honestly, I don't get why anupama always talks about us youngsters like we're all the same. She always thinks that....
"Anupama says a whole family is involved in marriage, everyone dreams are incomplete because of Pakhi and Adhik; if they had waited for some time, they would have been happiness everywhere. Pakhi says elders were not agreeing for marriage at all. Anupama says she should have convinced them and proved that she values both her love and family, but she wants an easy life and everything served on a plate. She continues that youngsters want everything instant and are pro in misbehaving with parents, but they don’t know patience. She continues her long speech and asks them to do whatever they want to and leave from there."
There are also many more episodes that she speaks negatively about us youngsters (that I can't remember the episode numbers). The show views us youngsters as "besharam" "batameez" "nalayak" "bewakoof" & many more etc.
There ARE youngsters who DO study, work hard, respect elders, who ARE patient, etc. But no one ever sees that.
For example ME, when I come home from college, i make my own lunch, study, watch TV with my parents, fold my clothes ready for college the next day, etc !!!!
The world nowadays IS INSTANT. we get machines for EVERYTHING...
■ paying for things
■ watching what goes on in and out of the houses
■ directons
■ to introduce ourselves
Speaking of "INSHTANT" anupama got admission in college INSHTANTLY, learned how to drive INSHTANTLY etc. So why is she talking about INSHTANT and all that ????
She also talks about youngsters not respecting elders also. Pakhi WAS RIGHT about one thing....
"Pakhi says when elders don’t listen to youngsters, even youngsters don’t listen to elders"
"Listen" doesn't always mean "obey". It also means hearing what people say also.
Elders gossip, body shaming, cook up storys about us, trying to get us married, say that we look a certain way, try to control how much and what we eat, etc, etc. And we us youngsters are supposed to stay quiet about all that ????!!!! We ain't all that to the elders !!!!
Some of us youngsters can't even live our lives due to elders discrimination towards us, abuse, scolding, invasion of our privacy, etc !!!!