Anupama and Anuj are hypocrites of the highest order

In my opinion, the main takeaway of this show is that if you have children from your previous marriage, don't remarry because your new husband no matter what he says won't accept them wholeheartedly.

Anuj's comments today really pissed me off. He said if Lord Ganesha can consider Maa Parvati and Mahadev as his parents, why can't parents consider their children to be their entire world? That the two Anupamas of his life are his universe. And he followed that up with saying "thoda hamare liye bhi jeete hain"?

Basically Anuj considers Anupama's responsibilities from her previous marriage to be a bhoj and an impediment to their happy life. Excuse me, I know many of you believe that Anupama doesn't prioritise her new family enough. But in this situation, Anupama being there for Kinjal shouldn't be considered as an inconvenience by Anuj, which he is doing right now. For Lord knows what reason Kinjal considers Anupama to be her mother. Girls after giving birth stay for months with their mom's to recuperate. Here, on top of a really painful delivery, Kinjal was also cheated upon by husband multiple times. If Anupama feels even a little bit of mother attitude towards Kinjal, she should be there for Kinjal today.

Didn't you hear Kinjal's dialogues today? She said she came to the Shah house because she was tired of being a burden on Anupama. Anupama made her woe be me face but didn't refute her at all. No matter what you say, your attitude determines what someone feels towards you. So if Kinjal feels this way, then it is because Anupama and Anuj through their actions and words haven't made her feel secure. I don't understand how Kinjal feels secure with Anupama. Honestly, she is really not appreciating Rakhi enough. Her mom is going to be the only one who is going to be there for her unconditionally without making her feel bad about it like Anupana would.

Some of you may say that the Shah members constantly barging into the Kapadia house is detrimental especially for choti Anu. True. For that, why don't you hire a security guard that won't let these people in whenever they come to the house to create Tamasha. As some of you said, if Anupama wants to place her older children on the back-burner and focus on her new kid and husband that's also fine. But then people like Kinjal must maintain a distance from them and only meet them couple of times in a year the way adult children meet their parents in most countries. Anupama should acknowledge that she has lost the privilege of having a say in every facet of her children's lives.

Most of uou say Anupama is a terrible mom to choti Anu? I say she us flaky af towards her older children? And yet Anupama keeps victimising herself about aurat ka bhatna and all that crap. Toh phir why is nobody benefiting from this situation?

Honestly this is such a regressive show. You can move on with life while still being there for your other children and this show shows that there will always be an innate conflict there. I think I hate all the adult characters here except for Rakhi.

Anupama was there today for kinjal in shah house and she said she will support her in divorce decision and it is not possible for anupama to be every time with kinjal kinja is adult not child ki use Har baar anupama uske liye daudi daudi aayegi

Better kinjal khud 100 number dial kare aur kahe ki yeh toshu mujhe pareshan kar raha hai

Sub khuch anupama hi kyon kare

And I don't know how anupama is hypocrite

Woh Jo khuch karti hai openly karti hai

Hypocrite ka Matlab when people try to hide their own real intention but anupama ne kabhi apna real intention hide nahi Kiya. Anupama Jo khuch hai sabke samne hai .she support baa openly she oppose baa openly In front of everyone be it rakhi aur anuj. Or Devika

Aise to nahi hai ki Anupama sub ko dikhane ke liye usne baa se jhagda Kiya ho woh Kitna strong hai aur peeche se baa ko respect deti ho

Anupama to openly baa ko respect deti openly vanraj ko Acha pita bulati thi even Anuj rakhi know this about anupama

Anupama should there for children but what about those children who continue uncessary blame her mother anupama ?and calling her own mother besharam

I am glad that anupama has guts to oppose her beta wrong doing

Firstly Anupama's children except Samar never actually acknowledged or respected Anuj wholeheartedly so it is not very surprising that he doesn't really love them.But again it is clearly seen that even if Pakhi & Toshu loved him like Samar he still wouldn't have reciprocated with the same love & energy.Now why I say this is because shaadi ke doosre din he felt that he needed a kid of his own & Anupama's kids are not enough, now at this time Pakhi & Toshu both had very affectionately accepted him at this time around,toshu even touched his feet while apologizing, but he still couldn't accept them.Secondly after Pakhi misbehaved with Anupama, he told her not to enter his house.Agar CA kabhi aise misbehave karti Anupama ke saath toh voh usse bhi aise hi bolta kya?Nahin bolta kabhi bhi.Thirdly as u said he was pissed off that she had to leave him & go,knowing that it is important for Kinjal for Anu to be there.CA ko kabhi aise anupama ki zaroorat padti yoh will he stop her,again no.Also he keeps telling her not to interfere in their kinjal's matter knowing that Kinjal regards her as her mother & that she has always been there for her,but I can't blame him for this jabki Devi Anupama ko hi Kinjal ke uske ghar rehne se problem thi.Devi ji only pretends that she loves everyone equally, but does she?When kinjal needed her that night tabb bhi she was cribbing about staying there.Basically the point is ki Anuj is not that Mahaan insaan he is praised for.Yes he puts up with shah drama but that is only because Anupama won't let them go,varna he would have very well been pleased with the fact if she agreed to stay away even from her kids.We say V& Baa & SH has not accepted CA,but when has Anuj accepted Anu's kids as his own?Aur baat rahi Devi ji ki toh yeh bas pretend karti hai she cares for everyone, when she actually doesn't. She neither loves Kinjal like Pakhi,nor can she actually make time for her older kids without cribbing & gaining sympathy.

Are you serious? Yes, they are hypocrites but not for the reasons you mentioned. Why can't a husband want to spend some time with his wife? Anuj has been extremely understanding regarding Anu's uncultured selfish family. Her kids insulted him many times, yet he always welcomed him in his house. Even during his sickness he did not prohibit Anu from staying with her DIL which any normal husband would have done. I am a mother myself and I know after delivery a mother needs her mother the most. But Anu is not Kinjal's mother. For the millionth time I am saying this Anu is not Kinjal's mom, Rakhi is. If Anuj does not let Anu stay with Pakhi after her delivery, then I will bash him and call him hypocrite. Anu should focus only on her husband, 4 kids and her widow mom.

Rakhi is enough to handle her daughter.

Anupama can’t say NO when children run to anupama!

Life can give daily some reasons to say NO to children when they run towards you without using brain.

When Kinjal run to anupama’s house for support with her 6-7 days old daughter, As a mother, as a mother in law , as an elderly woman, anupama didn’t explain kinjal that it is not good for 6-7 days old pari the way you run to my house . It’s not good to stay with entirely new household when you have newborn.

As a mother, as a mother in law , as a dadi , as an elderly woman , anupama didn’t explain kinjal that mother’s first priority should be newborn above her mental status and comfort. For her newborn’s sake she should accept her own mother as an option who is enough wealthy to provide daimaa and hand helps to her because rakhi and anupama both are working.

Hamare yaha toh yeh baat baby ki dadi ek minute mai NO bol kar acche se samja de ki right now tum koi school college ki student nahi jiski koi dusri responsibily nahi hai jo freely sirf apne mental support system ka soch sake. You have just delivered baby and help for newborn is utmost priority so you should not stay in the new household in the situation where mother in law is working woman just like her mother so it’s better for newborn to stay and have good care at nanihal who is more closer in relation than dadi’s new sasural and who can provide daai maa /helpers etc also .


This is the issue of anupama, she can’t say NO and explain crux of life stage to her children when they run to anupama for any help.

In place of it they show bogus scenes like how deviji is running to help choked pari and wheelchair wala Anuj !

2 minute ke liye anupama apne 8-9 matke side mai rakh kar kya as mother , as a mother in law , as a dadi anupama kinjal ko crux of life stage nahi samja sakti thi !!

Just to show 8-9 matka on anupama’s head , track ka kachra kar deti hai gawar writer🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

anupama does not really love kinjal like her other real 3 kids

she just does not want to look bad so helping kinjal

Indeed kinjal has become garam ghee for anupama bichari ugalna chahthi hai nahi kar sakthi

Same way love anupam afeels for 3 biological kid she will never feel for adopted little anu

See thats ok apna khoon apna hai paraya paraya hai no matter what ppl say dialogues in real life too

If we say a stray dog hit by vehicle on road we will just pass by

Imagine if its your pet dog you will take full world on head only why?

Stary dog is stray only our dog is ours

Toh no matter what dialogue anupama says she will never feel emotion she feels for her 3 kids like for kinjal

Anuj again same thing anuj do not feel same love he feels for little anu towards anupama own 3 kids

Kyunki woh paraya bacche hain uske apne nahi

And they are like collateral damage with his love anupama he never wanted them but had no option

but little anu he adopted out of will so he loves her

But still anuj never really loved malvika or little anu as much as hes obsessed with his love anupama be he lets them get abused by shahs

although like anupama he was waxing eloquent about his love for malvika initially

aise bhai who gives full property to sister paida nahi hua apna ya paraya

the way h3e handed full property to anupama without giving 50% shares to Malvika just called out his bluff on sister love

Okay so I don’t agree with you here.

1. Kinjal has known Anu for 2 years and yet loves her more than her own mother for whatever moronic reason. Of course she is a bojh on Anu because Anu is newly married, has recently adopted a kid and needs to spend time with her. Kinjal has a strong support system already in her mother who has nothing else to do yet she keeps burdening Anu who has a young child to look after herself.

2. Every member of SH except Samar and Bapuji have treated Anu like crap for years while she kept sacrificing for them. Of COURSE Anuj doesn’t love them like his own, they are snakes in the grass. Still he has been INCREDIBLY patient just because they are Anu’s kin.

3. All these uncultured swines keep barging in his house and abusing his wife and child. Any man will get exasperated.

IMO Anuj should take Anu and CA and shift to US. Or at least another city. Both families will be happy. But then serial will end lol.

Originally posted by: ItsmeAzra

Firstly Anupama's children except Samar never actually acknowledged or respected Anuj wholeheartedly so it is not very surprising that he doesn't really love them.But again it is clearly seen that even if Pakhi & Toshu loved him like Samar he still wouldn't have reciprocated with the same love & energy.Now why I say this is because shaadi ke doosre din he felt that he needed a kid of his own & Anupama's kids are not enough, now at this time Pakhi & Toshu both had very affectionately accepted him at this time around,toshu even touched his feet while apologizing, but he still couldn't accept them.Secondly after Pakhi misbehaved with Anupama, he told her not to enter his house.Agar CA kabhi aise misbehave karti Anupama ke saath toh voh usse bhi aise hi bolta kya?Nahin bolta kabhi bhi.Thirdly as u said he was pissed off that she had to leave him & go,knowing that it is important for Kinjal for Anu to be there.CA ko kabhi aise anupama ki zaroorat padti yoh will he stop her,again no.Also he keeps telling her not to interfere in their kinjal's matter knowing that Kinjal regards her as her mother & that she has always been there for her,but I can't blame him for this jabki Devi Anupama ko hi Kinjal ke uske ghar rehne se problem thi.Devi ji only pretends that she loves everyone equally, but does she?When kinjal needed her that night tabb bhi she was cribbing about staying there.Basically the point is ki Anuj is not that Mahaan insaan he is praised for.Yes he puts up with shah drama but that is only because Anupama won't let them go,varna he would have very well been pleased with the fact if she agreed to stay away even from her kids.We say V& Baa & SH has not accepted CA,but when has Anuj accepted Anu's kids as his own?Aur baat rahi Devi ji ki toh yeh bas pretend karti hai she cares for everyone, when she actually doesn't. She neither loves Kinjal like Pakhi,nor can she actually make time for her older kids without cribbing & gaining sympathy.

I wish I could like this more than once. I don't even expect Anuj to love Anupama's children like his own. But just understand that Kinjal is as important to Anu as choti Anu (at least should be, because clearly with Anupama's constant complaining it doesn't seem to be the case).