What is true love? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Shiner

As per Spirituality it's the most sacred divine form of energy. We are souls in human form and we all come with baggage be it wounds trauma . For example A goes out with random people B C D .... B has depression then A is bound to feel depressed .... It's like u already have ur own baggage instead of healing it ...what u did ? Not just one but so many people so few minutes of pleasure what ur doing to urself on mind body soul level ? Honestly I don't think i m capable of explaining it properly so I wanted to post some link related to the topic but didn't find. It's a vast topic.

I respect your views, however historically people, majorly women have been ill-treated as well as killed in the name of virginity. Have you heard of white sheet test and female genital mutilation? White sheet test is the practice where groom's family check for blood stains on the white sheet of marital bed to confirm if the bride was virgin before the first night or not. If there is no stain, it is concluded that the girl was not virgin (aka used product) and then they proceed to abuse her and her family. What these people don't understand is that not all girls bleed after the first time. Now comes FGM, in this practice, girls as young as 5-year olds, have their private parts cut and stitched to maintain their virginity. And all this is done by someone who has no medical knowledge, without anesthesia, with a blade in some dirty hut. This is just the tip of ice berg, there are many more examples. When you say that virginity is not regressive, you, in a way justify these cruel practices.

Who defines what virginity is? Is it intercourse? Outercourse? Makeout? Kissing? Masturbation? I can list so many sexual activities that doesn't even involve those body parts. Who decides the limits?

You have the freedom of following any ideology. It is your right to seek out a partner who fulfills your expectations. However you do not have the right to question others choices. Virginity is regressive in a good society and it is accepted so by the scientific community.

Originally posted by: Shri_12

I respect your views, however historically people, majorly women have been ill-treated as well as killed in the name of virginity. Have you heard of white sheet test and female genital mutilation? White sheet test is the practice where groom's family check for blood stains on the white sheet of marital bed to confirm if the bride was virgin before the first night or not. If there is no stain, it is concluded that the girl was not virgin (aka used product) and then they proceed to abuse her and her family. What these people don't understand is that not all girls bleed after the first time. Now comes FGM, in this practice, girls as young as 5-year olds, have their private parts cut and stitched to maintain their virginity. And all this is done by someone who has no medical knowledge, without anesthesia, with a blade in some dirty hut. This is just the tip of ice berg, there are many more examples. When you say that virginity is not regressive, you, in a way justify these cruel practices.

Who defines what virginity is? Is it intercourse? Outercourse? Makeout? Kissing? Masturbation? I can list so many sexual activities that doesn't even involve those body parts. Who decides the limits?

You have the freedom of following any ideology. It is your right to seek out a partner who fulfills your expectations. However you do not have the right to question others choices. Virginity is regressive in a good society and it is accepted so by the scientific community.

I don't support these practices. What I wrote before based on Spirituality and if one deep dives into it then u know I haven't written wrong. It's not my personal belief and anyone can do their research before passing any judgement. Now I definitely dint want to support or promote in one night stand culture which is why I didn't support that statement. There is a beautiful statement written by forum member on this thread only that human makes love and animals do sex. Making love to that one person who u love the most is most divine ....

Respecting ur body respecting ur sacred energy is something I will promote but I don't support those cruel practices and secondly in case u don't know in this entire thread I m only one who supported anuj and his lifestyle. Everyone judged him critisised for being in relationship or flings and questioned his character. I believe that everyone has the right to live the life they want.

Originally posted by: Shiner

I don't support these practices. What I wrote before based on Spirituality and if one deep dives into it then u know I haven't written wrong. It's not my personal belief and anyone can do their research before passing any judgement. Now I definitely dint want to support or promote in one night stand culture which is why I didn't support that statement. There is a beautiful statement written by forum member on this thread only that human makes love and animals do sex. Making love to that one person who u love the most is most divine ....

Respecting ur body respecting ur sacred energy is something I will promote but I don't support those cruel practices and secondly in case u don't know in this entire thread I m only one who supported anuj and his lifestyle. Everyone judged him critisised for being in relationship or flings and questioned his character. I believe that everyone has the right to live the life they want.

Hey dear, I did not say that you are wrong. My reply was to the comment that you made stating that virginity is not regressive. I disagreed only on that point. You are untitled to your opinion with respect to everything, however one should be responsible when stating such things as facts. Rest like you mentioned, live and let live.

Thanks everyone for your opinion

I wanted to clarify that i am not saying anuj should never date anyone

Definetly date women and try to fmarry them

But before ONS and dating them inform you loved an anupama you may not really be marrying them or long term realtionship

after that if they are ok you can sleep or do whatever with them

But do not give them false hope

Just inform them your past love

Woman dating have right to know your past love and affairs or marriage status whether in USA or india

because many men hide and cheat in love or dating